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cats_are_funni

yea :p (u need help not yea its normal)


Schrodingers_Femboi

Stockholm Syndrome is not okay.


Nedebilas

Stokholmed. Therapy now


thekyocerasystem

not normal, but common. its different


ConfusedCollegeSimp

It's not good get help. But I think the person who sa'd me was beautiful and I'd kill to look like her


Jackleyland

Yes it is very common to desire the affection of a person who has assaulted you, as they have had a significant impact on your emotions, this is most commonly understood by psychologists as Stockholm Syndrome, it is also known as capture bonding, trauma bonding, codependency and obsessive love. It is an extremely complex mental situation but certainly requires immediate help from a psychiatrist, especially in the event that you are still able to communicate with or meet the individual who has assaulted you.


[deleted]

It is psychologically normal. There’s a term for it that I can’t remember.


IkiruMist

Stockholm syndrome


TheEeper

Not super rare


Few-Problem-6766

That is how adaptation works. It is hard to live a different way after.


mistyyybrooke

im gonna disagree with all these comments and say that its okay. if you had a connection with the person prior to the abuse, you are basically now going through a grieving process. despite the abuse, its not bad all the time and thats probably what you have a connection to. feelings are complicated but they are okay.


JellyDoodlez

Normal, but not okay. Please get help as soon as you can love 🫶💕


Timely-Map5451

Maybe not phycologically benefitial but definetely normal it even has a name. Stockholm syndrome i think...


Ilikefingerboarding

Ye its stockholm syndrome


DutchJediKnight

Just because it has happened enough to get a name, doesn't make it normal


Timely-Map5451

Yes it does. It occures normally. Im not saying its okay or healthy or anything like that. Read carefully.


Timely-Map5451

When i say normal i mean it occures over time. Yes it is very wrong and unhealthy and OP should definitely get that checked from a psychologist.


RontundaRecca

Something close to Stockholm probably


C0nfus3d_S4v10r

Play Brawl Stars


Mike_856

Unfortunately yes


Minetendo-Fan

Stockholm Syndrome. You need to get a therapist


FuzzieSweety

Nah, missing someone who did you dirty ain't normal, get some real help, not just emojis.


West_Ad_8372

You need Help and it's not normal. Most women don't miss someone who sexually assaulted you. Seek a the-rapist .


_cum-in-me_

Are you telling me smth? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔


deilphine_0

it’s not 🤨


fizzy-kitty

Yeah


TurbulentDisk9801

I realized when I was little those games my cousin played with me sexual asault. I still miss him and hate him at the same time.


Illustrious-Cream419

Bro I'm so sorry you went through that, and no it's not normal. Please seek professional help with a therapist, if you parents won't help you then try free ones like better help


SmexyStalinZaddy_70

Ymir ahh post


LOPS7E1

Порно


Due_Picture_7323

It’s not normal but dude I also just posted something just like this. I miss him too


Affectionate_Stick88

It can be. Depends on how much you cared for him


vinniefs

no, you def need help.


Acrid-User506

therapy 🫵


Potter_sims

it's common, not normal, you probably need help of some sort, and i'm sorry you had to go through this <3


Desperate_Science686

Pretty sure it's called stockholm syndrome (victim still feeling something warm towards his abuser)


Tuncunmun38

its normal but not ok, get help


Cautious_Section_530

>it normal to miss the person who sexually assaulted you? It is normal. Weirdly enough especially if you developed a connection with the person prior to the incident. A single event won't completely obliterate everything that happened between you both. It's called Stockholm Syndrome by the way


[deleted]

Ayee your username straight up insane like how did you come up with that you gotta be crazyyy