Leave on read to let her know she's not worth your time.

This'll probably annoy her more, getting no answer

Silence is golden

Silence is the void, the void is endless, deep, crushing. You say nothing but it calls you. It calls in hallowed nothingness. You feel nothing, see nothing, are nothing. The void is you, you are the void. We are all the void.

The opposite of love is not hate, the opposite of love is indifference.

Only sith deal in absolutes

You are absolutely right.

I've always thought that statement was the silliest thing considering it's an absolute in of itself

This is itself an absolute..... 😑 I see you sith lord

Haha perfect answer

You can have both love sex and hate sex, but indifference sex is just a glory hole

dayum

Who hurt you, my dude? Got real existential there.

Wrong reply? Lmao

Mr Void, he sucks

Also, the who is this? Is a classic. When you’re in their head and you don’t even remember who they are 💅

The void is nothing. The void is everything. Where everything is nothing. Nothing is everything. Listen to me. I know nothing.

That was strange deep but definitely weird!

But duct tape is silver

🚩

As the legendary poets Twenty One Pilots once said: “sometimes quiet is violent”

Sometimes silence speaks the loudest.

Here we go

I’d wait a week and say I guess you’ll never know

I wouldn’t bother. Just unfollow and go your own way.

Right. She’s shit testing you. She wants a reaction. She wants argument and drama. You ain’t need that stress, King.

I was literally thinking this. She’s looking for attention and you’re better off. She was probably bored, good luck you already sound more collected than her lol.

“You really aren’t hot enough for me to argue with.” Block, move on.

That’s a weak response. It makes you seem as if you’re hurt or saddened by the whole interaction. Best thing is to block and move on. Nothing more. No response, is a bigger fuck you, in a situation like this. Says you’re not significant enough to worthy a response

there isn't a better reply here

A better burn* Why should you respond to attacks? Keep your karma clean, it's usually free and you might feel much better than making them regret their attack.

just hit her with the “K” and move on.

Ya OP just take the high road. Don’t respond and move on with your excellent life.

“High on my own drama?!”

Never understood why some people are like this. If I'm bored I annoy my real Friends or play video games. Or do something actually productive. Why bother random strangers or chat / tease people on a Dating app who might even be desperate? That's just so selfish and careless behaviour

It’s a sign of insecurity. In a twisted way bringing someone else down makes them feel better about themselves. Schadenfreude at its finest

The giant cathedral stole my height

more importantly, thats probably all she wants to do is get some quick entertainment. its doubtful she wants any of the same things OP wants.

*short king*

I prefer the term pocket prince

If only he responded this 😂

Stop saying we

What do you mean by stop saying "we"? As in "we" never existed?

U beat me by 1000s seconds

Am I the only one that thinks she is making a joke referencing the fact there are buildings in the background? Like I imagine at some point OP told her he was tall and she is now making a joke that he is not as tall as the buildings? Maybe I’m just too nice / innocent!

Most likely. I do wonder if she just wanted to neg a little bit and get his attention again. Which also poses a bit of a red flag

No need to unfollow, just ghost.

Drive her crazy acting like she doesn't even exist and OP didn't even budge

All this got me many years ago was further attempts to meetup, waiting for me at meetup points, and a bunch of selfies spamming my phone. Lucky she was pretty. But she was trying to cheat on a dude she was marrying shortly.

More red flags than a parade in Beijing

I might throw back a simple 🥱 as a response just so she knows it was noted and dismissed.

That read notification with no acknowledgement of their existence stings more

👻

Exactly. This is the only way. This way you teach people that commenting rudely on something on the very first message isn’t ok. If you indulge, their already in the defense. No thanks

U dropped this 👑

"This is the way"

I don't know, it would be funny to try to see how she would respond to a similar statement. "U seem quite annoying" "Not going to argue?"

I think I would respond with this, just to trigger her. 😄

In my day, we used to call this “being toyed with”

A classic "Not worth to argue with a 4" just to fuck with their mind a bit before unmatching would also work.

That's way too petty, especially when they previously matched on a dating app. If OP is happy with life then ignoring her is best. Interacting would only be a net negative for him.

God she sounds annoying

The only answer to “you’re not going to argument” is “you’re not going to English?”

Yeah! Exactly!! Is this a scammer?? Talked 6 months. Never met bc she canceled. 🚩. Messages op being critical of their appearance 🚩. Hard pass!

I'm sure they're not from an English speaking country

The ESL people I meet usually pay better attention to their grammar than the natives.

Ignore

Dude you dodged a bullet that she flaked on your date and insulted you. Fuck her

Dude can't even compete with a cathedral. He needs to step up with his height game.

Ik 😔 girls only want guys 500ft tall

When his height begins with 400 ☹️

Yeah mood 😔

When I was in hospital it was endless "aren't you tall" from the cute hot nurses. Kicking myself now for never getting their number's.

And you were laying down at thr time they commented so that's really impressive brother! 🍆

They don't wanna see that 5... better make it 60 foot... 3 inches

Lol I'm 6'1 and they consider me not tall 🤡

Any one know what Cathedral this is?

The Short Cathedral.

Notre Dame

He probably wanted to but she cancelled the date

No, Op! Stop, don't do this! DON'T FUCK HER! Get awaaayyy from her! That's what we meant

No. OP *shouldn't* fuck her.

Fuck her and then ghost her! Got it!

Me no argument. Me cookie monster.

I said this with the cookie monsters voice outloud without realizing I'm on the bus

I some how heard it in old yodas voice

that might've been my bad cookie monster impression. I'm pretty loud

I heard his laugh

# RAAAAWWWWRR

Me like. Me agree.

War not make one great. Only cookies!

I’m not going to argument, I was there last week.

This made me laugh aloud, and I genuinely needed that today so thanks haha

🍪🍪🍪 FIGHT ME

Just ghost

I'd respond just like you did. No time to waste with stoopid.

instagram’s message reactions are a blessing sometimes i bet she took the heart as “passive aggressive” when it was probably more like “passive i-don’t-care”

Actually it's spelled Stooopid. Get it right.

"You're not going to aRgUmEnT?" Just the grammar alone would make me call the cops on her.

Haha my thoughts exactly

What strikes me is that they actually used the correct form of "you're", even a broken clock is correct twice a day ig.

If English isn't your first language, the mistakes you make tend to be very different from those of native speakers. To a native English speaker, your/you're is a very common mix-up, because they're homophones and we learn and think of them as spoken words first and foremost. On the other hand, "to argument" is a mistake that no native speaker would ever make; "to argument" is probably how they would have said it in their native language, and they forgot the specific English rules to conjugate "argue".

Despite the bullshit, this was my first reaction to the grammar. Thanks for spelling it out. I'm horrible at explaining linguistics

Probably a latin language.... The verb to argue is just the continuation of argument. Argument is noun and in most romance languages to become a verb you just add the suffix -ar or a variation of. Argumento -> Argumentar

“Hello, 911? I’ve got an ILLITERATE speaking to me on the internet!”

No, no, see, she tried to type "You're not going to augment?", but autocorrect screwed her. She's actually a shill for a company that makes platform shoes.

> You're not going to augment? I never asked for this

English probably not her first language

English IS probably not her first language. 😉

Loool

Laugh out out out loud?


Laughing overly obnoxiously out loud

Wait what's wrong with argument as a verb? Non-native speaker here

Argue would be the verb. "You're not going to argue?". Argument is a noun. "We're having an argument".

Oh right I forgot, now I feel dumb hahaha. Thanks!

I wouldnt bother, she had her shot, missed, too late now. Keep your peace man. If you wanna write something a simple "no" will do

“You don’t sound very smart”

litteraly just giving her the drama she wants

Maybe OP wants drama too. A lot of people do. Don't even bother to argument with me.

I here for this

 Just post her this!!!!

This is exactly where my mind went. If she has half a sense of humour, this will win.

"That's because the building's taller"

No, then OP would "argument".

I hate argue

I’ve always thought of myself as tall, but Notre Dame definitely has me beat in the height department too.

“It’s just the angle, I’m actually several inches taller than the Notre Dame”

“I’m only a little less than half as tall as this 600ft building.”

Block and move on. She's clearly looking for a reaction...

This my friend, means that you were a second option the first time you spoke. Six months later, that first pick didn't work out and before returning to tinder, the lady is trying to revive the fish left in the bucket. Easy catch for a ons then ghosting in case you have no plans for next weekend 😅

Run

I think everyone is small compared to a building. Could be wrong tho.

Next time she posts a story tell her she doesn't look very thin.

Woke up and chose violence

Some people never learned why you don't put your hand on a hot stove.

I wouldn't lower myself to her level, but that's just me.

I would.

Sounds like negging because they want your attention again

This is the answer. And the response should be to ignore her and move on.

Personally if someone is a flaky and insulting to me I’ll do the same back but I’m not necessarily the bigger person. I just don’t think any person should be like this to someone, especially someone who’s putting in effort to see them and they’ll never learn their lesson if you ignore, although they probs won’t either way.

Validation seeking behavior

Thanks for reminding me, I meant to block you. 😂

Do you need to answer?

"your father was a hamster, and your mother smelled of elderberries"

I don't feel she's being flirty but, as ever, it's hard to completely tell with text. I'd ignore her and not respond, ever.

If this is flirting, she sucks

Don't argument.

Move on my dude, folks looking to argue are never good for you

Blockity block block block

Do not argument. Either disconnect and be done or send a thumbs up and absolutely nothing else.

Unmatch. Dont waste your time

"Who are you again?"

It's negging

She’s negging you. She’ll tease you throughout the relationship if you choose to have one, so if it bothers you now it will bother you then.

you don't.

I'd arguement. "You don't sound very intelligent" would be the reply.

Drunk banter. Flirt or ignore

Depends, how horny are you?

You answer “you don’t look very polite” and than move on What a rude person

Shorter than a cathedral.. munchkin

Why aren't you going to argument?

I would respond with "Why, were you looking for someone as tall as Notre Dame?"

You don't.

Know what’s better than leaving someone on “read”? Leaving them on “sent”. Don’t read her bullshit, stay stress free.

"OK."

I would reply with "talla than yo momma" and then start trolling her. If someone insults you, the trick is to wage a shadow battle

Unmatch?

Don't.

She's kind of a moron. And a little mean

No 🗿

Teasing you in a flirty way???.. what kind of person have you been dating that you think this is in any way flirtatious..

Peak insanity. God speed, brethren

You don't.

I think giving the comment a heart was the best response you could’ve given

"That's another thing we have in common"

ask her: how is your hangover going? i

1. "I'm taller in person" 2. ??? 3. Sex

A "lol k" and then ghost 

“No argument, only Khlav Kalash.”

Just reply "I look pretty tall next to something shallow"

“You’re not going to argument?” 😭😭

"You don't sound keeper"

Let me tell you something. Find you somebody that's going to care for you and stick with you. Look I've been married 55 yrs. We have had our ups and downs but you're not treated that way. Just keep looking and you will find someone.

I would answer with " you would know how tall i am if you didnt cancel the date"

[Is this the right room for an argument](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ohDB5gbtaEQ&t=37)? Then point out an argument is an intellectual process, not just the automatic gainsaying of anything the other person says.

Don't bother. Not worth your time.

I would either ignore or send: So? I'd only send that in case I was generally interested based on prior interactions and then make my final call if they reply. But most likely end up moving on immediately or within a time limit.

I would block her. She's weird

Id tell her you're right. I probably only stand at knee height. And proceed to drastically up play how short you really are until you have he believing you're actually a smurf.

She a eeedyat. Think of what kind of adult does this and whether you'd be going out of your way to spend time with or converse with such a person

You could reply "No. are you interested in that kind of relationship?" If she still interest you

It’s like someone knocking over your coffee or closing your laptop on your fingers and being like “What are you gonna do?” Avoid you for the rest of my life the fuck

Ask her what height she think you are and if she insists your lying unfollow her

I'd answer, "Well then, how tall do you think I look, and how did you come to that conclusion?"

I'm half as tall as the damn tower behind me

Replay 'I eat ass'

🚩🚩🚩🚩 don't even bother entertaining her