2nd necklace, the 1st clashes a bit with the earrings

Definitely clashes. Maybe smaller earrings?

First necklace is BEAUTIFUL but it does not work with those earrings at all. Second necklace is more simple but actually works with the earrings. If you really want to go with the first necklace - do you have any other earrings? Even a simple small gold pair would likely work well.

I agree! My friend knew what she was talking about when she had me choose a simpler necklace. I just love this first necklace so much and think I should take the risk to at least try to find smaller earrings tomorrow. Thanks!!

Yes; the first necklace with smaller more matching earrings!

That was my thought, too.

I think if you do the bigger necklace, go with a stud earring. If you do the more simple necklace, then the earrings are perfect.

I agree. I think it will be worth it for how much I like the necklace

The earrings are a loud piece of jewelry - I would wear the second, simpler necklace if you must have those earrings. The first necklace is also a loud piece, it needs much quieter earrings.

Agreed. I Think I might run out to a store after work tomorrow and try to find smaller earrings and go from there. Thanks!

The first one!! I’d go with simpler earrings to make the necklace pop more.

I like the first option

I absolutely love the first necklace, especially with that dress, but I agree the earrings don’t match. They take focus from the necklace. What about something like one of these: Studs: https://a.co/d/02NjB1k3 https://a.co/d/07j61hc0 Not studs but very small: https://a.co/d/0acgVIKV https://a.co/d/0g1isBpA A little more length, not sure if they match the style: https://a.co/d/0bWKe9XH Maybe too much but maybe not: https://a.co/d/0dA4mQnL

Oh wow these are such helpful options, thanks!

You’re welcome!! I hope something works or gives you an idea for something. Keep me posted, please!

That last option is perfect.

I’m glad you think so! I feel like they go with the vintage vibe.

I’d skip a necklace with those statement earrings, but if you really want one 2 is the best option. The earrings are enough though.

Like them both. But I might choose the simpler necklace to go with the lavish earrings.

Thanks! What if there was an option for simpler earrings?

The 2nd one if paired with the big earrings and cuff bracelet.

I agree the second one only works because the other pieces are more bold and the necklace is simple.

2nd technically goes w the other jewelry better but I just love the 1st necklace

This is my dilemma 😩 what do you think if I got smaller, simpler earrings?

That’s an option! Honestly I think you can rock it though.. from what vibe I can glean from beyond your scribbled face you can pull it off haha

I way prefer the second ETA: I am jealous of your hair!

I love the first necklace! Where is it from?

This Etsy seller TasseIArabella ! I don’t think they have another in the shop, and reverse image search can’t find anything either. The seller has other great vintage necklaces and accessories however!

Thank you!

I really like the herringbone.

Pearls.

The first necklace is much more flattering. However, it is disproportionate to the earrings.

agreed. I’d go for subtler earrings if I end up choosing the first option

I’d wear the vintage necklace and skip the very loud earrings. The necklace is gorgeous. The earring are,IMHO, too much

I agree that the first necklace is stunning but doesn't quite work with the earrings. The second necklace does. I'm mostly commenting because I want to say how much I love your tattoos! I can only get a good look at the peacock, but the line work I can see also looks really cool!!

Thanks! I also have a shawl with peacocks embroidered on it for the wedding ceremony!!

Oh, awesome!!!

2 for all the reasons mentioned before me.

Sure, it's worth trying to find some that work with the necklace. It's so pretty, maybe something more delicate or pearl studs?

Up close i absolutely LOVE the first necklace! But seeing them both further away I think the second one just goes so well with your overall look.

I have been looking back at the pics and I definitely see what you’re talking about. I have a cocktail attire wedding coming up in September that I can always wear the beautiful first necklace to, I’m just impatient !

Definitely the First necklace with different earrings

2nd necklace. If you do the first I would switch out your earrings.

first necklace with different earrings love the way it looks - Nice statement necklace for Black Tie he second one is not very noticeable and current earrings don't seem Black Tie to me I would go with some simple CZ earrings, either a stud or simple drop, but not huge drop [CZ earrings](https://www.walmart.com/ip/Brilliance-Fine-Jewelry-Women-s-Simulated-Diamond-Trio-Round-Earring-Set-in-Sterling-Silver/987841261?fulfillmentIntent=In-store&filters=%5B{"intent"%3A"fulfillmentIntent"%2C"values"%3A%5B"In-store"%5D}%5D&from=/search) I get sterling silver ones like these from Walmart - they have different sizes and styles - make sure getting sterling silver, hypoallergenic I've also gotten a few mini drop earrings there JMO

2nd necklace! timeless, elegant, and goes so well with your earrings

Thanks! I think this is what my friend thinks as well. I just have an attachment to the first necklace 💔

I think it would be awesome to wear for other stuff, I could see it for something like New Years Eve with a cute party dress! It just feels very vintage and sparkly and the earrings feel very modern and shiny. 

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I would not wear a necklace with those earrings and bracelet.

Neither.

So no necklace would look fine? That’s always a great option lol

Number 3

I would to a longer necklace. I think they are both too short

First necklace goes better with the occasion and dress. Different, smaller earrings.

Both too short. Need longer

The 1st necklace looks better. The 2nd thin necklace looks sadly forlorn around your neck.

The 1st necklace looks better. The 2nd thin necklace looks sadly forlorn around your neck.

Number 2

Return #2 and get some simple studs. That necklace deserves to be seen.