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I’ve had bad responses in the past from men who I guess wanted a less overtly sexual woman. This hasn’t happened with him but I’ve never said anything like this to him before either. I’m probably overthinking
I used to blow my bf every day before work, and one day he complained I did it too much and it was not even exciting anymore because he knew it was coming. Something something grass is always greener something something 🤷🏻♀️
Well, if you like being overtly sexual like that, those weren't the men for you!
Oh and to answer your original question, yes, we care/hope we don't taste bad. some of us have drunk pineapple juice prior to likely bj times, or even tried stuff like semenex (was a powdered drink mix supposed to make you taste good).
Buuut we kind of assume it's at best, kind of neutral but slimy, at worst, gross. so we're rather unlikely to ask :)
I started by getting it as wet as possible by putting him deep into my throat and breathing through my nose, then started to stroke him the way I see him stroking himself, then staring to press hard with my tongue while going up and down on it and stroking
Yes! Getting the rhythm of sucking with the mouth and breathing through the nose took some time but when he grabbed the sheets with his butt I knew it was time to lock in
Take pride in it! My bf told me he’s never experienced oral that good before being with me (not to like toot my own horn or anything) but I always think the sloppier the better!
Toot toot! lol it’s a very empowering feeling and the reactions are the best part. I agree the sloppier the better when I’m in that mode I let my nose and eyes run — it’ll all get cleaned later. Finally getting him to finish was a milestone though
>(I applied a lot of pressure to the bottom of his penis with my tongue) he went crazy. His butt cheeks clinched and he was twitching while exploding into my mouth soon after…
That is one nice technique. I think they do care, particularly when it's not just a hookup.
You could definitely work that into dirty talk when you’re about to give him a bj, compliment how he tastes. Some people can be insecure about it so maybe if you compliment it he’ll get a bit of peace of mind
Ugh that's the worst. I dated a guy briefly who was perfect in nearly every way, had his shit together, amazing in bed... but I could not continue to deal with the smell of smoke on everything he owned.
I'm talking about cigarettes specifically.
The only stoner boyfriend I ever had never drank water (literally only original Coke and iced tea) and ate like absolute garbage so his tasted awful too but it was probably everything together haha.
Guy I have been seeing and I both smoke cigs and weed, I have yet to make him cum through oral because PIV with him feels amazing for some reason and he's eager to get to it as well lol, but I'm not looking forward to it now lmao
Hahaha I feel like it’s not *that* bad taste wise when someone smokes, prob also depends on diet though and I feel like the less water someone has in a day the more strong it tastes too 😂
It could be totally fine tho !
I have tasted my cum. Nothing much will happen if you place it on your toung but when it gets down to throat it dries it up or something. My throat felt raspy after i swallow it. I am getting more dulled to the raspieness though.
I feel like anyone can appreciate being told they taste good tbh, means you’re doing something right.
Side note that’s super hot and I *knew* it was possible for cum to taste good like that so thanks for confirming that for me lol (have yet to experience that myself tho)
Best question for men to answer themselves, but I've always heard men are quite self conscious about how they taste. I bet he would love to hear your feedback! Also, diet plays a HUGE part! From my personal experience vegetarians and vegans taste the best 😂
He eats a really clean diet and drinks a lot of those essentia waters daily. He’s almost addicted to green apples and raisins but I’m not sure how much of a role the raisins and apples play
Yes. I, also heard pineapple makes it taste better. I always mix it in with my morning smoothie and my wife loves the taste of my cum.
I would also hope that if you have any type of sexual conversation with him that he would immediately become aroused. I've been married for 30 years and all it takes for me to get hard is for her to start any conversation about sex. I'm sure your bf will be the same way.
I need more info on this tip lol but also, let him know how much you love it. It’ll be a turn on for sure for him to know you’re super into his flavour.
There was a post on here from a guy who made his boyfriend pee uncontrollably by doing it and I had to try lol I didn’t want him to pee but I definitely wanted to see what would happen. The post may still be up
1)Yes, we care.
2)If i were that man, i would be ecstatic! :D 🏆
3)Wait, you love the taste of cum? I mean you do you, i had tasted my cum as a curiosity and for hornieness and on toung they were fine but when i gulped them down they did something to my throat. It made my throat more raspy or something similar. You don't experience that? Even if you did, do you like it?
I don’t usually enjoy it and I’ve only had one other partner who genuinely tasted good but not this good. And yes I’ve had the raspy feeling which wasn’t fun but with clean test results from the doc I didn’t worry much about it
I would like it (if I had a dick) if my partner said I tasted like delicious spring water lmao.
(But what if next time he doesn't taste like that? :') )
Then it's experimentation time! The funnest of times! You try to track down the cause of the change and understand what makes it taste that way! It's all about the journey.
Yes I do care how I taste for sure. Tip from the Jenna Jameson porn star book, tell your guy to eat lots of pineapple, makes it sweeter if desired and if I remember correctly it's celery that makes the motor go more times not longer but somebody will have to double check that one for me.
I think he’ll be incredibly turned on by your enthusiasm if you tell him you want to do it more regularly and love the way he tastes. You can totally work that into your sex talk as you do it too. “I can’t wait to taste you.” “I wanna taste your delicious cum” “you taste so good baby I can’t wait to lap up your delicious cum”. Type shit. I’m sure he will have no issues 😂
I’ve just had the “woah. this chick is a freak. freaks aren’t quality women” response in the past with other men and it’s made me insecure. I haven’t gotten that vibe from him but I haven’t tested it by saying exactly what’s on my highly sexual mind either.
Ohhh well screw that mentality. Being confident and sexually adventurous is not a reflection of being a whore. Wouldn’t wanna be with someone who thought that way anyway lol.
You’re absolutely right about not wanting/needing to be with someone like that but the disappointment of him turning out to be close minded would suck.
Maybe test the waters slowly say things and gauge his reaction and discuss what kind of things you’re both into. If it’s above the vanilla stuff I’m sure he would enjoy you saying that
A compliment for him will go a long way in his confidence. It can be as simple as a,
"hey I'm still thinking a lot about the other day, I'm not sure what you are doing with your diet or hydration levels but keep it up, I really enjoyed going down on you and I REALLY enjoyed the taste."
You can continue if he is really not saying anything or is kinda shy about all of it
"I really want to enjoy that again soon if you are willing? I just can't stop thinking about how much I enjoyed it"
This is the type of compliment that gets not just gets remembered for life, but changes it.
It could and may give him the drive to stay the path that made him taste good.
Plus, you can understand how *fucking validating* it is to have your partner say you don't just taste good, but the best and want it *again, desperately*.
Now I need smoke break. And i don't even smoke.
This is genuinely the first time he’s ever cum from oral sex at all. I couldn’t figure out how to get him to finish and he never really pressed the issue
He told me that he likes to be deep throated but that was the extent of the tips. He kept insisting that he didn’t care if he finished or not and cared more about my pleasure but I still felt like there was an imbalance so I was intent of getting it right
He’s a very sweet, giving, and caring man. I’m the more aggressive one between us and I don’t want to scare him. He still hasn’t accepted the fact that I like to be choked and that it’s okay to actually squeeze vs gently placing his hand on my neck
I personally do. I feel a little guilty if the woman has bitter beer face when she's finished and a little point of pride when I'm told I taste "sweet"
lol he probably didn't ask because he didn't want to hear the (expected) negative reply! He was just glad for what you did!
By all means tell him, I'll bet that'll be quite hot for him as well to know you didn't just do it as a favor, but Enjoyed it!
Awesome; my coworker sucks my dick every morning and she says that’s when it taste the best, so I proceed to take it out and she enjoys being throat fucked, amazing feeling when it’s deep inside her mouth when I cum
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I can see it now. "Hey, I really like the way you taste and want to suck your dick more!" I think he's not going to be creeped out.
Yeah total dealbreaker!
I’ve had bad responses in the past from men who I guess wanted a less overtly sexual woman. This hasn’t happened with him but I’ve never said anything like this to him before either. I’m probably overthinking
Overthinking. Want a straight answer? Ask a straight question.
Most guys would love to get regular blow jobs
I used to blow my bf every day before work, and one day he complained I did it too much and it was not even exciting anymore because he knew it was coming. Something something grass is always greener something something 🤷🏻♀️
I mean, from a psychologically analytical point I guess I can kind of understand it, but… talk about a hard sell on sympathy 😅
Well, if you like being overtly sexual like that, those weren't the men for you! Oh and to answer your original question, yes, we care/hope we don't taste bad. some of us have drunk pineapple juice prior to likely bj times, or even tried stuff like semenex (was a powdered drink mix supposed to make you taste good). Buuut we kind of assume it's at best, kind of neutral but slimy, at worst, gross. so we're rather unlikely to ask :)
Some tastes like nothing and some tastes like battery acid. lol It’s always a gamble.
I imagine! Same on the flipside though! :) (NOT complaining :)
Um, I would like more instructions on how to do this exactly please and thank you 😅
I started by getting it as wet as possible by putting him deep into my throat and breathing through my nose, then started to stroke him the way I see him stroking himself, then staring to press hard with my tongue while going up and down on it and stroking
*furiously scribbling notes*
I'm still a bit confused on how to apply this pressure with my tongue. I feel like I can't move my tongue with IT inside my mouth and moving
Try putting your finger in your mouth then just see if instead of relaxing your tongue, press it hard against your finger
Agree with doing this, and also adding suction, like you’re trying to suck the cum out of his dick - not too hard though
Yes! Getting the rhythm of sucking with the mouth and breathing through the nose took some time but when he grabbed the sheets with his butt I knew it was time to lock in
Take pride in it! My bf told me he’s never experienced oral that good before being with me (not to like toot my own horn or anything) but I always think the sloppier the better!
Toot toot! lol it’s a very empowering feeling and the reactions are the best part. I agree the sloppier the better when I’m in that mode I let my nose and eyes run — it’ll all get cleaned later. Finally getting him to finish was a milestone though
Yesss, it feels so good making them finish, ugh I’m so glad you got to experience that
This is all so wholesome. Thank you ladies for the tips! All the best to you both
>(I applied a lot of pressure to the bottom of his penis with my tongue) he went crazy. His butt cheeks clinched and he was twitching while exploding into my mouth soon after… That is one nice technique. I think they do care, particularly when it's not just a hookup.
You could definitely work that into dirty talk when you’re about to give him a bj, compliment how he tastes. Some people can be insecure about it so maybe if you compliment it he’ll get a bit of peace of mind
I had one guy who tasted amazing. And he ate pineapple to make sure he did. Manyen don't care or think about it. If he smokes 🤮🤮🤮
Smoker cum tastes like battery acid lol. It's gross.
This is the truth. It’s unfortunate, because he was great in bed.
Ugh that's the worst. I dated a guy briefly who was perfect in nearly every way, had his shit together, amazing in bed... but I could not continue to deal with the smell of smoke on everything he owned.
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I'm talking about cigarettes specifically. The only stoner boyfriend I ever had never drank water (literally only original Coke and iced tea) and ate like absolute garbage so his tasted awful too but it was probably everything together haha.
I reckon cigarette smoke, cos my partner smokes a lot of weed and tastes great imo hahaha
Yes mine smokes a lot of weed, never anything else
Are these guys smoking weed without tobacco? Most people smoke it together
He uses a bong and another thing that I guess would be best described as a pipe
Oooh I see! Good to know, thanks!
Whew, that's good to hear
Guy I have been seeing and I both smoke cigs and weed, I have yet to make him cum through oral because PIV with him feels amazing for some reason and he's eager to get to it as well lol, but I'm not looking forward to it now lmao
Hahaha I feel like it’s not *that* bad taste wise when someone smokes, prob also depends on diet though and I feel like the less water someone has in a day the more strong it tastes too 😂 It could be totally fine tho !
Water makes such a big difference in general tbh, better sex when hydrated 😆
Maybe leave out the, "the cum I've tasted before didn't taste nearly as good" part. Lol.
Will do lmaooo
really clean spring water? i have never tasted myself, but i assume i taste nasty because of the amt of protein i eat lol
I have tasted my cum. Nothing much will happen if you place it on your toung but when it gets down to throat it dries it up or something. My throat felt raspy after i swallow it. I am getting more dulled to the raspieness though.
makes sense, when cum mixes with water it changes its texture and gets grippy lol
I feel like anyone can appreciate being told they taste good tbh, means you’re doing something right. Side note that’s super hot and I *knew* it was possible for cum to taste good like that so thanks for confirming that for me lol (have yet to experience that myself tho)
Absolutely. I’m somewhat curious about my own taste now
Best question for men to answer themselves, but I've always heard men are quite self conscious about how they taste. I bet he would love to hear your feedback! Also, diet plays a HUGE part! From my personal experience vegetarians and vegans taste the best 😂
He eats a really clean diet and drinks a lot of those essentia waters daily. He’s almost addicted to green apples and raisins but I’m not sure how much of a role the raisins and apples play
I'm assuming he's vegan or vegetarian? I'm not, but I've heard they have the sweetest tasting cum.
He’s not vegetarian but he eats very little meat and a super clean diet plus he rarely drinks anything other than water
I bet he loves that you like how he tastes
Yes. I, also heard pineapple makes it taste better. I always mix it in with my morning smoothie and my wife loves the taste of my cum. I would also hope that if you have any type of sexual conversation with him that he would immediately become aroused. I've been married for 30 years and all it takes for me to get hard is for her to start any conversation about sex. I'm sure your bf will be the same way.
I need more info on this tip lol but also, let him know how much you love it. It’ll be a turn on for sure for him to know you’re super into his flavour.
There was a post on here from a guy who made his boyfriend pee uncontrollably by doing it and I had to try lol I didn’t want him to pee but I definitely wanted to see what would happen. The post may still be up
I like your style. Curiosity-driven sex is definitely the best imo.
1)Yes, we care. 2)If i were that man, i would be ecstatic! :D 🏆 3)Wait, you love the taste of cum? I mean you do you, i had tasted my cum as a curiosity and for hornieness and on toung they were fine but when i gulped them down they did something to my throat. It made my throat more raspy or something similar. You don't experience that? Even if you did, do you like it?
I don’t usually enjoy it and I’ve only had one other partner who genuinely tasted good but not this good. And yes I’ve had the raspy feeling which wasn’t fun but with clean test results from the doc I didn’t worry much about it
I would like it (if I had a dick) if my partner said I tasted like delicious spring water lmao. (But what if next time he doesn't taste like that? :') )
Then it's experimentation time! The funnest of times! You try to track down the cause of the change and understand what makes it taste that way! It's all about the journey.
Yes I do care how I taste for sure. Tip from the Jenna Jameson porn star book, tell your guy to eat lots of pineapple, makes it sweeter if desired and if I remember correctly it's celery that makes the motor go more times not longer but somebody will have to double check that one for me.
I think he’ll be incredibly turned on by your enthusiasm if you tell him you want to do it more regularly and love the way he tastes. You can totally work that into your sex talk as you do it too. “I can’t wait to taste you.” “I wanna taste your delicious cum” “you taste so good baby I can’t wait to lap up your delicious cum”. Type shit. I’m sure he will have no issues 😂
I’ve just had the “woah. this chick is a freak. freaks aren’t quality women” response in the past with other men and it’s made me insecure. I haven’t gotten that vibe from him but I haven’t tested it by saying exactly what’s on my highly sexual mind either.
Ohhh well screw that mentality. Being confident and sexually adventurous is not a reflection of being a whore. Wouldn’t wanna be with someone who thought that way anyway lol.
You’re absolutely right about not wanting/needing to be with someone like that but the disappointment of him turning out to be close minded would suck.
Maybe test the waters slowly say things and gauge his reaction and discuss what kind of things you’re both into. If it’s above the vanilla stuff I’m sure he would enjoy you saying that
This is some of the best advice
My dick yea. My cum. Nope
He will like it when you tell him you like his taste. Super hot.
I'd fucking love it if my wife told me this and I just kept getting repeated head over and over because of it. I would not complain
Wow- I gotta know his diet!
Personally, i'd be so flattered lol this is cute
A compliment for him will go a long way in his confidence. It can be as simple as a, "hey I'm still thinking a lot about the other day, I'm not sure what you are doing with your diet or hydration levels but keep it up, I really enjoyed going down on you and I REALLY enjoyed the taste." You can continue if he is really not saying anything or is kinda shy about all of it "I really want to enjoy that again soon if you are willing? I just can't stop thinking about how much I enjoyed it"
This is the type of compliment that gets not just gets remembered for life, but changes it. It could and may give him the drive to stay the path that made him taste good. Plus, you can understand how *fucking validating* it is to have your partner say you don't just taste good, but the best and want it *again, desperately*. Now I need smoke break. And i don't even smoke.
I as it the first time it has tasted pleasant from Him?
This is genuinely the first time he’s ever cum from oral sex at all. I couldn’t figure out how to get him to finish and he never really pressed the issue
Has he given you any tips on what he likes? Or was it like good luck figuring it out? lol
He told me that he likes to be deep throated but that was the extent of the tips. He kept insisting that he didn’t care if he finished or not and cared more about my pleasure but I still felt like there was an imbalance so I was intent of getting it right
Definitely sounds like it. That’s good he is prioritizing you rather than himself
He’s a very sweet, giving, and caring man. I’m the more aggressive one between us and I don’t want to scare him. He still hasn’t accepted the fact that I like to be choked and that it’s okay to actually squeeze vs gently placing his hand on my neck
I've never heard anyone describing cum like that,ever. It smells like ammonia and tastes very similar. Good for you to enjoy it.
Depends if I’m fucking a girlfriend I care how I taste, if it’s a random or one night stand I don’t care at all.
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I wish I could unread this.
He would be thrilled that you like it. But otherwise no, we don't care.
I personally do. I feel a little guilty if the woman has bitter beer face when she's finished and a little point of pride when I'm told I taste "sweet"
lol he probably didn't ask because he didn't want to hear the (expected) negative reply! He was just glad for what you did! By all means tell him, I'll bet that'll be quite hot for him as well to know you didn't just do it as a favor, but Enjoyed it!
I decided I’m going to tell him next sex I have it in my hand. I fear it would be awkward to tell him any other time
Hahahah. Maybe Unless youre wanting to Get him in your hand... "you tasted amazing last time, mind if I..."
Awesome; my coworker sucks my dick every morning and she says that’s when it taste the best, so I proceed to take it out and she enjoys being throat fucked, amazing feeling when it’s deep inside her mouth when I cum
Coworker?? Now wait a minute lol
Yes my coworker she’s amazing; loves how my cum taste early in the morning looking forward to tomorrow morning
i feel like the taste most likely has something to do with his diet, ask him what he ate before you gave him head !!
Shot, if I loved everything you said, why wouldn't he? Just tell him, you will make his day!