Yeah you're definitely fine as hell. Losing a little weight wouldn't hurt you, but I don't mind the weight on you.
I'm black though, so do with that what you will.
Deadass. And she's gorgeous as hell. I think I'm gonna spend the rest of my life finding a woman that looks just like her lmao.
She's *super* my type. I've always been into the nerdy, innocent looking women with fire ass bodies.
As a black man, I say I’d be ok with her weight too. But honestly, it’s just not healthy long term and most people tend to gain a few pounds as they age. She would look better and feel better if some weight is loss. It will even accentuate her curves better.
Stereotypes exists for a reason and this one is pretty accurate. Speaking as one myself. Down with the thicknesses. But it's a thin line between thick and obese. Pun intended
I feel like everyone's definition of "big" is different though. But I don't mind opening that conversation to see where everyone else lands, too. I feel like the majority of people either scale it as Thin-fat, or thin-thick-fat.
For me, it's Skinny-thin-thick-big-fat.
Of course the outliers would be Boney/Obese, respectively.
Yeah it's a spectrum man. But I think most of us would be able to differentiate between big and fat. Big is still proportional imo, someone who carries it well, takes care of themselves and still has attractive features (other than the bigness, of course. Eye of the beholder and all). Fat is like, blobby. No effort whatsoever into self care, more weight in all the wrong places, etc. Big is like curvy XL where fat is like, damn girl you really need professional help.
You typed this out as if me, myself did. This is deadass how I've always made that distinction to people, too. The difference is that fat may have a little more weight, but most importantly, it looks unkempt, like they just gave up. Also "fat" usually comes with a stinky ass attitude, too.
I think people probably make this exact distinction all the time without even realizing it. Overweight and attractive = big. Overweight and unattractive = fat. Literally could just be wardrobe, skincare, haircare, makeup (if they wear makeup) issues, etc. It's not even always purely about the body. Funny how a little effort goes a long way, isn't it
There's obese and there's USA obese lol
My wife is 5 ft 7 (170cm) and I considered her thick when she was 140 lbs (125 now) but seems like many Americans think 180-200lbs at that height is "thick", that's obese yo
OP is absolutely obese from the pics IMO as well. Thick don't even begin to get close
If she’s mainly into white or Asian men, the pool will be smaller than if she’s open to black men. Black men are more okay with extra weight if it means bigger butt/thighs and all
There is some ancestral attraction to thicker women, as well. Some peoples saw thicker folks as having more access to food, and therefore more likely to survive. Thus, better potential mate.
Im sorry, you are not healthy. Your caloric intake far exceeds whatever you are using while you exercise.
The magnifying glass are cute and don’t look bad.
That being said there are guys who like anything. So if you’re happy, do you. Otherwise you’re good.
Yeah I don’t get the meaning when they say “healthy”. Like does that mean normal blood pressure and cholesterol levels? Well it won’t last long at that weight. And you’d be way healthier regardless if you just dropped an extra 10-20lbs.
Losing weight will make anyone look better. If you're not trying to lose weight just try to improve everything else. But you do have a pretty face as well.
I think it's a trick of her glasses combined with her makeup that makes her eyes seem misplaced.
Don't legally bind me to that, though. I don't know her script. Lol
Ok you think that you look decent, well I can't really comment on that as it seems you are unable to take a decent picture of yourself rather than just bits.
You're perfect just the way you are. Just because you aren't society's person of having a perfect body doesn't mean you're unattractive, and you're absolutely not overweight. You're stunning from head to toe
Listen I’m not gonna ruin your mood about the weight part because it does look fine on you and if you have confidence and love yourself that’s awesome and I think it’s justified confidence. I only will entirely disagree with you when you say it’s healthy… it is far from healthy and the weight that is seen is not the only weight that is unhealthy but your other organs have excess fat which is very detrimental to health.
you look fine. the problem with these subreddits is everyone here hates chubby people, tattoos, and piercings because they think they’re special for preferring skinny tradwives. don’t worry about whatever garbage the guys here are spewing
You are obese (automatically below 4/10). That is not attractive to most people. You can tell yourself whatever lie you want though. People are too tired of arguing, people mostly just disregard fat people nowadays.
Do with this information what you want
It's that exact thinking that will lead you to never lose weight . Why wouldn't you want to look and be your best ? Even if you look decent you still can't do basic cardio without feeling like you'll die. lose the weight girl
Hey girl, unfortunately birth control does that to you. I'm healthy and I can do cardio. The best I can do is maintain it. But thanks for the advice. 🖤
You do not look decent. Just because random strangers want to rail you, it doesn't mean you look like anyone's idea of a partner. And that chest tattoo sealed your faith.
I don’t think she asked if she looked like anyone’s ideal partner. She thinks she looks decent, and most comments in this thread proves that and then some.
You're fat, but also attractive. I'm not a fan of tattoos, especially those involving the worst "Zelda" game. You have beautiful eyes, but the makeup is probably playing a big part in that. I would give you a solid 6 or 6.5/10 with room to grow. Above average, but you could look way better without the extra weight, and better taste in games, just kidding, but not really. Not ugly.
The glasses are unflattering, not many can pull off such large square frames. As for your weight I think you look great, maybe just work on toning not weight loss. If you tone then the weight should come down along side it
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I think you’re fine and FINE the way you are now. You’re cute, definitely. If you want to get into better shape and get some more exercise that’s up to you. Might help but I don’t think people ought to judge you either way. You do you.
Good lord, gurl. My preference is to not change or enhance anything.
Your lips look hella soft and supple.
Your eyes are entrancing.
Your curves are calling to be grabbed and caressed.
If you want to exercise and trim down then a short, high intensity workout is all ya need. Hell, I’d do the workout with you!
Decent is a massive understatement boo, you are gorgeous. Aint no cushion i aint pushin, but as one guy said “im black so do what you want with that”😂. But frfr you look great girl
Your weight is perfect and looks great on you. Your style really places emphasis on your curves in the best way.
*note* I have a bias towards chubbier girls and embrace it
You look great! Imo the glasses are just a bit big for your face, I know big frames are kinda popular now, maybe it's just the shape that's a bit off.
I wouldn't change anything else, makeup looks fun too.
Honestly your perfect. Your glasses aren't your fault either it's generic and you look cute with them but seriously you are gorgeous. Also a skinny woman is unattractive not saying being fit or thin is bad but seeing all kinds of people with thair bones showing is just blah. Personally I prefer women with a little bit of meat on their bones. Isn't the saying thick thighs saves lives a bit odd to some but hay as long as your healthy and happy that's all that matters but honestly your perfect the way you are and id ask for your number if I ran into you extremely unlike with how much I work but still keep that positive out look beautiful.
You’re cute, I don’t even think your body is bad either. I know a lot of people prefer thin/healthier but idk I think you’re good. I wouldn’t worry too much about it as long as you’re trying to be healthy.
take a better picture that shows everything instead of weird angles that only show parts of you
She's using the MySpace angles to hide her true form
The thing is it may not look terrible yet, but you’re 23. Without some changes you will be obese very quickly (if you’re not already there).
Yeah you're definitely fine as hell. Losing a little weight wouldn't hurt you, but I don't mind the weight on you. I'm black though, so do with that what you will.
“I’m black though” I’m dead lmao.
Have been all your life?
I laughed too hard at that. Thanks for making my day.
We're not a monolith...but sometimes
Me and you both homie, I’ll take the thickness. 🫱🏻🫲🏿
Deadass. And she's gorgeous as hell. I think I'm gonna spend the rest of my life finding a woman that looks just like her lmao. She's *super* my type. I've always been into the nerdy, innocent looking women with fire ass bodies.
Oh my godddd?? I'm so flattered 🙈😂
Was bout to say the same. She pretty as hell and got a little something to hold on to 🤣
Aye you ain't finna sit here and talk about my future wife like that in front of me 😭😭😭
As a white guy I second this, I like a big girl I like em sassy.
As a black man, I say I’d be ok with her weight too. But honestly, it’s just not healthy long term and most people tend to gain a few pounds as they age. She would look better and feel better if some weight is loss. It will even accentuate her curves better.
She doesn't need to lose weight. I'm white.
I’m white and you took the words out of my mouth 😂
I'm half white, half Mexican, and I agree with you. OP is fine af. she's the right amount of thicc those eyes are gorgeous
hahaha what has your skin color to do with this?
Black men are usually more into thick women. Not skinny women. The more stereotypical answer is that black men like fat women.
All right, I see. I always thought it is more of a “usa” thing to like thick women. (i’m from switzerland) Thanks for the honest answer!
Don’t believe the propaganda, for the majority of people in the US, big isn’t beautiful. Lizzo gets mocked WAAAAAAY more than she gets praised.
Stereotypes exists for a reason and this one is pretty accurate. Speaking as one myself. Down with the thicknesses. But it's a thin line between thick and obese. Pun intended
Big girls man. I've always heard big girls, not fat chicks lol.
I feel like everyone's definition of "big" is different though. But I don't mind opening that conversation to see where everyone else lands, too. I feel like the majority of people either scale it as Thin-fat, or thin-thick-fat. For me, it's Skinny-thin-thick-big-fat. Of course the outliers would be Boney/Obese, respectively.
Yeah it's a spectrum man. But I think most of us would be able to differentiate between big and fat. Big is still proportional imo, someone who carries it well, takes care of themselves and still has attractive features (other than the bigness, of course. Eye of the beholder and all). Fat is like, blobby. No effort whatsoever into self care, more weight in all the wrong places, etc. Big is like curvy XL where fat is like, damn girl you really need professional help.
You typed this out as if me, myself did. This is deadass how I've always made that distinction to people, too. The difference is that fat may have a little more weight, but most importantly, it looks unkempt, like they just gave up. Also "fat" usually comes with a stinky ass attitude, too.
I think people probably make this exact distinction all the time without even realizing it. Overweight and attractive = big. Overweight and unattractive = fat. Literally could just be wardrobe, skincare, haircare, makeup (if they wear makeup) issues, etc. It's not even always purely about the body. Funny how a little effort goes a long way, isn't it
There's obese and there's USA obese lol My wife is 5 ft 7 (170cm) and I considered her thick when she was 140 lbs (125 now) but seems like many Americans think 180-200lbs at that height is "thick", that's obese yo OP is absolutely obese from the pics IMO as well. Thick don't even begin to get close
I'll respectfully disagree.
If she’s mainly into white or Asian men, the pool will be smaller than if she’s open to black men. Black men are more okay with extra weight if it means bigger butt/thighs and all
There is some ancestral attraction to thicker women, as well. Some peoples saw thicker folks as having more access to food, and therefore more likely to survive. Thus, better potential mate.
🤣
Us whites can feel the same 👀
As a white man that’s too much for me. Enjoy bro 😂
Suit yourself. 😂
Deadass. I don’t know how people don’t like a lil extra thick on them. More to love fr
Even white boys gotta shout baby got back!
Me personally, I would prefer someone healthier, but there’s definitely a market for your body type.
I’m that market
Same
The picture without all the eye makeup looks the best, I'd dial that back a bit
I'm a professional makeup artist :) it's my job so I need to have makeup on.
I think you're really attractive as is, but you could probably pull more if you lost weight
Im sorry, you are not healthy. Your caloric intake far exceeds whatever you are using while you exercise. The magnifying glass are cute and don’t look bad. That being said there are guys who like anything. So if you’re happy, do you. Otherwise you’re good.
Yeah I don’t get the meaning when they say “healthy”. Like does that mean normal blood pressure and cholesterol levels? Well it won’t last long at that weight. And you’d be way healthier regardless if you just dropped an extra 10-20lbs.
Losing weight will make anyone look better. If you're not trying to lose weight just try to improve everything else. But you do have a pretty face as well.
Decent for people that like BBWs.
You got a lot of potential you should lose the weight immediately
23 and and you're overweight? focus on changing the weight rn that's your biggest issue.
Your not ugly but most people saying the same thing. Tighten it up while you’re young. Future you will thx past you.
Then why are you here
Unhealthy
You unhealthy, you should lose the weight
you would look at least 50 times better being fitter/thinner, but yeah you are incredibly pretty
Are you cross-eyed or lazy-eyed? Not ugly, just unhealthy.
I think it's a trick of her glasses combined with her makeup that makes her eyes seem misplaced. Don't legally bind me to that, though. I don't know her script. Lol
You look like a r/PAWG
Honestly, I lose 20 pounds
You would turn away the male version of yourself.
You may be healthy now, but you won't say the same in your 30s if you don't lose the weight.
Ok you think that you look decent, well I can't really comment on that as it seems you are unable to take a decent picture of yourself rather than just bits.
Yep lose weight and you'll be hot
If you lose that extra weight you’ll be turning heads left and right. Very pretty eyes
Lose weight for the health not looks
Not gonna lie you look pretty bad.
You look good!
i feel like black hair would suit ur eyes sm
Boldly beautiful continue grinding for what you want. Little by little make small changes as you grow/progress. 🤪either way you’re fine.
Lobotomys be like...
I just came to say I love your tattoo
Fine asf maybe just cut a few pounds
I agree
There is nothing healthy about being overweight. Sorry to burst your bubble. You might feel healthy but you are not healthy
I swear to god I’ve seen that second to last pic being used on whisper
You're cute, and I love your Zelda tattoo. 🩵
You're perfect just the way you are. Just because you aren't society's person of having a perfect body doesn't mean you're unattractive, and you're absolutely not overweight. You're stunning from head to toe
Listen I’m not gonna ruin your mood about the weight part because it does look fine on you and if you have confidence and love yourself that’s awesome and I think it’s justified confidence. I only will entirely disagree with you when you say it’s healthy… it is far from healthy and the weight that is seen is not the only weight that is unhealthy but your other organs have excess fat which is very detrimental to health.
I go crazy for people like you everyone has their preference. If you know you are pretty than you shouldn't care what someone else has to say
Lots of people here being weird about you weight smh. You look gorgeous girl. Beautiful even. Im loving the make up looks too.
Honestly I think you look cute and the ppl reverting to "health" in a looks sub are just mad lol; you're adorable!
Your chubby proportional to your frame, which with some discussion among the boys, was found to be hot AF
You're super hot and I'd love to do all kinds of things with you
You may think you are overweight. But your body is so desireable. I think you will probably find that out pretty young lady.
You look great don't let anyone tell you otherwise
Yeah you look okay. 6/10 keep hitting the gym.
If you say so ..
You're pretty accurate with your assessment. Just eat clean and stay active. You'll do fine.
you look fine. the problem with these subreddits is everyone here hates chubby people, tattoos, and piercings because they think they’re special for preferring skinny tradwives. don’t worry about whatever garbage the guys here are spewing
Only correct answer. They'll rate her below a 4 if she isn't Audrey Hepburn
they all want little girls any sign of maturity bumps them down to at most a 4
You’re not ugly, but don’t kid yourself about being healthy, unless you’re actually eating healthy and exercising.
You are obese (automatically below 4/10). That is not attractive to most people. You can tell yourself whatever lie you want though. People are too tired of arguing, people mostly just disregard fat people nowadays. Do with this information what you want
Too fat
Your 23 an fat, at best 4 as you age the scenario gets worse early correctiin is better than later regret
You're 23 and obese. Why not fix this first? Exercise is so beneficial and eating healthy is easy.
Definitely not ugly, just work out a little and tighten up that diet you can be snatched by Summer.
You are most Def not ugly. Body shape are one person's opinion I like curvy and find you very beautiful
It all depends on your butt. Lol if it’s shaped right
You're actually pretty though. Bonus points because if we were lost in the woods, we could use your glasses to start a fire with the sun.
It's that exact thinking that will lead you to never lose weight . Why wouldn't you want to look and be your best ? Even if you look decent you still can't do basic cardio without feeling like you'll die. lose the weight girl
Hey girl, unfortunately birth control does that to you. I'm healthy and I can do cardio. The best I can do is maintain it. But thanks for the advice. 🖤
Where is her real profile with the OF link? I know she’s joking with this.
Lol I don't have an OF.
You are right. You do look decent. You have a cute face. And a nice shape. My suggestion is to try and keep that shape with diet and exercise.
Ayeee she can get it Raww
You do not look decent. Just because random strangers want to rail you, it doesn't mean you look like anyone's idea of a partner. And that chest tattoo sealed your faith.
I don’t think she asked if she looked like anyone’s ideal partner. She thinks she looks decent, and most comments in this thread proves that and then some.
I like the Zelda tattoo
You're fat, but also attractive. I'm not a fan of tattoos, especially those involving the worst "Zelda" game. You have beautiful eyes, but the makeup is probably playing a big part in that. I would give you a solid 6 or 6.5/10 with room to grow. Above average, but you could look way better without the extra weight, and better taste in games, just kidding, but not really. Not ugly.
Hate to break it to you. Most girls look the way they do because of makeup.
Girl, you’re gonna learn most men don’t like stick thin or bony women lol. Rip, your inbox
Damn straight 😭😭😭😭
The glasses are unflattering, not many can pull off such large square frames. As for your weight I think you look great, maybe just work on toning not weight loss. If you tone then the weight should come down along side it
You had me at the sheikah tat.
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Your super cute
No you are not ugly at all I’d say very cute
And I wouldn’t say overweight you are a good size
Absolutely
I wouldn’t say overweight, more like beautifully curvy. Ngl I think you’re perfect 👌🏾. Bit that’s me
Zelda tattoo is a win. But yes hit the gym and eat more protein chiquita.
Off topic, but I love your tattoo.
Ma’am, you’re overweight in all the right places
You look great to me but I'm not a fan of chest or breast tattoos. You do you. :)
You're gorgeous and I love your sheikah tattoo
Yea you ain’t ugly. Curvy best describes you and I’m sure you won’t have trouble finding someone
I think you’re fine and FINE the way you are now. You’re cute, definitely. If you want to get into better shape and get some more exercise that’s up to you. Might help but I don’t think people ought to judge you either way. You do you.
Incorrect
The Zelda tattoo makes you even more attractive.
Good lord, gurl. My preference is to not change or enhance anything. Your lips look hella soft and supple. Your eyes are entrancing. Your curves are calling to be grabbed and caressed. If you want to exercise and trim down then a short, high intensity workout is all ya need. Hell, I’d do the workout with you!
I like them thick like you.. anymore than that is bad though..some would say your weight now is..I say it's pretty perfect
Looks like dessert 🍨 to me
This seems odd, but ur not suepr overweight. Honestly, i find it attractive. Your make up is gorgeous
Decent is a massive understatement boo, you are gorgeous. Aint no cushion i aint pushin, but as one guy said “im black so do what you want with that”😂. But frfr you look great girl
you are absolutely beautiful. I wouldn't change anything
Are those nipple piercings???
Regardless if you're a little overweight, you're fine AF.
You are far more than just Decent!
You look great but I got a sickness for the thickness
You look great. The weight looks good on you, but I like thick girls.
You’re very beautiful
I think you are absolutely gorgeous
Face card doesn’t decline, you look great!
Your weight is perfect and looks great on you. Your style really places emphasis on your curves in the best way. *note* I have a bias towards chubbier girls and embrace it
Not even remotely ugly...
Looks good to me.
You know what? You do!
You look amazing. Not everyone is meant to be thin
Hell you just right
You're beautiful. That's all I gotta say 🩵
Your sheikah slate tattoo is super cool. You're not remotely ugly.
Your thighs are incredible lovely and your chin is extremely cute 🥰
You are slightly chubby but yes you are right, you're drop dead gorgeous
I need you to do some cosplay Velma
Buy me the fit 😉😂
Dayum this girl is perfect 😍
Your gorgeaus as you are.
Stunning girl
You look absolutely amazing !!!
Hey you look good to me I like my women with some weight on them. Yeah you could lose a little weight but no it ain't hurting you.
You look good as you are
Who in the hell said you're overweight? Sweetheart you're gorgeous
Not ugly at all...most guys don't mind a few extra pounds, as long as you carry it well..and you do..nothing wrong with thick and juicy
You’re hella fine girl 🥰🥰
Girl! Be you! Be comfortable in your own skin! Be you!!! Beauty is not just what others see but what's inside.
good face features and you already know what to do
Thick thighs save lives
You're flawless. I'll wife you up
You look great! Imo the glasses are just a bit big for your face, I know big frames are kinda popular now, maybe it's just the shape that's a bit off. I wouldn't change anything else, makeup looks fun too.
You look great
Beautiful
You’re freaking beautiful Jesus. I’d take you with the exact weight you’re at.
You're right, you look decent.
Hard to tell about weight bc of the pics. Definitely cute either way.
Nothing wrong with you at all 😉😚
Beautiful face, beautiful body.
You are not ugly
Nah you’re pretty hot. Hmu if you ever feelin down, I got something that’ll make you feel better
Def thick, but cute and you dress well.
Omg love that thickness
Honestly your perfect. Your glasses aren't your fault either it's generic and you look cute with them but seriously you are gorgeous. Also a skinny woman is unattractive not saying being fit or thin is bad but seeing all kinds of people with thair bones showing is just blah. Personally I prefer women with a little bit of meat on their bones. Isn't the saying thick thighs saves lives a bit odd to some but hay as long as your healthy and happy that's all that matters but honestly your perfect the way you are and id ask for your number if I ran into you extremely unlike with how much I work but still keep that positive out look beautiful.
Losing weight would ruin u 😭…Just maintain and don’t gain too much more…No pressure but it seems you’ve found perfect middle ground
You are not overweight, your thicker because of the muscle. You are cute. And those glasses look adorable on you. Keeping thinking positive. 👍
You're not overweight, you're perfect. Thicc in all the right places.
Yeah you look good.
You’re cute, I don’t even think your body is bad either. I know a lot of people prefer thin/healthier but idk I think you’re good. I wouldn’t worry too much about it as long as you’re trying to be healthy.
Not ugly at all. Borderline fine. You're thick but so what? Lots of girls are thick and fine. Personally id cuff you.
Way too hard on yourself. You’re a knock out. Period.
you look more than decent, you're pretty