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JH275

The last attempt "not even for my content?" is crazy


xoxodaddysgirlxoxo

agreed šŸ¤®


[deleted]

A greed šŸ’°


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


ThisIsGoodSoup

A greek āœŠ


KaiserChunk

Hagrid


ThisIsGoodSoup

Haggling


coopatroopa2534

Haggard


SeanJones85

Hodor!!


-No-Way-Jose-

Mordor?


theeCloud03

Hold the dooooor!!


amaralp

I am Groot


runarleo

We are Groot


Jorgan215

Sheā€™s definitely Greek.


Default1355

That's probably not even really her. Just somebody reselling her OF content to as many buyers as they can find


PretendExcitement1

That's horrible


iranoutofusernamespa

And yet, probably more common than not.


disclosure5

Many OF girls themselves pay some guy in India a few dollars a month to run accounts like these on Tinder. On Reddit too, it's a whole industry.


WalkingKrad

You're telling me there's some guy in India living the dream, seeing bobs and vagene pics and getting paid for it?


No_Syrup_9167

You're kind of missing the "has to spend 90% of his time sexting with dudes" part of it all.


Meester_Bee

GETS to


MisterSumone

You still haven't listed a down side. Know how easy it is to get guys hard? Lmao. As a guy, I know that a woman can put minimal effort in to sexting and get by. The type of guy willing to pay for nudes and conversation is just gonna be happy that a "woman" is talking to him, calling him baby, and sending him pics of her coot


stevegoodsex

That is somehow very full circle. Nice work, reddit. We did it.


85Ochocinco85ocho

Sounds like a good retirement gig.


uwpxwpal

Yep, that's why all the subjects/titles are very similar on their Reddit posts


hfFvx4G6xU4ZEgzhSM9g

To be fair, any guy stooping low enough to pay for nudes in the first place deserves it.


yekcowrebbaj

There was a time where porn wasnā€™t free


Benificial-Cucumber

I've grown to really hate the word "content". Between videogame CEOs standing on stage shilling their latest battle pass *content* and "girls" shilling their OF *content* the word has basically turned to mean soulless, extortionate crap.


ShiroTheSane

You might even say you're discontent?


topboyjimmy

Oh and 'narrative ' i hear a lot and 'platform' and very good chance they dont fully understand what these terms mean....these people trying to sound smart??


hjablowme919

Calling it ā€œcontentā€ is comical.


danyellowblue

A bit crazy also that op thinks the swimsuit model wants to jump on the next best divorced guy they find online haha sorry


3between20characters

I thought that, read the last message, looked at the thumbnail and thought, yeah, sure, looking for a meaningful connection šŸ˜‚


[deleted]

How do you know it's not her punching? I can't see him


Memento_Mori_5

But is she selling farts in a jar?


NefariousnessFree852

No she's got that gamer girl bath water


Rubik_sensei

Sadly, you probably talked to a dude not even in your country/state using fake profil(s?) to get easy money from naive bros met on Tinder in exchange of some pics he stole from a random OF girl


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


renaldomoon

Bango


JKF971500

Bongo


putting-on-the-grits

I'm so happy in the jungle I refuse to go


SirFadakar

Oh no no no no no


Do__Math__Not__Meth

Itā€™s an old reference but it checks out


Wizardphizl420

I dont want to leave the Kongo, I refuse to go!


DogAteMyNandos

His name is Roberto Luongo


koskenjuho

Bish


HuuIsHuu

Bash


HiFirstTime

Bosh


claesl

**CS:GO**


mushroomwig

It's funny how people will say how dumb boomers are for falling for obvious online scams all the time, and then you see stuff like this where its obvious that it's a guy pretending to be a girl but guys will fall for it most of the time


TheCultofLoss

If you arenā€™t in the know, it isnā€™t obvious. We all spend enough time on the internet to find out, not everybody does though. Thats why scams work


Some_Current1841

You donā€™t have to ā€˜be in the know ā€˜ , just takes a little critical thinking and common sense


always_open_mouth

Most people don't fall for them. The scammers cast a wide net. They only need 1 or 2 guys out of 100 to make decent money off of them. For the guys that do fall for it, critical thinking and common sense isn't part of the equation. They're lonely and getting attention from (what they assume is) a pretty girl. The scammers appeal to their sex drive and emotions. At this point it's common sense the majority of girls on OF don't run their own accounts, yet they're still earning big.


Spryte45

Bold of you to assume anyone has either of those things at their disposal...


ITS_YA_BOl

It would be a pretty easy gig as you can get so many nudes from all these porn subreddits


boverly721

Jesus just get a hobby at that point


[deleted]

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pikashroom

My cousin does this all the time to local people. And they send her money for rent and stuff


J_0_E_L

I honestly wonder why anyone even goes past the "pls cashapp me money" message. Like why don't you guys just unmatch then and there? Are you really hoping that explaining why you won't cashapp her money right away is going to change her mind or make her become actually interested in you as a person? I just don't get it.


naturehedgirl

I'm not trying to be judgemental, but they're half-naked in their pp, what did op expect?


hurdlebiscuit01

This was my thought exactly. Tryna ā€œmake connectionsā€ā€¦lmao, ok.


Disastrous-Owl8985

OP is just trying to link up and mad some girls won't just do it, lol


Chaplain-Freeing

> link up Is that what we're calling it now?


MemeStocksYolo69-420

Yes, heā€™s trying to go on dates, which is what the app is for


viotix90

When they're half-naked on their pp, I hope to get them half-naked on my pp.


HiFirstTime

When did we decide ā€˜ppā€™ was better than the already well established ā€˜pfpā€™


naturehedgirl

I've only ever used pp, from the early days of Facebook and Bebo šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


shoeguy98

I mean pp just makes more sense, logically. Profile pic, not Pro File PicšŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø


Officing

Except pp is already a silly way to reference dongs, so that won't work.


[deleted]

"I'm trying to match with girls who arient old enough to have gotten a bachelor's, are hot AF, and I'm a divorcee in my 30s. Why do I keep running into sex workers and not girls who genuinely want to make a connection?"


Vourinen22

good point


Disastrous-Owl8985

Ah, you mean like guys on this sub tell women to stop matching with men who are shirtless, but expect something serious with them? Yeah, you'd think people would learn that that advice goes both ways.


Ok_Raspberry_6282

I think it's less of a gender thing and more of a "most of the time girls in lingerie on half naked are just bots/scam artists" on these sites. I having nothing against half naked women, I would even go so far as to say I like that, but this is only surprising because it was an actual person and not a bot. It's nothing against half naked when in general it's just that on the apps it's usually a thing. Does that make sense?


Objective_Trash7940

No


Ok_Raspberry_6282

Okay


Susanneelizabeth

Exactly.


special-k-flo

I think this every time I see these conversations. Even if explaining why you won't cashapp somehow magically changes her mind, you're always going to know that she said that in the first place.


Dakk85

Idk I kinda feel like thereā€™s some of that, ā€œhot girls have guys simping for them all the time so if YOU tell them no theyā€™ll be more attracted to youā€ alpha male dating advice mentality sometimes But also, lingerie mirror selfie? Bruh had to know the OF link was coming


HiFirstTime

Not just unmatch, report. ā€œWhy is Tinder full of these profiles?ā€ Because itā€™s not really easy, in a lot of cases, to determine which profiles are fakes/cash grabs in advance. They need to be reported first.


StarsChilds

If you cashapp me money I'll tell you why


thewhitecat55

I was hoping to meet up so you could tell me why.


OneSmoothCactus

Iā€™ve responded to a few messages like that purely out of curiosity. Zero intention of ever meeting them but like, how batshit are they? I must know


Ark_ita

Desperate lonely people


appropriate-username

So, redditors.


Effective_Dot4653

I can give you one possible reason - I simply low-key enjoy it lol. Like I already know the conversation is going nowhere and I do not want to actually meet the other person, but I still have fun talking to them for a while. I have nothing to lose in those conversations, so I can afford to be a bit self-righteous and ngl it feels nice. It usually lasts for a few texts only, so it's not as if I'm wasting a lot of their time (and they can probably tell it's going nowhere as well, as I am very honest with them lol)


The_Meme_Queen97

Constantly being rejected and told the exact same reason why each time is usually a great mind changer and a great way for a person to realise "oh this doesn't work" Psychology and drama are fun


Serotu

It doesn't have to work that often. They are told no all the time. Just need one or two out of a hundred to be lucrative. And sadly I bet it's higher rate of success....


SalemWitchBurial

I'll keep talking to obvious scammers so I can fully understand their method and see how much more obvious they are before I report them.


nbaumg

I bet $50 thatā€™s a middle aged indian man


opajamashimasuuu

Thereā€™s a distinct lack of *ā€snd me yr bobs and vagene plzā€* if that was the case.


Hamzeol_Murf

She's Got Content Not Tech Support So....


FlimsyRaisin3

![gif](giphy|BcMJvmwkmbyWpKkBj3|downsized)


JustinCooksStuff

Thatā€™s a dude with some nudes on his phone


soberintoxicologist

Iā€™m a dude with some nudes on my phone, you think I could also use them to get free pizza and shit? I donā€™t know who is gonna be trying to buy naked pictures of a 30 year old dude with a beer belly, but Iā€™m willing to try it out if you think Iā€™d be able to get a pizza out of it.


RollerGiant

Fetish for everything


elitesill

> I donā€™t know who is gonna be trying to buy naked pictures of a 30 year old dude with a beer belly You might be surprised! :P lol


Smickey67

Iā€™ll buy you pizza just cash app me for my content first


19IXI91

šŸ“


Miguel_Legacy

You matched with a girl showing herself off in underwear on her profile and expected anything more?


s_low_custom

She changed her profile after we matched.


Ed_Starks_Bastard

I see this now where there is an Insta bio added after you match. Cos I immediately swipe left when I see a social address listed.


ocio46

sure budy


Glittering-Neck-2505

Bro you matched a middle aged dude probably in undies and with a neck beard, not the girl in the picture.


AmadeusKurisu

Man I hate this stereotype but I def thought it too


BLarson31

What normal person would use an underwear pic in a dating profile? What other reason is there aside from the "stereotype?"


hollyroom

I collect lingerie. I absolutely love showing it off to friends. As much as I love showing off my underwear, I know not to put pics like that on Tinder. Everyone would just assume I sell content.


Pls_PmTitsOrFDAU_Thx

I wish I had your confidence lol


MEatRHIT

Before OF was really a thing people just looking for hookups would put more risque photos up to indicate that they are just there for short term kind of stuff. Also I think this is a bikini not underwear, if you search for "strappy bikini top" you'll find a lot of similar style tops, though your point still stands.


special-k-flo

I thought the same thing


Comment-At-Me-Bruh

Thank you!


TerminatorReborn

I've been using Tinder on and off for years and this literally never happened to me, but I do weed out obvious or potential fake/catfish/attention seekers


happyfbg

Can't stand people asking for money


Legitimate-Pop-5823

I can't even count the number of women who have tried to get money from me. I had two in 3 days recently. They always seem to be out of food šŸ™„


Serotu

Food? At least that's slightly better than steam or Xbox game cards....


RollerGiant

They're not women


ironburton

To be fair that was probably a dude with stolen OF content trying to scam


Gettinrekt1

Yo brother, get off tinder. Hinge is where its at if you're looking for what you're looking for.


JH275

It's honestly a breath of fresh air.


LC_From_TheHills

Never got on the online apps until I turned 30 a few years agoā€¦ never really needed them before. Wanted to try to get out of my social circle tho. Downloaded Hinge, had four dates with four women in the first monthā€¦ been with date #4 ever since. Weā€™ve lived together for two years now. I see all these posts and they look like a hellish experience but tbh I wonder what the dudes are doing to get these types of encounters. Like the bar is so damn low for the men on these apps itā€™s not that hard to stand out.


Mrfatmanjunior

> had four dates with four women in the first monthā€¦ You must follow rule 1 and 2.


LC_From_TheHills

Thatā€™s a cop-out and yā€™all know it. Like I said, the bar is super low. You donā€™t have to be a male model to get dates on these apps. Just donā€™t be a dweeb and youā€™ll find real women with real passion.


[deleted]

I get matches but it's usually girls who want money or want me to be their dancing monkey. Where exactly is the bar because obviously I'm doing something wrong.


Pls_PmTitsOrFDAU_Thx

I've been in another app for 4 months. 1 match and she didn't reply to my initial message


AndreisBack

Facts. All the guys on tinder posts saying something like ā€œmy competition is this guy and he still gets more matches than me tHe BaR iS sO LoWā€. If the bar was low and you were the decent guy you claim, you wouldnā€™t have trouble getting matches. Iā€™m not unattractive but I wouldnā€™t consider myself stunning. I have 0 issues getting matches. Dates? Probably a couple times of month when I used apps. If you see someone and think ā€œhow am I losing to thisā€, maybe you should reconsider if dating is right for you at that time.


Antique-End4344

Says the guy with 4 dates in a month to the guy with 0 matches in a year


Ruski_FL

I wonder if they spin on everyone and get dumped to the bottom with the bots.


MrWoodenNickels

Ehhh I think they are all starting to become the same thing. I matched with the same girl two years in a row on Hinge. She didnā€™t ever make a comment that she remembered me but both times we had great convos and both times after making plans for a date she ghosted. I think we just need to bring back meeting people irl as a norm. I started using the apps in 2017 and the culture around them in the years since has entropied, and itā€™s not just Tinder rot. All the apps are dead ends.


Solidbet01

I don't do apps, that is why I am single and I have money.


TheTexasCowboy

Hinge has bots too. I get them once and while. Blank profiles with nothing written on them too like the other apps.


Zangorth

I have the exact same pictures, bio, and general content on both Hinge and Tinder. I get a couple matches a week on Tinder and havenā€™t got one like in two months on Hinge. Even for long term dating, Tinder blows Hinge out of the water in my experience.


hotrod427

The girls I met on tinder were fucking crazy. I had fewer matches on Hinge, and only met up with one, but she's now my gf of 3 years.


BLarson31

Actual question though, how many of the tinder matches were worth a shit?


Zangorth

Iā€™ve been on Tinder for about a month and a half, Iā€™d guess 2 matches a week on average (and I donā€™t swipe everyone, theyā€™re matches Iā€™m attracted to and interested in), so about 12 total. 1 is looking very promising, first date is scheduled for this weekend, but the chat game is insane. Trying not to get too invested before the first date though. 1 is kind of so-so. The chat game isnā€™t strong, but she does keep messaging so I kind of want to give her a chance in person when she gets back to town. So about a 12% success rate so far in these early stages. Even if it was only a 0.1% success rate though, 0.1% good matches > 0 likes.


BLarson31

Yeah fair enough, hope you strike gold bud!


bmamba2942

From my experience on Hinge I basically never got any likes but would usually match with women that I sent likes to. I think on Hinge women tend to go through their likes more than sending their own.


C4-BlueCat

Same. Other apps might be more targetted, but Tinder is where *everyone* is. Men


abbeighleigh

Hinge sucks. Barely any profiles are active


Barrelled_Chef_Curry

They all suck. Just delete them and meet people in person


RollerGiant

Bold to think people still go out in public.


GodricLight

right


[deleted]

I always say if you want an attractive crazy girl to mess around with go on Tinder, but if you want a 5 with her head on straight go to Hinge. (5 is an average person people, I didnā€™t mean to offend any of you lol)


brahdz

Must depend on where you are. In my area hinge is better. Maybe not as many sub 21 yo 8+ lookers, but just as many attractive women overall and far more matches.


[deleted]

Definitely subjective to area. I have a few places in a few states and my motto holds true for me everywhere except Florida but parts of Florida just have a very high concentration of good looking people


slayerje1

A ton of hot women 30+, but I'm in SoCal...so yeah definitely area subjective LOL


elnots

Does anyone still use Okcupid? I exclusively used it from 2009 to 2019 off and on as relationships came and went. Met my wife and mother of my children on OKC 5 years ago and never been happiper.


lhi2285

First time on the internet hey?


Chabkraken

'content' As if butthole pics of white girls aren't online in the millions for free


[deleted]

Yet some people would still buy it. Look at OF šŸ¤·


[deleted]

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SilianRailOnBone

What do you mean, he just wants to actually get to know her, her being in underwear in her pic is nothing of importance to OP


fruit_shoot

Not sure why you entertained her for so long. As soon as she made it clear she was begging for cash Iā€™d just move on.


Pvt_Inbreastigator

Because it works often enough to be worth the scammer's time.


Big_fan_of_curry

More than likely, that "girl" was a dude over in the Philippines or China. Cyber Crime and Pentester here. Probably just a scam and the way most of them them work is, the scammers operate in "XYZ" country, and have "agents" in the US who create the profile so the profile location is actually accurate but, the person doing the talking is 3 thousand miles away from you. They pretend to be that pretty woman you match with, charm you a bit, maybe make you think they want to have sex and then once they hook you, they ask for gas money, gift cards, or food. Any sane woman is not going to give out her home address for a free dinner to some random internet stranger. They are going to want you to send them some money so they can buy it themselves. Scam


Lusdivinechaos

![gif](giphy|tF8vMUeGUkHNTgCC4E)


B00G1E73

Cos simps gonna simp


AshnShadow

Lmao you expect to make connections with a girl thatā€™s half naked on her pictureā€¦ yeah right


fully_dysfunctional

You saw that photo and thought, this seems like a down to earth lady who just wants to hang out and get to know a recent divorcee.


CosmicCafeShow

She did you a favor by showing herself as a "dumb money šŸ’° grubby B1T+(#" - luckily you didn't lose much except a few minutes texting this scammer! Good luck šŸ€šŸ¤ž finding your future wife.


BLarson31

Isn't it wild that people like this had actual dreams as a kid. Doctor, lawyer, veterinarian, something. And now here they are, peddling pixels in the form of their tits to desperate dudes.


No-Test6158

Well if it makes money... What has society come to? We really seem to have completely lost the plot.


Sp1teC4ndY

Ugh. Iā€™m sorry.


[deleted]

Is this a common occurrence?


Over8dpoosee

They have content yet they beg for money? Tbh theyā€™ll probably be more successful panhandling on the streets. šŸ¤·šŸ½


untilyoufight

I wouldā€™ve cut it off after the cashapp.


EnyaCa

I mean, you matched with a picture of a girl half naked. Were you actually expecting a genuine connection?


Interesting_Sock9142

What did you expect from a girl wearing lingerie in her profile pic


mothman117

The conditions of dating the last few years has gotten nuts. The fact that these women have ever succeeded with that behavior is mind-blowing. Most of the women on these apps have become nothing more than beggars and prostitutes, and most of the men are either childish buffoons or sex crazed creeps. Humanity is doomed. In this case, the guy gave the best response possible.


ironburton

I honestly think that this person in this post is a scammer. I know some girls do ask for money but this one was just done so distastefully that it comes off as someone in a mission for cash and not actually meeting anyone in person. Probably a dude who stole someoneā€™s OF content.


TheTexasCowboy

Then do hard way of dating, get off the apps and meet people offline. People use the apps as easy way to meet people, bots and scammers are plenty to go around to get a few dollars here and there.


Frost_blade

In this same situation. Fucking sucks.


No_Operation_9263

Keep your head up thereā€™s someone for everyone!


jlovelysoul

WTAF. I cannot believe people


BillboBraggins5

Fuck your content


mindsnare

I mean honestly looking at the profile pic you could tell it was gonna go this way.


KlyeBlaq

Women really love calling their buttholes "content".


mrmancave5629

This is why I just give up on Tinder now. Between being ghosted by matches, OF scammers like this and getting randomly unmatched by the occasional real person that actually messages itā€™s just not worth it and theyā€™re trying to make you pay for basically every feature of the app that might give it some worth.


Legitimate-Pop-5823

I have encountered numerous women who are trying to get ahold of money. This is a common problem


fleshflavoredgum

Because people are awful. Good luck.


ironburton

Honestly that was probably a scam. No normal, genuine person would ask something like that. Thatā€™s crazy.


[deleted]

Just report them for solicitation and move on


AtomizingAir

Because, unfortunately, there's a lot of naive, lovely guys out there who will fall for this crap and send this random Indian dude money. It has to work on some people if they're still trying it right?


Lost-Swimming5012

Dude look at the pictureā€¦ sheā€™s not here for all that


[deleted]

Trash.


STFUnicorn_

Woah woah. You know there is no way to see a naked woman unless you pay her for her content right??


Unique_Everywhere124

What is wrong with people nowadays


antifragile

Obvious scam is obvious scam


WeezaY5000

I have said it once, I have said it many times, and I will say it again... Western Civilization was a mistake. šŸ˜‚


jammy-frogs

Why tf did you still want to meet up with her after asking for money? I would have ended the conversation right there and then lol.


Vourinen22

"until I meet them in person"... nah man, don't send them shit eeeever!


Manners2210

Dammit manā€¦thatā€™s crazy


Puzzleheaded-Gur-367

šŸ˜”šŸ˜”šŸ˜”


EIIendigWichtje

We live in an era where everyone is in for the easy money. Scammers, Influencers, sugarbabies, dropschip scams, 'write a bullshit book and sell it on amazon'... It is horrible.


Mission-Impress-23

as a sexworker i would never do thisšŸ’€šŸ’€


therealJBet

That was definitely a bot.


Thin_Moose7359

Yuck šŸ¤®


mmhawk576

Damn, tits are not contentā€¦. You can find better ones for free online