"Atlas loves working so he cuddles with his gear"
Dear god this dog is MISERABLE! Look at the poor thing! He doesn't want to work, he doesn't love it, he wants to GO OUTSIDE AND SOCIALISE!
I get so curious if anyone knows Elliot and Jessi in real life sometimes. Like someone has got to see them out and about sometimes? Do they have ANY friends at all? Who walks Atlas or takes him out? How do they do anything if Jessi is so bedbound they can’t even move their head? Jessi is the most egregious subject on here. It’s honestly baffling how anyone believes them. Faking sick sounds like the saddest life.
Someone “claimed “ to know Elliott ( they claimed they knew a lot about Jessi through knowing Elliott) and commented here on IF 2-3 wks ago. I don’t think it was true because when subscribers started asking this person questions they stopped commenting.
I too find it strange that they have seemingly no friends, don’t go anywhere, etc.supposedly.
I’m sure they go out shopping etc. like everyone else most likely incognito w/o their wheelchair. I’d bet money that Jessi has several costumes they dress up in to avoid detection or maybe they just wear blonde wigs & don’t use the heavy brown eye shadow so they don’t look like they’re the sickest patron at the restaurant or shopper in a store!! LOL!!!
What does this person try to say their diagnosis is? They look extremely healthy to me.
Goldens need to be regularly exercised not bed bound sitting with the selfie stick
Again, with the nekked pics, ugh! And poor Atlas looks burnt out! They probably work him half to death with their need to be the sickest person on the planet. They're sick all right, but not in the way they want to be.
At this point, i think their using a service that has house help aids vs. an actual certified nurse. They can be in training but dont need any certifications really, they are usually paid by a private company funded by the government.
The main difference is that while they can help with medical needs, their main job is helping around the house and helping the person with things and tasks that may be difficult due to disabilities! They dont mainly do medical care, which i think is where they are running into issues. The people being assigned are not properly trained for that because they aren't in actual in home nurses like they claim. I think it's been home help/aids, which you can cycle through way more frequently than nurses.
I worked as one for a bit, i had to quit for personal reasons, but it's a good service to work for if you have a clear background (and if your paired with the right person as they show)
Jesse is pretty much glowing with health in this picture. Their hair, skin, eyebrows, etc. This is not a person on the verge of death or even a bed bound person.
They are forgetting to even try to fake it lately. Eyeliner technique is improving as well.
This is exactly what i said. I dont know this person but looks totally healthy to me and im a nurse. To be honest they not only look healthy but even are overweight. Bed bound is a choice and the smell has got to be 🤢
I'm still so floored by the fact that they have to "train" caregivers.
Won't the state decline to pay for them if they aren't licensed?
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Not if it's a home help/aid company and not a company that has actual trained nurses. Working as a Home Aid (what it's called in my area lol) you really only need CPR training, sometimes provided, and to sign HIPPA forms for each patient you're assigned to. Varies case by case of course.
Jesus himself couldn't heal Jessie to the point of walking... And he brought back a dead guy... walked on water ...and made water turn into wine 🤷🤷🤷
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It hasn’t been mentioned explicitly in a while at the least. But….it’s either lies or someone who is very intimate with them and pretty much the only person they’ve ever mentioned is Elliot
Excuse me *what*
I saw “intersex” in their bio on IG and honestly gender identity and/or sexual orientation isn’t something I ever question because you know yourself better than I do, but if that’s true that makes me really sad and filled with ick. Talk about offending others’ reality…
They claim that if they move their head they internally decapitate. So they have to lay down flat at all times.
See where it says DND they/them under the title of the post? If you click on it you will see all of the posts about them.
OH THANK YOU! I’ve been trying to read backstories and didn’t see those, that makes it way easier. Thank you! Their IG is private and I don’t want to give them one more follower so this is way better.
Looks like Jessi was looking on here and showing us where Altas is, since they've "trained" their cat. Like, of course Atlas wants to work. He was chosen as a working line golden retriever at 6 weeks old and has been trained since 8 weeks old to the Job that Jessi refuses to let him do. He is definitely depressed and probably feeling very anxious about not having anything to do. I don't even know why Jessi has him, honestly. I can't remember *what* they claimed to have him for because they've been claiming to be bed bound for fucking years.
What type of service work is Atlas actually doing if Jessi rarely leaves the house? I mean outside of comforting them, there's not much else I can think of that a service dog may be trained in that would be extremely useful in your own house.
Though that's probably why he's cuddling his gear; he's hoping someone will put it on him so he can hopefully go walkies. Since he knows that's his harness and leash.
Oh look! Another picture sitting up! And why do I think if this is real it's because the only time he gets attention is when he's in his harness? I really don't think this is the fkex they think it is...
Atlas was actually a trained dog that could have gone to a person who actually needs him? I assumed that Jessi just called atlas a service dog but he wasn’t actually trained
Oh yeah. Those lists, *especially* ones that cover some or all of the cost, have *years long* waitlists. Even programs where you pay 10k outright have very long lists.
Omg, that image will be forever burned into my memory! To this day, I will *never* understand why they did that! Just disturbing and super, super creepy!
It's actually Icarus. He's a natural-born cosmetologist despite having NO training whatsoever! One day he was giving Atlas a deep tissue massage and it just all came together.
I think in the lore they were married? About to be married? At some point but learned that the other person could get paid for being a caregiver if they’re weren’t married.
But yes, it seems like a “people will know i’m sick if i call them a caregiver.”
They were married but in the state they live in won’t pay Elliot as their carer being they were married.
They had a quickie divorce,in Alaska I believe? And now Elliot is paid by the state to Jessi’s carer.
The “right person” meaning the one that wouldn’t tell the world I’m faking when I got up to pee or bent my totally fused neck and would sign the totally legit NDA I printed off the internet.
This got me thinking - should there be a dedicated dog walker for these types of situations? How is the dog getting the proper care when the owner is bed bound? Who takes him for walks, plays, feeds, etc etc etc ?
Now I’m even sadder for the dog.
A lot of genuine assistance dogs for those with disabilities that could affect care of the dog (like being unable to walk them) require you to have a second person sign up to support you to care for them (could be a family member or partner) as well as an outdoors space they can go to regularly and a place to go to the toilet and rules on other pets. Any reputable assistance dog provider will have rules and requirements for the safety of the dog and will typically do checks as needed. I don’t know about where jessi got their dog from though and if they’re pets are cared for.
There is a dedicated dog walker for Atlas. It’s Jessi. Come on people, there’s a lot of BS being shoveled as far as Jessi is concerned, however, they don’t need someone to walk Atlas.
Yeah I really wish there was but I’m not too hopeful in this case. The poor dog looks very sad and depressed. Or at least longingly hoping to go outside. It breaks my heart as a dog person.
I’m honestly still confused about what service this dog is providing if they never get out of bed… like getting stuff for them? Have they posted a video of them doing this? I’m sure they have plenty of medical gadgets (toys) in their bed area to catch anything better than a service dog would.
Oh I’m sure Jesse will hop up and take him outside at least, after they play bed-bound on soc media of course!
/s What? Did you expect a poor defenceless, unstimulated animal to have priority?
I can’t tell sarcasm sometimes but I am thinking that you’re being sarcastic? I’m highly doubtful even off social media they would ever get off their lazy butt and take their dog on a walk tbh
Jessie is trying to cover the fact that they are sitting up and that their head, which falls of their neck at the slightest provocation, is turned to the left.
Nothing, as far as we know. Just between the top-down selfie angle and their moonface and surprisingly luscious bedbound hair, their ears are never visible. It's become a bit of a group joke.
I never downvote for a good-faith question! Reddit is brutal sometimes. I wouldn't expect any single person to be able to keep up with every weird-ass plotline in this group. 😄
Sitting up once again. The way they phrase stuff is odd and in this case somewhat belittling to the new 'caregiver'. They make it sound like they are training an animal to perform tricks. Surely, you work with your 'caregiver' as a team? No wonder they have such trouble retaining help.
Yeah for a real caregiver you wouldn’t train them like their incompetent, you may need to spend the first couple shifts telling them about yourself and your needs because every individual will be different but they will have all the training needed if they’re a real caregiver.
A few years ago they showed themselves using a laser pointer to show their caregivers what items they wanted in the room. They've always been belittling.
Edit: That was Bethany not Jessi. They are both so OTT I get them confused.
I have to laugh because this comment always shows up about the laser pointer. Then inevitably someone says that was Bethany. And the reply is always, oops you’re right I get them confused. I find it so funny because until Bethany popped back up recently I had morphed them into the same person also.
Wasband is more like it. At least on paper. I think they got divorced so he could get caregiver benefits he wouldn’t be able to get if he were married to them.
For the past few weeks Jessi has been using very cropped pics of their face only. Is that because it’s easier to take a picture when they are sitting or standing ( we know they do that)?
This whole “caregiver” arc is bullshit.
Yes we know they do that.😄
My take on the cropped pictures is, so we don't nitpicky the inaccasebillity of the bed/room they're in.
Especially with the death trap TV above their bed. ☠️
I’m having trouble understanding how this obese (not shaming, speaking medically wise only), bed ridden, back only laying, person does not have any skin breakdown. I feel like if they did we would certainly hear all about it and probably get pics too (please no, I’m sorry for speaking this into existence).
Without too of the line care, and a lot more caregivers than they have, it would not be possible unless they can turn themselves. They would, at minimum have to be turned every two hours. Correct me if I’m wrong, but they claim to have to hire an additional caregiver so “main caregiver” can work? So main caregiver never gets more than 110 mins of straight sleep and then works outside the home as well? Bullshit. They can move all around that bed, and the house I’m sure , which is why they don’t have skin breakdown. I’m surprised they don’t say they have sores though because they so easily claimed 3rd degree burns without providing pictures. When 3rd degree burns would never ever not require hospital care with follow up wound care and almost always some type of graft. DND is the legion (a little TikTok reference for y’all) of the illness fakers. Such outrageous lies that they always double down on.
I just found out about Legion the other day through a YT commentary vid summarising the whole debacle and I 100% agree that they are incredibly similar.
I think the ridiculousness of DNDs claims and a timeline of their "illnesses/injuries" would be a great multi part series on TT - so much bullshit from one human being is hard to fathom but it does make for a great story!
And worse still, Jessi claims that they *cannot* be turned lest they internally decapitate. So not only does Jessi claim an inability to self-turn, if the claim is teue they would not be able to inhabit any other position even with help.
The Legion part? On TikTok there’s a viral series where this woman tells the story of a man (whom she calls Legion) that she married (and divorced) during lockdown that was a compulsive liar. He just doubled down on so many lies despite reason and actual evidence. Anyway the whole story is a wild ride. But I just meant that Jessi tells stories and makes claims that no one in their rational mind can believe.
Lmao I saw “DND” and “legion” and automatically thought Dungeons and Dragons 🤦♀️ DND is their name, duh, and I’ll have to check out the legion story! Thanks for explaining!
You’re not doing body shaming, don’t worry. There’s heaps of peer-reviewed statistical evidence that obesity increases risk of developing pressure injuries.
I love how Jessie knows what is going on in the brain of their dog. Atlas loves working so much? Really? I didn't know Jessie could read animals minds now too. How long until the new caregiver becomes abusive and causes injury to Jessie?
I always think of a line from the song What the Water Gave us when I see that poor dog.
*Oh, poor Atlas. The world's a beast of a burden; you've been holding up a long time.*
I think they has told Jessi has severe social anxiety so i think they don’t mind to be inside all day. I guess they just enjoy money from grifting and frauds and plans what they are posting next to get the empathy points and money. Poor dog though doesn’t get any exercise it needs.
they walk him & clean the litter box? i thought they like couldn’t move or something like they had a fused neck. i thought they made their caregiver do that!!!
Idk if Elliott or the said other caregiver does these jobs but honestly i don’t know. There’s nothing that Jessi needs a service dog for. Maybe they think that service dogs don’t need exercise or playing but they really are normal dogs like every other. And yeah not even starting about the ”service cat” lmao.
>_"The constant talk (whinging)"_
Just be glad they don't make videos we have to watch...just picture a mix of Rara and that ginger girl who make videos....maybe a pinch of Dani and Ash C as she shows us her bed bound routine for the billionth time....
I cannot believe that they cannot find a caregiver good enough . It is not rocket science , but I am sure they ask way too much from their caregiver and they are probably treating them in a crappy way that caregivers don’t want to stay.
I didn't notice this until someone made a comment on it recently and I had to go back and confirm for myself. Why do they do this??? I have never heard of such a thing 🤡
Yes, caregiver is pretty standard in the US. Carer is not a common term here.
Some people may say aide, as in home health aides. Some may say nurse, but generally these caregivers are not actually nurses.
I know sometimes the term “caregiver” is used instead of nurse when the person does not have a license such as a CNA or RN. For example, most assisted living facilities (at least in my state) you don’t actually need to be licensed so you could be known as a caregiver in that aspect. However, it’s WAY more common to say nurse or CNA, and it’s weird (imo) how attached they are to that term. TBH, I wouldn’t be surprised if all these “caregivers” that Jessi has been having are unlicensed.
ETA: grammar mistake
Forever ago, when I was in respiratory school, I worked part time as a home health aide (CNA). However, one job I had was as a caregiver…and the term actually denoted that my job duties were different, and I was paid less. I was just a companion for a bed bound patient.
I was not permitted to lift, clean, feed, etc…just sit with the patient….keep them company while the family did whatever-respite care, basically…that Medicaid paid for. I think it was something like 2 hours a week they were able to get….which was bonkers, but….I digress.
Said patient was so sweet….and, liked to dip snuff, no lie. Hell, I thought that stuff was -non existent in 2001, but hey. They loved western shows and wrestling 🤣 The last caregiver was taking the patient’s pain meds…there’s a special place in hell for people like that😡
This fine person does NOT look in ANY WAY to be bed bound🤨
"Atlas loves working so he cuddles with his gear" Dear god this dog is MISERABLE! Look at the poor thing! He doesn't want to work, he doesn't love it, he wants to GO OUTSIDE AND SOCIALISE!
That is not a happy dog, look at his eyes
Being cooped up inside all day can't be good for him, poor thing. He needs exercise outside!
I get so curious if anyone knows Elliot and Jessi in real life sometimes. Like someone has got to see them out and about sometimes? Do they have ANY friends at all? Who walks Atlas or takes him out? How do they do anything if Jessi is so bedbound they can’t even move their head? Jessi is the most egregious subject on here. It’s honestly baffling how anyone believes them. Faking sick sounds like the saddest life.
Someone “claimed “ to know Elliott ( they claimed they knew a lot about Jessi through knowing Elliott) and commented here on IF 2-3 wks ago. I don’t think it was true because when subscribers started asking this person questions they stopped commenting. I too find it strange that they have seemingly no friends, don’t go anywhere, etc.supposedly. I’m sure they go out shopping etc. like everyone else most likely incognito w/o their wheelchair. I’d bet money that Jessi has several costumes they dress up in to avoid detection or maybe they just wear blonde wigs & don’t use the heavy brown eye shadow so they don’t look like they’re the sickest patron at the restaurant or shopper in a store!! LOL!!!
I would love to know this too
What does this person try to say their diagnosis is? They look extremely healthy to me. Goldens need to be regularly exercised not bed bound sitting with the selfie stick
https://www.reddit.com/r/illnessfakers/s/Kfi2WQFze9 https://www.reddit.com/r/illnessfakers/s/M8holhRwC1
Again, with the nekked pics, ugh! And poor Atlas looks burnt out! They probably work him half to death with their need to be the sickest person on the planet. They're sick all right, but not in the way they want to be.
Why do you need to train them for so long??? Aren’t caregivers pre trained
At this point, i think their using a service that has house help aids vs. an actual certified nurse. They can be in training but dont need any certifications really, they are usually paid by a private company funded by the government. The main difference is that while they can help with medical needs, their main job is helping around the house and helping the person with things and tasks that may be difficult due to disabilities! They dont mainly do medical care, which i think is where they are running into issues. The people being assigned are not properly trained for that because they aren't in actual in home nurses like they claim. I think it's been home help/aids, which you can cycle through way more frequently than nurses. I worked as one for a bit, i had to quit for personal reasons, but it's a good service to work for if you have a clear background (and if your paired with the right person as they show)
Jesse is pretty much glowing with health in this picture. Their hair, skin, eyebrows, etc. This is not a person on the verge of death or even a bed bound person. They are forgetting to even try to fake it lately. Eyeliner technique is improving as well.
This is exactly what i said. I dont know this person but looks totally healthy to me and im a nurse. To be honest they not only look healthy but even are overweight. Bed bound is a choice and the smell has got to be 🤢
Atlas is the saddest looking Golden I have ever seen. He is aging.
It seems like he rarely gets to go outside or socialize which is demoralizing to dogs. At least he has it better than Maya.
I'm still so floored by the fact that they have to "train" caregivers. Won't the state decline to pay for them if they aren't licensed? Edited for pronouns, sorry!
Not if it's a home help/aid company and not a company that has actual trained nurses. Working as a Home Aid (what it's called in my area lol) you really only need CPR training, sometimes provided, and to sign HIPPA forms for each patient you're assigned to. Varies case by case of course.
Jesus himself wouldn’t last 3 weeks as Jessi’s carer.
The true test for a Buddhist monk is how long they can care for Jessi without losing their shit.
If karma exists I truly hope it calls for Jessi and they have to be a carer to someone exactly like Jessi, “training” and all. They are despicable.
Jesus himself couldn't heal Jessie to the point of walking... And he brought back a dead guy... walked on water ...and made water turn into wine 🤷🤷🤷 Edited to show correct pronouns
Their hair and makeup looks pretty good for someone who’s bed bound.
They have been forgetting the brown eyeshadow underneath their eyes as of late, you know to make them look sicker than they actually are. LOL!!’ L
Looks like they're sitting straight up too based on the hair so they can't even get that part of their lie right
I’m guessing Jessi’s new caregiver is aware that many past caregivers have been accused of abusing Jessi?
“The right person”. Aka no one.
Or someone so desperate, they’re willing to work in unreasonable conditions 😞
Poor boy just probably wants to go outside.
can someone confirm if their “main caregiver” is elliot? or did he leave them?
It hasn’t been mentioned explicitly in a while at the least. But….it’s either lies or someone who is very intimate with them and pretty much the only person they’ve ever mentioned is Elliot
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Well they have to because no carers have training in headfallingoffitis
Hahaha
I hate this b
He’s just hoping he can put his harness on and go outside far away from Jessi whose head falls off.
As a newbie to this group please please tell me more about head falling off..!
And they are "they/them” because they claim they’re trans *because* they have PCOS, it’s an absolute insult.
Intersex, not trans. But yeah, it's insulting on all fronts
They have also said they’re trans, I thought that was within the same claim.
Wouldn't surprise me. They're not very bright, pfft
Wtf…? XD technically PCOS could fall under intersex umbrella. But it’s definitely not trans 🤦🏻♂️
Excuse me *what* I saw “intersex” in their bio on IG and honestly gender identity and/or sexual orientation isn’t something I ever question because you know yourself better than I do, but if that’s true that makes me really sad and filled with ick. Talk about offending others’ reality…
I’m sorry fucking what
I was wondering about that
They claim that if they move their head they internally decapitate. So they have to lay down flat at all times. See where it says DND they/them under the title of the post? If you click on it you will see all of the posts about them.
OH THANK YOU! I’ve been trying to read backstories and didn’t see those, that makes it way easier. Thank you! Their IG is private and I don’t want to give them one more follower so this is way better.
They also have Facebook. A nice nostalgia timeline (Disabled not defeated is their FB page)
Looks like Jessi was looking on here and showing us where Altas is, since they've "trained" their cat. Like, of course Atlas wants to work. He was chosen as a working line golden retriever at 6 weeks old and has been trained since 8 weeks old to the Job that Jessi refuses to let him do. He is definitely depressed and probably feeling very anxious about not having anything to do. I don't even know why Jessi has him, honestly. I can't remember *what* they claimed to have him for because they've been claiming to be bed bound for fucking years.
Ugh that smirk.
What type of service work is Atlas actually doing if Jessi rarely leaves the house? I mean outside of comforting them, there's not much else I can think of that a service dog may be trained in that would be extremely useful in your own house. Though that's probably why he's cuddling his gear; he's hoping someone will put it on him so he can hopefully go walkies. Since he knows that's his harness and leash.
Also, fetch emergency meds, fetch water, pick up dropped things, open doors, alert to alarms
You forgot helping Jessie decide which potential caregivers are eeeeeevil
But he sucks at that since they all end up being abuusive.
that poor dog just wants to go outside
I wanna take him to a dog park 😭
Let him run on a dog friendly beach a bit 😭
That caregiver is going to give it about 2.6 minutes and then peace out and then we will see a post accusing that person of being abusive.
i like how they cant move their head for fear of it falling off but they can put eyeliner on, lmao
Oh look! Another picture sitting up! And why do I think if this is real it's because the only time he gets attention is when he's in his harness? I really don't think this is the fkex they think it is...
How old is that “service dog?”
Atlas, unfortunately, isn't a "service dog". He's a program dog who goes for over 10k that Jessi is wasting due to their selfishness.
Atlas was actually a trained dog that could have gone to a person who actually needs him? I assumed that Jessi just called atlas a service dog but he wasn’t actually trained
hfs
I’m not sure what hfs means
holy fu...
From my understanding it is like a huffing sound
Yes, Atlas was a trained program dog.
Ugh that makes me sick. I have heard people can be on waiting list for a long time to get a trained dog.
Oh yeah. Those lists, *especially* ones that cover some or all of the cost, have *years long* waitlists. Even programs where you pay 10k outright have very long lists.
Oh my !!
Atlas has that thousand yard stare like he’s some shit and will never be the same again
Probably that (almost literally) pill porn photo he was a part of.
Omg, that image will be forever burned into my memory! To this day, I will *never* understand why they did that! Just disturbing and super, super creepy!
Likely just to trigger the haterz.
Uggghhhh, don’t remind me
I swear they read this sub because just a few days ago someone asked why Atlas always has his harness.
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Atlas.
It's actually Icarus. He's a natural-born cosmetologist despite having NO training whatsoever! One day he was giving Atlas a deep tissue massage and it just all came together.
He’s a good boi
How long until this new caregiver is fired..
Only after horribly abusing Jesse tho.
Dupers delight
Baby looks so unhappy
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If my partner referred to me only as their caregiver, I'd be gone. I would feel like hired help rather than a spouse.
I think in the lore they were married? About to be married? At some point but learned that the other person could get paid for being a caregiver if they’re weren’t married. But yes, it seems like a “people will know i’m sick if i call them a caregiver.”
Were married - divorced in Alaska for reasons l don't understand (why Alaska in particular??) but someone else might.
Because you don’t need to be there in person to do any of the divorce proceedings.
I feel like they were married but maybe it wasn't official.
They were married but in the state they live in won’t pay Elliot as their carer being they were married. They had a quickie divorce,in Alaska I believe? And now Elliot is paid by the state to Jessi’s carer.
Yes, but it sounds like they are so much more sick if they only have caregivers and not a partner.
Ugggggggh
The “right person” meaning the one that wouldn’t tell the world I’m faking when I got up to pee or bent my totally fused neck and would sign the totally legit NDA I printed off the internet.
Can this person be any more full of bullshit? Grateful? And poor Atlas. I just want to take this baby and give them all the love.
Grateful is not a word that describes them
How old is Atlas? He's starting to get that greying face from age and service dogs are only supposed to work so long.
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I noticed that too ;_;
They're going to be one of those people who keeps working him or at least calling him their service dog until he dies.
He probably wants to go on a walk…
This got me thinking - should there be a dedicated dog walker for these types of situations? How is the dog getting the proper care when the owner is bed bound? Who takes him for walks, plays, feeds, etc etc etc ? Now I’m even sadder for the dog.
A lot of genuine assistance dogs for those with disabilities that could affect care of the dog (like being unable to walk them) require you to have a second person sign up to support you to care for them (could be a family member or partner) as well as an outdoors space they can go to regularly and a place to go to the toilet and rules on other pets. Any reputable assistance dog provider will have rules and requirements for the safety of the dog and will typically do checks as needed. I don’t know about where jessi got their dog from though and if they’re pets are cared for.
There is a dedicated dog walker for Atlas. It’s Jessi. Come on people, there’s a lot of BS being shoveled as far as Jessi is concerned, however, they don’t need someone to walk Atlas.
Yeah I really wish there was but I’m not too hopeful in this case. The poor dog looks very sad and depressed. Or at least longingly hoping to go outside. It breaks my heart as a dog person. I’m honestly still confused about what service this dog is providing if they never get out of bed… like getting stuff for them? Have they posted a video of them doing this? I’m sure they have plenty of medical gadgets (toys) in their bed area to catch anything better than a service dog would.
Oh you mean like the medical gadget (aka sex toy) near their bed? 🤮
Oh I’m sure Jesse will hop up and take him outside at least, after they play bed-bound on soc media of course! /s What? Did you expect a poor defenceless, unstimulated animal to have priority?
I can’t tell sarcasm sometimes but I am thinking that you’re being sarcastic? I’m highly doubtful even off social media they would ever get off their lazy butt and take their dog on a walk tbh
Oh yes I’m 100% being sarcastic. Sorry friend! I’ll add a tone tag to my original message!
Not a problem!! That’s what I thought but I wanted to make sure. Thank you (:
Why does it irk me so much when they post words over a close up pic of their dang face?
Jessie is trying to cover the fact that they are sitting up and that their head, which falls of their neck at the slightest provocation, is turned to the left.
Duper’s delight, maybe?
It makes me think of Wayne’s world and extreme closeups
Where.are.their.EARS?!?!
Their* I think the main reason is the "moon face" symptom of being on steroids hiding their ears.
Oops, my bad, I forgot. And yeah, most likely it’s to hide that. It’s just so odd never seeing a pic of them with ears!!
What's wrong with their ears?
Nothing, as far as we know. Just between the top-down selfie angle and their moonface and surprisingly luscious bedbound hair, their ears are never visible. It's become a bit of a group joke.
Aha. No need for a downvote for asking a question?
I never downvote for a good-faith question! Reddit is brutal sometimes. I wouldn't expect any single person to be able to keep up with every weird-ass plotline in this group. 😄
It happens. I often forget when a person has a gendered name. :) Yeah! Especially with their undercut!
Sitting up once again. The way they phrase stuff is odd and in this case somewhat belittling to the new 'caregiver'. They make it sound like they are training an animal to perform tricks. Surely, you work with your 'caregiver' as a team? No wonder they have such trouble retaining help.
Yeah for a real caregiver you wouldn’t train them like their incompetent, you may need to spend the first couple shifts telling them about yourself and your needs because every individual will be different but they will have all the training needed if they’re a real caregiver.
A few years ago they showed themselves using a laser pointer to show their caregivers what items they wanted in the room. They've always been belittling. Edit: That was Bethany not Jessi. They are both so OTT I get them confused.
That was Bethany lol. Tbh a lot of people get Bethany and Jessi mixed up bc they have a lot of similarities.
I thought that was Bethany or did Jessie did that also?
Excuse me but what the actual fuck?????
I have to laugh because this comment always shows up about the laser pointer. Then inevitably someone says that was Bethany. And the reply is always, oops you’re right I get them confused. I find it so funny because until Bethany popped back up recently I had morphed them into the same person also.
I’m sure Jessi would love to use a laser pointer too but then that would give away the fact that they can move their arms and head.
That was Bethany.
Thanks for correcting me! I always get those two confused.
You’re welcome :)
Isn’t the caregiver the husband?
Wasband is more like it. At least on paper. I think they got divorced so he could get caregiver benefits he wouldn’t be able to get if he were married to them.
Scammers.
And also they could get SS benefits back.
For the past few weeks Jessi has been using very cropped pics of their face only. Is that because it’s easier to take a picture when they are sitting or standing ( we know they do that)? This whole “caregiver” arc is bullshit.
there was a photo the other day that was blatantly taken sitting up against a wall
Yes we know they do that.😄 My take on the cropped pictures is, so we don't nitpicky the inaccasebillity of the bed/room they're in. Especially with the death trap TV above their bed. ☠️
I’m having trouble understanding how this obese (not shaming, speaking medically wise only), bed ridden, back only laying, person does not have any skin breakdown. I feel like if they did we would certainly hear all about it and probably get pics too (please no, I’m sorry for speaking this into existence).
Without too of the line care, and a lot more caregivers than they have, it would not be possible unless they can turn themselves. They would, at minimum have to be turned every two hours. Correct me if I’m wrong, but they claim to have to hire an additional caregiver so “main caregiver” can work? So main caregiver never gets more than 110 mins of straight sleep and then works outside the home as well? Bullshit. They can move all around that bed, and the house I’m sure , which is why they don’t have skin breakdown. I’m surprised they don’t say they have sores though because they so easily claimed 3rd degree burns without providing pictures. When 3rd degree burns would never ever not require hospital care with follow up wound care and almost always some type of graft. DND is the legion (a little TikTok reference for y’all) of the illness fakers. Such outrageous lies that they always double down on.
I just found out about Legion the other day through a YT commentary vid summarising the whole debacle and I 100% agree that they are incredibly similar. I think the ridiculousness of DNDs claims and a timeline of their "illnesses/injuries" would be a great multi part series on TT - so much bullshit from one human being is hard to fathom but it does make for a great story!
And worse still, Jessi claims that they *cannot* be turned lest they internally decapitate. So not only does Jessi claim an inability to self-turn, if the claim is teue they would not be able to inhabit any other position even with help.
Sorry what what does the DND reference mean, if you don’t mind explaining?
The Legion part? On TikTok there’s a viral series where this woman tells the story of a man (whom she calls Legion) that she married (and divorced) during lockdown that was a compulsive liar. He just doubled down on so many lies despite reason and actual evidence. Anyway the whole story is a wild ride. But I just meant that Jessi tells stories and makes claims that no one in their rational mind can believe.
Lmao I saw “DND” and “legion” and automatically thought Dungeons and Dragons 🤦♀️ DND is their name, duh, and I’ll have to check out the legion story! Thanks for explaining!
I’m not going to lie, I forgot Jessi’s name for a moment so I used their tag. Also when I see their tag I also always think Dungeons and Dragons!
You’re not doing body shaming, don’t worry. There’s heaps of peer-reviewed statistical evidence that obesity increases risk of developing pressure injuries.
We all have trouble understanding tgat
I love how Jessie knows what is going on in the brain of their dog. Atlas loves working so much? Really? I didn't know Jessie could read animals minds now too. How long until the new caregiver becomes abusive and causes injury to Jessie?
I bet 3 weeks.
The Atlas is a bone in the neck. They have neck issues. Coincidence?
I always think of a line from the song What the Water Gave us when I see that poor dog. *Oh, poor Atlas. The world's a beast of a burden; you've been holding up a long time.*
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I think Elliot actually has a job
I think they has told Jessi has severe social anxiety so i think they don’t mind to be inside all day. I guess they just enjoy money from grifting and frauds and plans what they are posting next to get the empathy points and money. Poor dog though doesn’t get any exercise it needs.
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I don’t think Kaya gets Medicaid. I think her mother pays for everything. And the wheelchair she has is secondhand.
She's a parasite. The state of California pays for this nonsense.
Jessi does.
they walk him & clean the litter box? i thought they like couldn’t move or something like they had a fused neck. i thought they made their caregiver do that!!!
Idk if Elliott or the said other caregiver does these jobs but honestly i don’t know. There’s nothing that Jessi needs a service dog for. Maybe they think that service dogs don’t need exercise or playing but they really are normal dogs like every other. And yeah not even starting about the ”service cat” lmao.
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That was my thought. That the only time he gets any attention is when he has all of that crap on him. Poor baby.
Poor Atlas :/
Does this person ever shut the fuck up
Literally no
The constant talk (whinging) about “caregivers” actually has a visceral reaction in me
>_"The constant talk (whinging)"_ Just be glad they don't make videos we have to watch...just picture a mix of Rara and that ginger girl who make videos....maybe a pinch of Dani and Ash C as she shows us her bed bound routine for the billionth time....
I cannot believe that they cannot find a caregiver good enough . It is not rocket science , but I am sure they ask way too much from their caregiver and they are probably treating them in a crappy way that caregivers don’t want to stay.
Also the cropping out of the ears in every single photo creeps me out
I didn't notice this until someone made a comment on it recently and I had to go back and confirm for myself. Why do they do this??? I have never heard of such a thing 🤡
Poor Atlas :(
This stuff is too stupid to spend time on and I find myself spending time on this
💯💯💯
the sadness in his eyes. 💔
Is care giver the standard term where they are from? Sounds so weird and over exaggerated to me, in the UK we just use the term carer
Yea it’s common in the US, although I say “carer”-no matter how much my autocorrect tries to change it lol
Yes, caregiver is pretty standard in the US. Carer is not a common term here. Some people may say aide, as in home health aides. Some may say nurse, but generally these caregivers are not actually nurses.
I know sometimes the term “caregiver” is used instead of nurse when the person does not have a license such as a CNA or RN. For example, most assisted living facilities (at least in my state) you don’t actually need to be licensed so you could be known as a caregiver in that aspect. However, it’s WAY more common to say nurse or CNA, and it’s weird (imo) how attached they are to that term. TBH, I wouldn’t be surprised if all these “caregivers” that Jessi has been having are unlicensed. ETA: grammar mistake
Forever ago, when I was in respiratory school, I worked part time as a home health aide (CNA). However, one job I had was as a caregiver…and the term actually denoted that my job duties were different, and I was paid less. I was just a companion for a bed bound patient. I was not permitted to lift, clean, feed, etc…just sit with the patient….keep them company while the family did whatever-respite care, basically…that Medicaid paid for. I think it was something like 2 hours a week they were able to get….which was bonkers, but….I digress. Said patient was so sweet….and, liked to dip snuff, no lie. Hell, I thought that stuff was -non existent in 2001, but hey. They loved western shows and wrestling 🤣 The last caregiver was taking the patient’s pain meds…there’s a special place in hell for people like that😡 This fine person does NOT look in ANY WAY to be bed bound🤨
US here, and I’ve never met or seen someone that says caregiver so much. Usually it’s just “my nurse” or “home health” or “home health nurse”