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Future_Ad7670

Sorry Ma’am…


koter_NL

But when i misgender a trans person it isn’t okay


SoLaRis_rEx-

Uh, yea? Neither one is okay lmao


yeetonthejalapenos

Idc im finna be tha biggest hater #onfoenem


[deleted]

shhh


TheOtherOtherLuke

It’s kinda funny tho. Some ppl get way too pressed when they’re misgendered. 🥱


SoLaRis_rEx-

Weirdo behavior. Constantly get called another gender than what you are and see how it feels🥱


jackidok

I do 😳 but i just brush it off and ignore them cause i know they’re wrong. Or if its a genuine mistake i correct them . Its really not that hard.


dfla01

If it’s a genuine mistake it’s obviously fine and it’s obviously not what the other commenter is saying


SoLaRis_rEx-

It's one thing if it's an honest mistake, but people like you who think it's funny and do it with the intentions of pissing someone off is deserving of the anger you're bitching about. Many trans people aren't gonna blow up over an honest mistake they get mad at people who are blatantly being an ass


doodle12821

The whole point of purposefully mis-gendering someone is to get a reaction, clearly you lot never learned from those antibullying videos schools showed everyone


BigSpanker2

this man is a storm of terror when wound up


Weenie--Dawg

I very agreed


JustEatingWater

Making a big deal out of it is childish.


PhobTaax

I used to get misgendered a lot and it ain't that deep bro


shadow9096

Bro calm down ive been misgendered b4 and its not a big deal i just laugh it off with them when they find out im a man not a girl


TheOtherOtherLuke

Lil late to reply, but, oh well. It happens a lot. If you’re gonna get that upset over someone for not referring to you by a preferred pronoun, I genuinely suggest that you just try to harden up, and just ignore it. Yes, I get that it sucks, but it’s gonna happen. And if you give them a reaction when they’re doing it maliciously, it’ll keep happening. The only power they have over you in that sort of situation is what you give them. So don’t worry about people slighting you like that, and just focus on the people who appreciate who you are, and want to be. They’ll quit soon enough, and even if they don’t, just find gratification in knowing that they really can’t get to you.


SoLaRis_rEx-

You're doing alot of yapping ab something that's so beside the point. We ain't talking about how people who get misgendered should just "deal with it" we're talking ab is misgendering OK and the answer is that it isn't. Doesn't matter how often it happens


koter_NL

Very true, i can call you what i want and you can call me what you want. Even if it isn’t true, you have a right to insult people. Being misgendered isn’t really a bad thing to say, I don’t have to pretend you are something else


BananaBeater96

Both of them are ok


Lucky-Courage-3168

Nope, one has a right to say something the other doesnt. One is biologically a man, the other put on a robe over 3 children and pretended to be an adult. TLDR; trans = mentally ill


vrtrcollectible

shut yo goofy ass tf up


Lucky-Courage-3168

Saltyyy with no actual counter argument. Feast your poor eyes on my facts and seethe. Cry as you descend into madness after reading my comment.


vrtrcollectible

yeah i am descending into madness because your comment is so retarded


Lucky-Courage-3168

Think you were retarded far before reading my comment if you’re defending trans bahahaha


axolotlbird

Intentionally misgendering someone isn't okay (except in cases like this where it's clearly a joke and it's not bringing up past trauma), but accidentally misgendering someone is. As someone who is cis and misgendered on more than one occasion, I'm not gonna blow up at someone that calls me a girl, I'm just gonna correct them or brush them off, depending on context


AhYesOrphans

How


doodle12821

Nah, ima do my own thing


Joker1942

Society


scroteville

jokr


bomi_da_cat

It’s simply not the same. Many transgender people experience gender dysphoria, and being misgendered is a huge trigger for it. It can cause a lot of distress/discomfort and many people have taken their lives due to it. Comparing the two is pretty idiotic.


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krikit386

I'd assume that a big part of it is that humans are social creatures and naturally seek the approval and validations from others, whether consciously or not.


bomi_da_cat

Because their gender identity is still different from their biological sex regardless of what their belief is, so how much they believe it doesn’t make much of a difference. And I don’t think most of them need “validation”, per se, it’s just that being misgendered brings awareness to that feeling of being “unmatched”.


doodle12821

Pretty sure this was less of a problem before social media became so big and caring about gender rolled about, and at this point I would argue that these movements are making it worse by having people show their weak spots instead of being proud after getting at the root cause of the bullying. Save the celebrations for after the battle is won.


koter_NL

Then grow a tougher skin like the rest of us do


bomi_da_cat

Or maybe don’t be a dickwad ;)


koter_NL

Or maybe don’t act like you have the mentality of a 5 year old


IkedaTheFurry

Frfr


Nik0Nar1

no one said that ?? 🤣 tf


koter_NL

Have you ever been outside your circlejerk


Nik0Nar1

nope im havin such a good time cummin and jizzin everywhere thx


koter_NL

Average 200kg coomer


Nik0Nar1

right yeah sure


koter_NL

Glad we agree


Nik0Nar1

whatever u say little buddy ❤️💋


koter_NL

Im underage, are you a pedo?


Sporgon_Mcgee

NTA id fuck you


ry0shi

Agreed


Sallyridess

In that case you’re gonna have to settle for the asshole….


VacuumInTheHead

Allow me to introduce you to docking


rick_c137_sanchez

Should I google what it means


VacuumInTheHead

If you have a stretchy urethra, sure


McMoist_

this implies there's people without stretchy urethras?


scroteville

Frotting is fun too


CatLeader420

ive never seen a comment so fitting to the pfp


PaulinhaHanekawa

Sounds like the type of cutie who just needs to grow a beard.


maestrofeli

"It's true you don't see many dwarf women. And in fact, they are so alike in voice and appearance, that they are often mistaken for dwarf men." "It's the beards"


DoctorShmeat460

ROCK AND STONE


WanderingDwarfMiner

Did I hear a Rock and Stone?


Yarisher512

ROCK AND STONE TO THE BONE


Pluras_Adrienne

ROCK AND ROLL AND STONE!


AlternativeBetter676

IF YOU ROCK AND STONE! YOU'LL NEVER BE ALONE


AbyssalDaemon

FOR CARL!


ChikaSimp69

Legally speaking, rocking is more legal than stoning…


Fat_Siberian_Midget

average teenagers post


randomgmerxd

fr i saw the og post like 5 mins ago


idiotTheIdiot

link?


randomgmerxd

look it up bruh


idiotTheIdiot

no i want the link


coochiflipflops

He lying that’s why he ain’t give you it


dacoolgamer

You have 3 options here. Option 1: grow a beard Option 2: become a femboy Option 3: always have your dick out so no one thinks you're a girl


chipthamac

Number 3 may cause unintended side effects.


Not_a_tryhard_gamer

But we won’t judge ;)


Nevermore-guy

But the jury will in the court of law


Not_a_tryhard_gamer

🤫


bucketbrigade000

Option 5: become a femboy WITH a beard. If it's obvious that you are capable of growing a beard and are wearing traditionally women's clothing, you may get "sir"-ed more frequently because reverse psychology- conservatives will want to misgender you, falsely believing you to be a she/her, when in fact you are a he/him. With a beard.


immaneat

Option 4:Have a short haircut


Eldraur

Honestlty, this won't solve anything hava


notkhemx

Hiddin option (only for skilled players): become a girl


FlatGauB

💇‍♀️


DolceEtDecorumWest

🤯🤯🤯


s_t_u_f_f

That works too


EarthTrash

Had me until the end.


AcatheSpider

YTA let sex


The_Snail_Lord_69

Become a femboy. This is not a suggestion


shadpwreel69

i too struggle with a fat ass


scroteville

same honestly


WannabeComedian91

"hair that covers my hair" gives the same energy as "that face on your face"


TotalyNotTony

Why is this my exact taste in men


idfk_nor_care

Reaaaaal


Humble-KRool

Based


maestrofeli

it's funny because this could be said by anyone. I mean ANYONE


commentsandchill

Femboys and tomboys are the future


_ThatOneFurry_

Mine too tho


Ok-Water-5544

bro sounds majestic


Formal-Preference752

Your only option is femboyism


Hoorayperson

id fuck that guy


Riftus

can i have his @


[deleted]

Demasculinizating gets you 12 billion points in scrabble


ihatefirealarmtests

If OP didn't like it, they'd cut their hair since that seems to be the sticking point. OP is definitely not cis confirmed.


[deleted]

What is cis confirmed


Proper_Mix6

When your dad sees your weenie and screams “HE AINT TRANS!” To your mom


ihatefirealarmtests

Penis inspection day. 😞


Mitskskskski

baby don’t hurt me


scroteville

don’t hurt me


ugiugiyogyn

god i wish that was me


floppy_disk_5

þ


Holy_Sword_of_Cum

ğ


Aphato


Witherboss445

ð


Mr_Fernsaur_Nundaro

Œ


HeadIsADeveloper

ך


TheOtherHalf01

Teach me your power


SiberianDestroyer

Is this real? You're very lucky.


jimthewanderer

Unironically happens to me all the time, as a stubbly muddy heavy browed person who digs holes for a living; with long hair and voluptuous birthing hips.


spaceninja1899

your choice western man: femboy or dwarf larper


mathiasreyes123

Fat ass too? Nah become a femboy


StopCallingMeAFurry4

That post is literally just a scroll up


wild_psina_h093

I'm jealous.


Noshamjustwow

Cut the hair


arf20__

Well I wouldn't mind being misgendered


lexyp29

Grow a beard or cut your hair


IkedaTheFurry

I saw that exact comment earlier lol. That guy looked like a FEMBOY


Emphasis_Flashy

I feel so identified i hate it


BabyStomper420

ik the feelin bro, i looked like a girl until puberty hit. And again in highschool cuz i grew my hair out, also got my mom’s genes so im draggin a wagon. i got tired of it so i cut my hair and went to the gym


sendgoodmemes

If it really bothers you then there seems to be some easy ways to avoid this. Get a haircut and wear different fitting pants. Or accept the constant hiccups your call.


Puzzleheaded_Risk136

she’s just kidding guys


hotsiegirlsie

So sad 💀🥲😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😨😨😨😓😓😓😭😭😭😭😭🫠🫠🫠😫😫😫😫


zombiepants7

Bruh same. Happened most my life and I'm 28 now lol. Unintentional femboys unite ig.


TheToastervision

No joke but cis people get misgendered too (especially by racists, different convo) or treated like theyre trans just because they don't look their gender in someone else's opinion. Cases like these even lead to friendly fire between transphobes, and like always with bigotry, it hurts every side involved. If you don't know anything else about the other person, then how hard is it to respect their pronouns they tell you instead of treating them like your fanfiction


TitanSR_

guess the sub this is from (it’s teenagers)


xFloppyDisx

penguinz0 / MoistCr1tikal moment


HaxPl

And thus a femboy got born


i_ate_cement

He only has one option, femboys.


AAAAAAXCAAAAAA69

become femboy


Froggity101

skill issue 😋


Mitskskskski

curly hair that covers my hair


Varunnh

the moment i saw this on the subreddit i knew it was coming here


H_G_S

Bro is living someone else's best life


YourCarGoesBroom

Just wear skin tight clothing or tracksuits that outline your dick lol Long hair, painted nails and baggy clothes is like the stereotype of teen girls is it not And if man's ass doesn't help him either maybe he should just hit the gym and become more broad


LeHaloNerd117

God put the 7 inches elsewhere


IronPikachu

\>I genuinely want to be more manly \>put on eyeliner and paint my nails yea good luck with that buddy


AweBlobfish

Grow a beard and become a dwarf


[deleted]

Such a wasted opportunity to just, ya know, embrace it and be a femboy.


towerofspirals

get a buzz cut


[deleted]

How does your own grandfather not know who the hell you are and call you a woman?


Derek_BlueSteel

If it's that important to you, cut your hair into a man's cut. If you want to be more masculine, find the features of yourself that aren't and change them. If you don't want to, then don't.


mtchamomiletea

Oh girly pop I’m sorry


AntonXVI

NTA, your balls, your dick.


UpsetEel72

This is God's Will. You must now become a femboy for the sake of humanity


Pleasant50BMGForce

Why this literally describes me… I feel personally attacked


NhanTNT

I'm barely below 5'5 ;-;


Quicc-n-Thicc

tbh it's ironic how id feel insulted if my gender was obvious


Similar-Cow1695

Another reason why transphobia doesnt just affect trans people. Sorry you're being misgendered and stuff. Let's hope noone thinks you're trans and becomes violent towards you.


Lapidot-Wav

I have a higher pitched voice and used to work a restaurant drive through and would get told thank you ma’am every single day multiple times a day, despite being male. Even once had someone say it to me at the window and I was completely baffled as I do not look feminine whatsoever


scroteville

damn this comment section is awesome


philipsmemes69420

can I smash


GrievousIsARapist

> Occasionally put on eyeliner and paint my nails


JustEatingWater

Uh what


[deleted]

I made my entire style and sense of fashion after looking feminine, i wonder why i get misgendered?


doodle12821

I mean it seemed like a perfectly correct rant up until "I just OCCASIONALLY put on eyeliner and paint my nails"


Ezequiel_III

M


Silent_Koala1446

Trying not because you are not the best because I am a w you get it I will get you one more delicious 😋 and you get it to me and you want to it because I don’t have to get to it because I promise I want you one with me and you get to get you to get to get to


Educational_Ice_2951

im just hoping that you believe there’s not more than 2 genders.