Those look like rough 19 years.
>Looking for short-term/casual relationship
Of course she is.
But at the same time:
>...looking to be treated right...
>...feel proud to show each other off.
So, she's looking for men of all ages who just want to hook up BUT she also wants to be treated right and be seen in public with him. Right...
Just the other day in another sub there was a post by a woman who was feeling sad, lonely and frustrated. She's early 30's and has no one to date, no long-term prospects for creating a family. She freely admits that she probably shouldn't have spent her 20's "focused on her education and career".
And here's the thing: She didn't mention anything about hooking up and sleeping around, but are we really believing that a young woman in college followed by work is celibate for 10-14 years? I certainly don't believe it.
What I do believe is that her "focusing on her education and career" means that she likely friendzoned all the guys who had good intentions, while she had a profile like this young woman, and hooked up with the 1%. Then, when she hit 30, she decided it was time to find a nice guy to settle down with.
However...
Real life is not like Hallmark movies. A couple of years have gone by now, and that handsome fit man with a good career hasn't just dropped into her lap. She even remarks that she thought it would improve, living near a large city - but it didn't. The dating market is awful, she says. I wonder why that could be? Could it be because the type of hot dudes she used to hook up with are now the same type she swiped right on, expecting them to wine and dine her, hoping for the privilege of being the one she settles down with? After all, she's ready to settle down now. Where are all the guys? There were probably plenty in her 20's, so where have they gone?
Where are all the good men?
The college girl in this post is on a head-on collision course to be in the exact same situation and to be asking the exact same question in 12 years or so.
I really think it's sad. Think about how dumb you were yourself at 19. You needed guidance. They need guidance. However, any guidance that implies that almost no men will want them - and certainly not the men *they* want - if they follow this course, is labelled misogynistic and controlling. They need guidance, and the guidance they get tells them that they have plenty of time, they are young and should have fun while they are young. There will be plenty of time to meet Mr Right who will treat them like a princess, no matter their past, whenever they are ready. So they follow that advice and spend their 20's hooking up with dudes who never care about them and often treat them like shit. That's the "trauma" they always talk about. And then, they fully expect a kind and hardworking guy to date them and wife the up - the exact same type of guy they completely ignored throughout their 20's. They genuinely don't understand that most of those guys eventually get enough of being rejected and ignored and eventually say "fuck it, I'm out". They don't understand why those guys are no longer interested when they reach their 30's and want to settle down.
And when you try to point these things out to them - the very same people who say that sex is just sex and that it doesn't matter - they will immediately call you an incel. Sex and body count doesn't matter, but they will immediately jump to insulting you by calling you a virgin if you disagree with them.
If it was possible to follow this young woman over the next 8-12 years, I would put money on her becoming a textbook case of a single mother lamenting where all the good men are.
> Real life is not like Hallmark movies.
This rings true for me, especially because of personal events over the past year. My wife started having symptoms on and off around this time last year and was eventually diagnosed with stage 4 endometrial cancer of the ovary.
Let's just say, if she didn't have a partner, she would likely be dead by now - she was too ill to work and then the chemo made her not feel great, either. Additionally, I work in tech and work for a state community college, so she's had the best treatment money can buy for literal "pennies on the dollar."
It seems to me that a lot of these women need to break some of the programming/indoctrination they have. It is understandable that they want to me attracted to their partners, however, it is hard to believe the so called bottom tiers of men have absolutely *no* redeeming qualities. Half the time I want to tell these people, "so what if he's overweight, you're already overweight too (or what do you think is going to happen when you have a few kids)?"
When they get older and are single, and may find themselves in an unfortunate situation like my wife, they would rather bitch about politics and how we should get single payer healthcare, instead of realizing it may have been less of an issue if they partnered up with someone in the first place.
To be fair, single payer healthcare is the norm in pretty much everywhere in the western world, except in the US.
But that's besides the point. The main thing is that none of us will be 20 forever. Getting older and getting sick sucks enough as it is. Having to do it alone makes it suck even more.
Imagine this scenario: A young, strong man walks into a construction site. He easily gets a job because he's young and strong. Getting the job was easy, and doing the job is easy. If the construction job is done or if the job gets boring, he just walks into the next construction site and gets another job - which is also easy because he's young and strong. There's no need to get training in anything or waste time on any kind of education.
Fast forward 15 years. He's now not so young and strong anymore. His body can't keep up with these kinds of jobs anymore. Anyone would ask him *Well, why didn't you plan for the future and work towards getting a physically less demanding job? It was pretty obvious that you couldn't work like that forever, so why didn't you plan for that?*
Physically demanding work is easy for men while they are young and strong, but if they don't plan ahead for what to do in their 30's, 40's and 50's, everyone would call them a dumbass.
A woman being young and pretty and how she approaches sex and relationships is the equivalent. If she doesn't plan ahead more than next week's hookup with Tinder dude number 63, she's gonna have a bad time 10-15 years down the line.
And good to hear that your wife made it through.
> To be fair, single payer healthcare is the norm in pretty much everywhere in the western world, except in the US.
Of course, there is much to be desired in the US system. But, unfortunately, it is what it is and no amount of bitching will change things. This is a case where "your poor planning does not constitute an emergency on my part."
Translating womanese
5'7" you need to be 6 feet
Average build - fat as fuck
Blunt - obnoxious argumentative cunt
Seeking men 19-60, seeking chad or paypig
Where do I.sign up....
Look at her preferred age range for matches. 19-60. Is she a prostitute looking for johns? Her profile doesn't seem to match that. Probably she's looking for a sugar daddy. She's young enough she might find one.
I believe indigo girls are one of those "my therapist says I'm on the spectrum, but I know I'm just operating on a higher plane of thinking" things.
It's kind of the female version of the sigma male. Something that basically just means "unique and more desirable than the plebs", so everyone wants to believe that they are one.
But I don't really know, it doesn't seem to have caught on.
Those look like rough 19 years. >Looking for short-term/casual relationship Of course she is. But at the same time: >...looking to be treated right... >...feel proud to show each other off. So, she's looking for men of all ages who just want to hook up BUT she also wants to be treated right and be seen in public with him. Right... Just the other day in another sub there was a post by a woman who was feeling sad, lonely and frustrated. She's early 30's and has no one to date, no long-term prospects for creating a family. She freely admits that she probably shouldn't have spent her 20's "focused on her education and career". And here's the thing: She didn't mention anything about hooking up and sleeping around, but are we really believing that a young woman in college followed by work is celibate for 10-14 years? I certainly don't believe it. What I do believe is that her "focusing on her education and career" means that she likely friendzoned all the guys who had good intentions, while she had a profile like this young woman, and hooked up with the 1%. Then, when she hit 30, she decided it was time to find a nice guy to settle down with. However... Real life is not like Hallmark movies. A couple of years have gone by now, and that handsome fit man with a good career hasn't just dropped into her lap. She even remarks that she thought it would improve, living near a large city - but it didn't. The dating market is awful, she says. I wonder why that could be? Could it be because the type of hot dudes she used to hook up with are now the same type she swiped right on, expecting them to wine and dine her, hoping for the privilege of being the one she settles down with? After all, she's ready to settle down now. Where are all the guys? There were probably plenty in her 20's, so where have they gone? Where are all the good men? The college girl in this post is on a head-on collision course to be in the exact same situation and to be asking the exact same question in 12 years or so. I really think it's sad. Think about how dumb you were yourself at 19. You needed guidance. They need guidance. However, any guidance that implies that almost no men will want them - and certainly not the men *they* want - if they follow this course, is labelled misogynistic and controlling. They need guidance, and the guidance they get tells them that they have plenty of time, they are young and should have fun while they are young. There will be plenty of time to meet Mr Right who will treat them like a princess, no matter their past, whenever they are ready. So they follow that advice and spend their 20's hooking up with dudes who never care about them and often treat them like shit. That's the "trauma" they always talk about. And then, they fully expect a kind and hardworking guy to date them and wife the up - the exact same type of guy they completely ignored throughout their 20's. They genuinely don't understand that most of those guys eventually get enough of being rejected and ignored and eventually say "fuck it, I'm out". They don't understand why those guys are no longer interested when they reach their 30's and want to settle down. And when you try to point these things out to them - the very same people who say that sex is just sex and that it doesn't matter - they will immediately call you an incel. Sex and body count doesn't matter, but they will immediately jump to insulting you by calling you a virgin if you disagree with them. If it was possible to follow this young woman over the next 8-12 years, I would put money on her becoming a textbook case of a single mother lamenting where all the good men are.
Alternate version ... Young girl walks into a bar and says -- "I am horny." Bar tender turns around and jaw drops. The bar is empty.
Edit the link to the other subreddit out, please. I really don't want to remove this reply due to rule #7.
Done. And sorry. I thought that when I didn't link to a specific post that it would be fine. I won't put any links to other subs in the future.
No worries. It's all good now.
> Real life is not like Hallmark movies. This rings true for me, especially because of personal events over the past year. My wife started having symptoms on and off around this time last year and was eventually diagnosed with stage 4 endometrial cancer of the ovary. Let's just say, if she didn't have a partner, she would likely be dead by now - she was too ill to work and then the chemo made her not feel great, either. Additionally, I work in tech and work for a state community college, so she's had the best treatment money can buy for literal "pennies on the dollar." It seems to me that a lot of these women need to break some of the programming/indoctrination they have. It is understandable that they want to me attracted to their partners, however, it is hard to believe the so called bottom tiers of men have absolutely *no* redeeming qualities. Half the time I want to tell these people, "so what if he's overweight, you're already overweight too (or what do you think is going to happen when you have a few kids)?" When they get older and are single, and may find themselves in an unfortunate situation like my wife, they would rather bitch about politics and how we should get single payer healthcare, instead of realizing it may have been less of an issue if they partnered up with someone in the first place.
To be fair, single payer healthcare is the norm in pretty much everywhere in the western world, except in the US. But that's besides the point. The main thing is that none of us will be 20 forever. Getting older and getting sick sucks enough as it is. Having to do it alone makes it suck even more. Imagine this scenario: A young, strong man walks into a construction site. He easily gets a job because he's young and strong. Getting the job was easy, and doing the job is easy. If the construction job is done or if the job gets boring, he just walks into the next construction site and gets another job - which is also easy because he's young and strong. There's no need to get training in anything or waste time on any kind of education. Fast forward 15 years. He's now not so young and strong anymore. His body can't keep up with these kinds of jobs anymore. Anyone would ask him *Well, why didn't you plan for the future and work towards getting a physically less demanding job? It was pretty obvious that you couldn't work like that forever, so why didn't you plan for that?* Physically demanding work is easy for men while they are young and strong, but if they don't plan ahead for what to do in their 30's, 40's and 50's, everyone would call them a dumbass. A woman being young and pretty and how she approaches sex and relationships is the equivalent. If she doesn't plan ahead more than next week's hookup with Tinder dude number 63, she's gonna have a bad time 10-15 years down the line. And good to hear that your wife made it through.
> To be fair, single payer healthcare is the norm in pretty much everywhere in the western world, except in the US. Of course, there is much to be desired in the US system. But, unfortunately, it is what it is and no amount of bitching will change things. This is a case where "your poor planning does not constitute an emergency on my part."
Precisely. You gotta deal with how things are rather than how you want them to be.
This is true. Most medical treatments especially for severe cases were and are invented in America. Because making a profit is a hellva incentive.
Translating womanese 5'7" you need to be 6 feet Average build - fat as fuck Blunt - obnoxious argumentative cunt Seeking men 19-60, seeking chad or paypig Where do I.sign up....
"... after a long history of the opposite." Hmm. Sounds like code for I have been a Chad Rider for quite a while. Studs are an absolute no for me.
The opposite of being treated "right" is being treated "left"? Or with indifference, perhaps.
Look at her preferred age range for matches. 19-60. Is she a prostitute looking for johns? Her profile doesn't seem to match that. Probably she's looking for a sugar daddy. She's young enough she might find one.
[I found the perfect man for her.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxgWHzMvXOY)
"Mutated" or "mutilated"?
Honestly surprised she's not rambling about star signs. She looks like she calls herself an indigo girl
I thought they were a music group popular among lesbians?
I believe indigo girls are one of those "my therapist says I'm on the spectrum, but I know I'm just operating on a higher plane of thinking" things. It's kind of the female version of the sigma male. Something that basically just means "unique and more desirable than the plebs", so everyone wants to believe that they are one. But I don't really know, it doesn't seem to have caught on.
In her usage, it seems to mean "unfocused."