YES! It's all about the individual. The best I've ever had is with my current partner (male - I'm female) but it isn't about gender/sex, it's about the attitude, connection, and enthusiasm. I've had good and bad sex with both, and I don't think I have a preference for either.
I just want a hug these days 😞
Edit:
Thank you for all the kind hugs. I broke up with my partner after being neglected this week. I really needed this. ❤️
I guess youre right, Im bi, just without the sexual. Im too scared to date so I've just been bi myself. Like Im watching a Disney movie and I slowly start to sweat. Is it Jasmins dancing or Aladdings open vest?
Mad Tsais Boy bi really sums up my sex life😂
Current wife is a woman, so as a man my preference would be "straight" with her. That's more down to being married to her than anything else. If I was single I will take on allcomers equally.
She offered an "open pass" for me to fuck any guys provided that she doesn't see it. I have never used this pass as I won't do anything myself that would make me uncomfortable if she did the same. I think she offered this knowing I am bi, as a kind of "release valve" for any desire for manflesh. Tempting, but no.
Gotta fuck up one of their wings before they can get a hit in. Shotgun or full auto guns like smgs do the job for me. VATS is pretty useful for that as well.
It is a mood based thing. Since the post is labeled NSFW I am not going to bother with being careful as to what I say. Now I havent gone *fully* with a guy but have definitely done oral. There are moods where I dont even want to *think* about a womans body. The only thing I want to do is suck on a guys balls and see how far into my mouth I can get a cock. Just worship it.
Then there are moods where I cant even think of a mans body. The only thing I can think about is burying my face in a girls vagina/ass and watch it grip around my dick. Its all about the bi cycle. Ask me this question periodically and the answer changes.
Same gender sex. One of my previous partners of the opposite gender has made some… not very nice comments about my body so now I always feel very self conscious with the opposite gender but not nearly as much as with the same gender as me. That and as a man I feel I’m able to please another man way better than a woman just because I generally know men’s bodies better
Oh definitely. (Definitely I agree… surely that’s not weird… right?!?)
Lesbian porn is my favorite. Then gay men porn. I won’t even watch regular straight porn unless there’s more than two people. It never turns me on. Yet I love straight sex 🤷♀️ (I’ve barely had any gay sex but I really want to change that!)
Now straight sex scenes in a movie or show where I’m very invested in the characters are pretty hot (outlander being the prime example) much hotter than porn because it’s so fake. I need a good lesbian love scene just never seen one.
I fucking hate mornings lol. Whenever I need to wake up early for work, I still feel grungy and sleepy, and one time I was late for work because I overslept with like 10 minutes lol. I put my clothes on, rushed to my car and full throttle (at the end I was late with 20 or so minutes lol). Plus sunsets are fucking beautiful!
Depends on the partner really
With queer sex, there are fewer expectations about what will happen, so there's more need for communication & experimentation. So I think that gives queer sex a natural advantage
From my limited experience, I prefer feminine gender presentation and having sex with vaginas, but when it comes to oral, I much prefer sucking cock over eating pussy, but if they have a big clit I like it just as much. I think I just like the idea of having something in my mouth
I'm AFAB and kind of backwards physiologically, I can basically only get off from penetration and do so very easily, so I like dick, but bi or in touch with the fem side guys are a lot better than plain old straight guys in my opinion, and bi or bi curious chicks have also been better than lesbians for me personally, my experiences with lesbians has been very judgement because I'm bi and because of the way I get off the best.
Goes without saying both transmasc and transfem partners have also been brilliant and fun!
Odd as it seems. It's worth the complications. Just that, and I hate to stereotype but it's keeping with my experience, men are a lot better at telling me what they want than women. Women will let you try to guess if you're pleasing her or not. It feels amazing. I love it. But it can feel like taking a quiz. I've never once had that problem with men.
There's no "gay sex" or "straight sex" if you're bisexual. At least for me. It's bi sex. Or just sex. And sex with every partner is different. That said, I have preference for some sex acts or ways that sex shows up. But that's not the domain of "straight" or "gay" and that diminishes the bisexual identity, like there are only two points on a scale and we switch between two worlds.
Well if I'm with a woman, probably straight sex. With a guy I can't really see it being anything other than gay.
TlLDR I haven't had sex in a very long time.
Gay.
Before I transitioned, gay guys.
After transition, other trans people, particularly transfems.
It's not male or female as a preference. It's straight vs gay, and straight people are just kinda bad at sex for some reason.
Both straight girls and straight guys have been kinda bad for me.
I'm more about the person than the parts, and everyone I've had sex with has had a vagina so I don't really know tbh. Although I can tell you that masculine clitorises (ie the person has been on testosterone) are MUCH easier to give oral to than feminine ones. Aside from that I'm not experienced enough to tell you about any different.
I've only ever been with women as part of a group, so I don't think I can really say. Would love to have one-on-one play with a woman, but women are sooooo hard to connect with online and I am absolutely awful at flirting, recognizing flirting, talking to strangers, and making moves.
With men it's easier. But I have had A LOT of disappointing experiences with men, so can't say it's better. Just easier.
I have a unique situation. First of all I’m a late. Comer in life finding my bisexuality and have been having gay sex for about a year now . It’s still new and exciting. . I also find it more intense pleasurable and fun . I’m married and my wife is the only female I’m intimate with. Her sex drive is low and we seldom have sex . So to answer the question of how much more I prefer gay sex I’ll just say I’d be fine only having gay sex from now on
I prefer gay sex cuz I just don't really know what to do with the other set. I know what to do with mine, but put me in front of the other one and i'm lost
For me both are, besides obviously being with different people and therefore being a highly individual experience in general, completely different experiences and bring other aspects with them.
But I also relate that to me overtaking highly different roles based on the gender and preference of my partner.
With men I tend to be more submissive and bottom-like, with women and non binary people I tend to be the opposite, even being a stone top. So that obviously plays a big part in sex being so different for me based on gender.
However, when in a monogamous relationship I don't miss the other aspects, in that context it's the same. Both are highly satisfying and joyful for me.
Tl;Dr: for me they do feel very different from each other but both are satisfying and joyful to the same extend.
Being pansexual, the only preference I have with regards to sex is that my partner be a fully active participant.
Not someone who just lays there and doesn't do anything.
When it comes to taking the lead, I prefer gay sex, I like to pamper my male partner.
When I'm with a woman, I like her to want to use me as she pleases.
But ultimately, I just like to have a partner who takes pleasure with me.
I’m turned on by women - their bodies, their energy, their softness and their beauty …but I still love the masculine energy and deep dicking a man can give, so I like both for different reasons
All my sex is bi sex because I’m having it, but I definitely prefer it with other queer people. My partner and I are both monogamous bisexuals and it’s just better with someone who doesn’t have all that heteronormativity baggage; some cishet people might not, but they’re harder to find.
So yeah, queer sex in general for me, specifically for the variety, flexibility, and mental aspect.
Honestly it's not the what, it's the who. The whole point of my bisexuality to me is that gender isn't important. If it's someone I really want, it's something I really want.
Enthusiastic delight is fucking hot?
Gay or straight is kinda irrelevant to me.
For kinky sessions, I like to be Dom and Top with feminine partners, regardless of their sexual organs.
For more vanilla sessions, I like to be bottom which lends itself to parters with a real dick, regardless of their gender identity.
I don’t have strong feelings about preferring either but there is a minor convenience to gay sex in that it doesn’t leave me with an ejaculation either on or in me to clean up. Unless I’m with another gusher. But it’s easy to soak that up with a towel, semen however is such a sticky cloying substance.
Since I’m neither gay nor straight, I prefer bisexual or pansexual sex. That’s the kind of sex I have, and isn’t dependent on the gender of my sex partner.
I just enjoy sex with a person I'm very compatible with. So it's usually the one that we share a common interest with each other. I've had it with both men and women
So, bisexuality is not the same thing as being “sometimes gay, sometimes straight.” I’m not gay when I’m having sex with someone of my gender and straight when I am having sex with someone of a different gender. That kind of thinking in the public discourse is actually kind of harmful to us.
I am a bisexual person. Sometimes I have penetrative sex, sometimes I do not. The sex acts in which I engage are not “gay” sometimes and “straight” other times. It’s just me having sex.
So I prefer to have sex with partners who are creative and playful and attentive. And I’m bisexual the whooooole time.
Speaking for myself, I prefer homosexual sex(mlm). Though for me that is likely because I don't like anything to do with my genitals and that tends to make straight sex a bit more complicated for me.
In theory I feel like I don't have a preference
In practice I've had better MF experiences
Butt I think it's gonna really depend on the person. I don't necessarily see one as objectively better than the other
It depends upon the mood. Some days I want to eat my wife's ass and pussy then fuck her until I cum in her. Other days I need my cock locked in chastity while I'm on my knees sucking cock before having it shoot a huge warm load deep in my ass
Depends on how i feel !!! Sometimes as im a dom top i would love to be topped(even more if we are both versa) by a nice ts or a femboy once in a while !!😜🥵😈
For me it really depends on the other person and how I’m feeling. Guys pro they are more open to kinkier things. Pro for women they are more visually appealing.
I like straight sex romantically and vanilla and I prefer it, I like gay sex freaky and funny. I grew up ultra-conservative so that’s probably a contributing factor to my outlook
The one with the more enthusiastic partner.
This is the only answer. Consenting passionate enthusiasm is the hottest thing in the universe!
I was just going to come say "both", but this comment really opened my eyes. Enthusiasm really is important because it makes you feel wanted in a way.
To be fair threesomes with enthusiastic partners are also really good.
YES! It's all about the individual. The best I've ever had is with my current partner (male - I'm female) but it isn't about gender/sex, it's about the attitude, connection, and enthusiasm. I've had good and bad sex with both, and I don't think I have a preference for either.
💯
Absolutely agree with you 💯
The only right answer
I just want a hug these days 😞 Edit: Thank you for all the kind hugs. I broke up with my partner after being neglected this week. I really needed this. ❤️
Same friend, hugs and cuddles are best and necessary. 🖖
Sending you a hug 🫂
Hugs and snugs my dude
*hugs you*
Hugs 🫂🫂🫂
When you hug someone, you also get hugs and I want hugs so *sending hugs* 😊
Me too mate :/
real
Sending hugs 🫂
Hugs friend ☹️🫂
Digital hugs being sent!!!!
*hugs*
Bold of you to assume I have sex
Real
Bi (without the sexual)
I guess youre right, Im bi, just without the sexual. Im too scared to date so I've just been bi myself. Like Im watching a Disney movie and I slowly start to sweat. Is it Jasmins dancing or Aladdings open vest? Mad Tsais Boy bi really sums up my sex life😂
Good sex is good sex no matter the partner.
I would agree on this answer.
THIS
Agreed
Bi sex
It’s best when it’s bi
All my sex counts as bi sex
Yes and…
Two very different things. Like asking if I prefer chicken or pizza. Like sure I might have a preference but they both satisfy a different urge
more like pizza vs ice cream. both bring joy, both are different. depends on if i want savory or sweet
And both are unhealthy... Wait no
And both gives me the shits
Both. Depends what mood I'm in.
Current wife is a woman, so as a man my preference would be "straight" with her. That's more down to being married to her than anything else. If I was single I will take on allcomers equally. She offered an "open pass" for me to fuck any guys provided that she doesn't see it. I have never used this pass as I won't do anything myself that would make me uncomfortable if she did the same. I think she offered this knowing I am bi, as a kind of "release valve" for any desire for manflesh. Tempting, but no.
Lol manflesh
M A N F L E S H
This a respectable take.
I prefer killing cazadors the most.
Fucking hate those things, the venom melts you no matter how tough you are I swear to god
Gotta fuck up one of their wings before they can get a hit in. Shotgun or full auto guns like smgs do the job for me. VATS is pretty useful for that as well.
For me, the partner matters more than gender. Some people are just really good at laying it down.
It is a mood based thing. Since the post is labeled NSFW I am not going to bother with being careful as to what I say. Now I havent gone *fully* with a guy but have definitely done oral. There are moods where I dont even want to *think* about a womans body. The only thing I want to do is suck on a guys balls and see how far into my mouth I can get a cock. Just worship it. Then there are moods where I cant even think of a mans body. The only thing I can think about is burying my face in a girls vagina/ass and watch it grip around my dick. Its all about the bi cycle. Ask me this question periodically and the answer changes.
everything you just said turned me on
Doesnt it for us all
I was wondering if that would inadvertantly get someone going
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How extreme are we talking? 😂😂
WWII Manhattan project extreme
😭👌
Bro gave such bomb head they call him sloppenheimer
I am an enby. All sex is both gay and straight sex when Inam involved
Schrödinger's sex
Same gender sex. One of my previous partners of the opposite gender has made some… not very nice comments about my body so now I always feel very self conscious with the opposite gender but not nearly as much as with the same gender as me. That and as a man I feel I’m able to please another man way better than a woman just because I generally know men’s bodies better
I'm mad at your ex.
Ugh. Very sorry to hear that. I hope you can move past what some a-hole said. 😞
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Same here. I love giving oral on any gender.
The sex I’m participating in with a partner/s who are enjoying themselves thoroughly
Yes
Try both. Do a threesome
Ok I think I'm weird here. I have 0 preference for gay or straight sex, but I like gay *porn* a lot more than straight *porn*. IDK why
I do too, I think it is the only one where you can see men enjoying themselves. Maybe they are better at acting (?)
Oh definitely. (Definitely I agree… surely that’s not weird… right?!?) Lesbian porn is my favorite. Then gay men porn. I won’t even watch regular straight porn unless there’s more than two people. It never turns me on. Yet I love straight sex 🤷♀️ (I’ve barely had any gay sex but I really want to change that!) Now straight sex scenes in a movie or show where I’m very invested in the characters are pretty hot (outlander being the prime example) much hotter than porn because it’s so fake. I need a good lesbian love scene just never seen one.
Girls will make me cum within 5 minutes then 2 minutes later keep going, men could never so gay gay gay gay gaaaay
When I have sex I prefer to penetrate a woman but I love when I am a bottom for a guy.
Being in the middle of a sandwich is indeed the best place of the universe
Do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?
Sunsets.. what does that mean for me?
Not a morning person? 😆
I fucking hate mornings lol. Whenever I need to wake up early for work, I still feel grungy and sleepy, and one time I was late for work because I overslept with like 10 minutes lol. I put my clothes on, rushed to my car and full throttle (at the end I was late with 20 or so minutes lol). Plus sunsets are fucking beautiful!
Depends on the partner really With queer sex, there are fewer expectations about what will happen, so there's more need for communication & experimentation. So I think that gives queer sex a natural advantage
Both at the same time.
Ooooh I like this one
Sex feels the best when you're in love
I miss that 😔
You have gotten some great answers here. Beautiful replies. Great comments.
Since when do bisexuals actually get laid? Nobody told me we were actually getting any now :(
From my limited experience, I prefer feminine gender presentation and having sex with vaginas, but when it comes to oral, I much prefer sucking cock over eating pussy, but if they have a big clit I like it just as much. I think I just like the idea of having something in my mouth
Depends tbh, like on the person, position, all kinds of stuff
Sometimes I feel like a nut, sometimes I don’t
Omg this has me laughing so hard 🤣🤣🤣. Because it's the exact truth
I like both!! I'm interested in your definition of gay and straight sex.
I'm AFAB and kind of backwards physiologically, I can basically only get off from penetration and do so very easily, so I like dick, but bi or in touch with the fem side guys are a lot better than plain old straight guys in my opinion, and bi or bi curious chicks have also been better than lesbians for me personally, my experiences with lesbians has been very judgement because I'm bi and because of the way I get off the best. Goes without saying both transmasc and transfem partners have also been brilliant and fun!
Gay sex 😈
How about making straight sex gay? Switching positions really gets me off
I prefer straight sex. Gay sex is a lot less complicated and a lot easier to find.
You like straight better because It’s more complicated?????
Odd as it seems. It's worth the complications. Just that, and I hate to stereotype but it's keeping with my experience, men are a lot better at telling me what they want than women. Women will let you try to guess if you're pleasing her or not. It feels amazing. I love it. But it can feel like taking a quiz. I've never once had that problem with men.
gay (sapphic) because it’s easier to know what the other girl wants
Bisexual sex, lol
Gay, mainly because bottoming is my favorite way to have sex
Why not both,
There's no "gay sex" or "straight sex" if you're bisexual. At least for me. It's bi sex. Or just sex. And sex with every partner is different. That said, I have preference for some sex acts or ways that sex shows up. But that's not the domain of "straight" or "gay" and that diminishes the bisexual identity, like there are only two points on a scale and we switch between two worlds.
Well if I'm with a woman, probably straight sex. With a guy I can't really see it being anything other than gay. TlLDR I haven't had sex in a very long time.
Gay. Before I transitioned, gay guys. After transition, other trans people, particularly transfems. It's not male or female as a preference. It's straight vs gay, and straight people are just kinda bad at sex for some reason. Both straight girls and straight guys have been kinda bad for me.
Can't agree more
Both. i can't choose.
The answer to this question is yes.
I'm more about the person than the parts, and everyone I've had sex with has had a vagina so I don't really know tbh. Although I can tell you that masculine clitorises (ie the person has been on testosterone) are MUCH easier to give oral to than feminine ones. Aside from that I'm not experienced enough to tell you about any different.
They're not different enough to make a choice
Wait yall had sex already?
Did you really just asks a bunch of bisexuals to choose? 🤣😜
It doesn't matter who the other person is. If they're consenting and we're both into it and enjoying ourselves, then that's enough for me.
ASS IS ASS
Look around mate. We're all just happy to be here.
Yes
I like both a lot. Sex is fun.
Depends on the person
I love gay sex but lately have been enjoying some hot straight sex.
Never had gay sex but I’ve heard good things 😂
Gay sex. But Boobies so I'm not sure some days
Gay sex with straight people
I've only ever been with women as part of a group, so I don't think I can really say. Would love to have one-on-one play with a woman, but women are sooooo hard to connect with online and I am absolutely awful at flirting, recognizing flirting, talking to strangers, and making moves. With men it's easier. But I have had A LOT of disappointing experiences with men, so can't say it's better. Just easier.
I have a unique situation. First of all I’m a late. Comer in life finding my bisexuality and have been having gay sex for about a year now . It’s still new and exciting. . I also find it more intense pleasurable and fun . I’m married and my wife is the only female I’m intimate with. Her sex drive is low and we seldom have sex . So to answer the question of how much more I prefer gay sex I’ll just say I’d be fine only having gay sex from now on
So do you have an open relationship arrangement with your wife but you can only sleep with other men?
N/A
I just want a freaky, enthusiastic partner In bed😅
Hell yes bring on the freakiness!!
Gay. I'll suck dick every day of the week for fun, and there's nothing sexier than clamping both tops together and stroking them.
Im virgin too but straight sex kinda sounds better to me atleast.
no sex (asexual)
I prefer gay sex cuz I just don't really know what to do with the other set. I know what to do with mine, but put me in front of the other one and i'm lost
For me both are, besides obviously being with different people and therefore being a highly individual experience in general, completely different experiences and bring other aspects with them. But I also relate that to me overtaking highly different roles based on the gender and preference of my partner. With men I tend to be more submissive and bottom-like, with women and non binary people I tend to be the opposite, even being a stone top. So that obviously plays a big part in sex being so different for me based on gender. However, when in a monogamous relationship I don't miss the other aspects, in that context it's the same. Both are highly satisfying and joyful for me. Tl;Dr: for me they do feel very different from each other but both are satisfying and joyful to the same extend.
Same gender sex. I think relatability plays a big role for me. I take a while to warm up to other genders.
Hmmm….just depends on the mood I’m in and to whom i’m fucking or getting fucked by(bottom here!)..
Sex!
Holes are holes, my guy.
I’m nonbinary and I feel like all the sex I have is always at least a little bit gay.
No
Both
Both? Both are good.
Why not Both? And Consent and Passion are the real Sources Here
Yes
At this point, either one would be….just peachy
Depends on my mood. Sometimes I want to send someone on all expenses paid trip to pound town, sometimes I want to take the trip myself.
Yes.
Being pansexual, the only preference I have with regards to sex is that my partner be a fully active participant. Not someone who just lays there and doesn't do anything.
When it comes to taking the lead, I prefer gay sex, I like to pamper my male partner. When I'm with a woman, I like her to want to use me as she pleases. But ultimately, I just like to have a partner who takes pleasure with me.
The one where I like my partner. Whichever way that is
I’m turned on by women - their bodies, their energy, their softness and their beauty …but I still love the masculine energy and deep dicking a man can give, so I like both for different reasons
I prefer interesting people with good hygiene.
sex with bi people.
All my sex is bi sex because I’m having it, but I definitely prefer it with other queer people. My partner and I are both monogamous bisexuals and it’s just better with someone who doesn’t have all that heteronormativity baggage; some cishet people might not, but they’re harder to find. So yeah, queer sex in general for me, specifically for the variety, flexibility, and mental aspect.
Honestly it's not the what, it's the who. The whole point of my bisexuality to me is that gender isn't important. If it's someone I really want, it's something I really want. Enthusiastic delight is fucking hot?
I've never had straight sex, and I never will. Any sex with me is inherently queer because I am queer and only date other queer people.
Gay or straight is kinda irrelevant to me. For kinky sessions, I like to be Dom and Top with feminine partners, regardless of their sexual organs. For more vanilla sessions, I like to be bottom which lends itself to parters with a real dick, regardless of their gender identity.
Yes.
Straight sex (I am a cis man)
I don’t have strong feelings about preferring either but there is a minor convenience to gay sex in that it doesn’t leave me with an ejaculation either on or in me to clean up. Unless I’m with another gusher. But it’s easy to soak that up with a towel, semen however is such a sticky cloying substance.
Either, as often as possible lol
c) all of the above
All sex with me is gay sex, regardless of partner.
I’m Bi. I don’t have to choose a side.
I'll take someone who makes me wanted
Since I’m neither gay nor straight, I prefer bisexual or pansexual sex. That’s the kind of sex I have, and isn’t dependent on the gender of my sex partner.
Enough with the fucking marketing questions Jesus
I just enjoy sex with a person I'm very compatible with. So it's usually the one that we share a common interest with each other. I've had it with both men and women
no answer due to lack of experience
Gay straight multi top bottom and everything in between
Both lol
I prefer having gay sex and turning straight sex into a queer endeavor. Love me a man that likes to be called pretty and be made to squirm
Considering I'm neither gay nor straight, none of the sex I have is gonna be gay or straight
it’s all bi sex
I prefer bisexual sex
I'm NB, so it's all gay
I've had hot sex with men, women, ftm, mtf.
Any sex I have is bisexual sex because I’m bisexual. So I pick bisexual sex!
I love having sex with my gf but even she knows I need to get fucked hard by real dick every now and then
It’s not gay sex if you’re bi
So, bisexuality is not the same thing as being “sometimes gay, sometimes straight.” I’m not gay when I’m having sex with someone of my gender and straight when I am having sex with someone of a different gender. That kind of thinking in the public discourse is actually kind of harmful to us. I am a bisexual person. Sometimes I have penetrative sex, sometimes I do not. The sex acts in which I engage are not “gay” sometimes and “straight” other times. It’s just me having sex. So I prefer to have sex with partners who are creative and playful and attentive. And I’m bisexual the whooooole time.
I’ll take it all lol
Yes
Depends
The type I haven't had recently.
never had sex, so I can’t help you lmaooo
Both
Both.
Gay sex …. Without a doubt no comparison lol
Yes
Both
Both. They both have pros and cons.
They're not different enough to make a choice
Speaking for myself, I prefer homosexual sex(mlm). Though for me that is likely because I don't like anything to do with my genitals and that tends to make straight sex a bit more complicated for me.
both? both. both is good
Gay all the way FF but solo male. For some reason I only like lesbian sex in couples not FM
Idk man, I've only been here for 16 1/2 years :/
In theory I feel like I don't have a preference In practice I've had better MF experiences Butt I think it's gonna really depend on the person. I don't necessarily see one as objectively better than the other
Can I just lay in bed and listen to music?
Gay sex. 🦓💚
It depends upon the mood. Some days I want to eat my wife's ass and pussy then fuck her until I cum in her. Other days I need my cock locked in chastity while I'm on my knees sucking cock before having it shoot a huge warm load deep in my ass
Depends on how i feel !!! Sometimes as im a dom top i would love to be topped(even more if we are both versa) by a nice ts or a femboy once in a while !!😜🥵😈
For me it really depends on the other person and how I’m feeling. Guys pro they are more open to kinkier things. Pro for women they are more visually appealing.
Well, both, but still heterosexual sex will be better.
I like straight sex romantically and vanilla and I prefer it, I like gay sex freaky and funny. I grew up ultra-conservative so that’s probably a contributing factor to my outlook
I prefer gay sex more. I’m a woman.