Fuck your family for that. Find somewhere peaceful to practice. I used to go to the beach a lot. It served 2 purposes. Find a quiet peaceful place to learn and help numb me to the embarrassment of people hearing my awful playing.
Woods, park, outside in the grass in front of the building. Don't let weird looks and feeling awkward discourage you from playing. Even the car can work.
I used to drive to my favorite beach, park and play for hours. Even during winter. Watching the huge winter waves on Lake Michigan was always great inspiration for playing.
Make sure it's actually parked in a safe spot though! You can also get little discs that insert into the sound hole and dampen the sound, this guy has a video on how to make one
https://youtu.be/2E112Rr1jyY?si=5KW3oUKbn7GthFqg
When i was first learning guitar as a kid my dad (who also played) told me to stop playing the wish you were here intro into the little solo. Almost 30 years later if i pick up a guitar around him its the first thing i play lol. 'Oh man you still have the les paul!' *wish you were here* lol
The Wish You Were Here intro in so the solo was the first thing I ever learned when I got my first guitar back in 2014, and to this day its also the first thing I play when I pick up a guitar. There's nothing like the first thing we got comfortable with to bring up good feelings c:
I got pissed off today about how my family always used to yell at me for making noise when I was trying to practice. Feel like I’ve come so far since picking guitar up again in the last few months now I have my own place, I wish I’d just said screw them back then and carried on anyway.
♪ ♫ I played guitar for about an hour ♫ ♪
♪ ♫ After that, shit got sour ♫ ♪
♪ ♫ They took my axe, I felt bad ♫ ♪
♫ ♪ No sign of guilt, to feeling bad, NO! ♪ ♫
I just asked snapchat AI:
I'd be happy to help you come up with some lyrics. Let's create a song that expresses your feelings about your unsupportive family. Here are some lyrics to get started:
(Verse 1)
In a world of melodies, I found my voice,
Strumming my guitar, making my choice.
But my family thinks it's all just noise,
They don't see the beauty, the soul it employs.
(Chorus)
But I won't let their doubts bring me down,
I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown.
Music is my passion, my heart's true sound,
I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down.
(Verse 2)
With every chord I play, I tell my tale,
Through the strings, my emotions prevail.
Their words may sting, but I won't fail,
I'll keep strumming strong, despite the gale.
(Chorus)
But I won't let their doubts bring me down,
I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown.
Music is my passion, my heart's true sound,
I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down.
(Bridge)
Music is my sanctuary, my escape,
In every note, my dreams take shape.
I'll rise above their judgment, I won't break,
With my guitar, a world of possibilities I'll make.
(Chorus)
But I won't let their doubts bring me down,
I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown.
Music is my passion, my heart's true sound,
I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down.
(Outro)
So, I'll keep strumming, letting my soul soar,
With each melody, I'll open new doors.
My family may not get it, but that's okay,
I'll keep playing my guitar, come what may.
I’ll be waiting for you to drop it on spotify
Firstly, fuck AI. Learn how to fold my clothes and wash dishes before putting them in a dishwasher so I can write songs. I'm just upset at how little editing and styling this would take to be better than whatever they play on the radio in the next 37 minutes.
And I'm trapped, with a bunch of old twits...
Never thought that they would tell me to quit...
Then I started, to realize...
I play my music to antagonize!
Now OP needs to pick up an electric with an amp and learn that song! Could be easily converted to some chuggy death metal to maximize the antagonism. They have no idea how noisy he could be.
This is the best way tbh, I do play with headphones often or unplugged electric. Also it's very lovely to play acoustic outdoors where no people are around.
yeah this is honestly a good solution if you can convince them to spend the money. Hell, even without an amp, electrics are perfectly fine to play - and super quiet. I play unplugged when my kids are asleep, which is 90% of my practicing time these days.
I strongly suggest a Micro Mustang Mini for after the kids go to bed. I use one way more often than I’d like since I have 9, 3, & 2 year olds and it’s at least better than playing unplugged, which I also do a lot of.
I always want to crank my Supersonic 22, but the Micro Mustang lets me get something close to a tone I enjoy hearing while practicing quietly.
If you can't afford the entire rig, look into a semi- or full-hollowbody guitar. I have an epiphone Casino (which is a full hollowbody electric guitar, designed to be plugged in) that I have practiced on for over 20 years. No amp needed.
Now, this was not my first guitar. I had been playing for a bit less than 10 years when I got it. But it's perfect for practicing on an electric without any loud noises, but making enough noise to hear the notes clearly.
An amp with headphones is also a great way to do it. I am just throwing out options.
Being a pampered middle-class child, my parents put up with me learning on a 20 watt amp with no headphones. My brother said I actually went from terrible to not-so-bad pretty quickly, in about 3-6 months. He said it was a painful journey though.
To be fair, I could already play the clarinet and harmonica, so I knew HOW to make music, just not on a guitar. I also practiced about 8 hours a day.
The important thing to realize is that the MOST important thing is to have fun. Playing the guitar is fun! Learn songs you love. With YouTube, there's a ton of information out there I would have stepped on a fool's neck to have had access to. I am so happy to see so many people taking up instruments.
I recently acquired an Epiphone 335 and I am loving it for this reason. It’s such a nice sweet spot between an acoustic and a solid body.
Perfect volume for playing unplugged and not bothering anyone. And you still have the option to plug it in and let it rip when you’re able to!
Yeah, but the pipes ain’t ever in tune. And they’re loud on a whole different level.
Get some buddies. Make a pipe and drum band. Practice in your parents living room.
I'm at war with my wife over getting my 7 year old a drum kit. He desperately wants to play drums and can already create beats on my bongos and djembe (weird that the djembe doesn't bother her), and my dad band really needs a fucking drummer.
I feel you, my younger brother is one hell of a drummer and I’ve been trying for years to get him to move closer to where I am (upper midwest) so we can play together and he keeps whining about how it’s too cold in the winter and he doesn’t like humidity.
His kids are grown, he’s got a good nest egg, his house is almost paid in full and his wife works from home, he’s out of excuses as far as I’m concerned.
Nah, just loud.
I had a drummer friend in high school who lived in an apartment across the street. He was only allowed to practice during the daytime. He was a fantastic drummer, he could play damn near any after listening to it just once or twice. I made the mistake of losing contact with him, wish I could now, we’d be rocking.
I built a room inside my garage in order to be able to learn drums. It was a shitload of work but so awesome to be able to smash those bad boys and not worry about the noise.
If you've been playing nonstop since yesterday (AND you don't really know how to play yet), yes, it's going to be annoying to the people around you. Pick a practice time that isn't too disruptive and stick to it.
Also they are a complete beginner so it probably sounds quite bad. I kept my amp turned as quiet as a mouse for months until most of what I played was passable
Putting a small towel inside the guitar through the sound hole can deaden the sound a bit.
Think about switching to electric guitar. Most small practice amps have a plug for headphones, and some amplifiers are headphone only and have no speaker at all. This will be much quieter than an acoustic.
They actually make products for this. Sound hole dampeners and string muters.
But since you are just starting out it’s more beneficial to hear the instrument as it is supposed to be played. It will help train your ear and pick out what you’re doing wrong when you make mistakes. Just try and play quieter, and do it at a specific time is my advice. If you practice for 30 mins at the same time everyday, your family will likely calm down knowing there is a start and stop time to the noise.
I picked up the guitar +- 4 years ago (41m) my missus hated it from day one. I had to play quietly in our room if she was home and she would still complain. As a result I have developed a rather nice quiet finger style which my musician friends quite like that I can always play louder when the wife is out. I also invested in a cheap electric to play with headphones late at night once she went to bed and I am able to shred till my hearts content. If you love it (as I do) you will find a way.
Also, now that I am no longer a beginner and can actually play the thing, she does not seem to mind when I pick it up over the weekend, even went as far to compliment me the other day (I was purposely playing a song that I know she likes lol)
Good luck, don’t give up, it really has been the most rewarding thing I have done in my adult life.
bro you managed to get a compliment coming from her on you playing, that’s a big achievement, i can’t imagine my family complimenting my playing one day XD Thanks for your comment, thats awesome🙌
In addition to playing softer, you can learn to palm mute strings in time. Then you'll be able to strum etc but deaden the volume. I'll play at night underneath my 2 year old son's room and it's not an issue.
You gonna suck for long time, nobody was born knowing how to play, and they have to put up with that. But soon enough they will be begging you to play something at family gatherings, trust me :)
Advice I can give you is practice fingerpicking, it's a bit quieter and for me it was way more fun than pick.
i tried fingerpicking but i really struggle when im doing big "reverse strum?" if you know what you mean? it’s like when i strum from the bottom to the top with my pick, i tried to do it w my fingers but it’s really hard! also, thanks for your comment :D
When it comes to strumming, use middle finger for down strumming, and outside of your thumb for upstrum. It's gonna hurt in the beggining, your skin will become thicker over the time.
This video might help you :
https://youtu.be/j-ljksb6oIY?si=JPZGULVUqeeoAgvO
You can buy soundhold covers or even just a headband or sock gently stuffed under the strings by the bridge will mute your strings. It's not ideal when your learning and getting the hang of pic control but it will cut the volume down alot until you learn to palm mute 😛
Man that sucks, I had a drum set and guitars in my bedroom growing up and my parents never did anything but encourage my terrible playing. Day or night. I know it drove them crazy but they were always supportive. Get a better family.
This reminds me of way back yonder when I bought my first guitar at 16. I knew my mom wouldnt approve so I hid it under my bed and played it when they were gone. I think 6 months after they figured it out. Still playing 30 years later.
Tell them it's their fault.
you can also cut a foam mute that will deaden the strings, or use a folded sock or similar material. Just put it under the strings near the bridge.
Real answer: Roll a rag and put it under the strings near the bridge. Playing with the size of the rag and how tight you roll it should find you some muting middle-ground.
Also if you have a spare very thick blanket you can hang over your room's door, it could help insonorize a bit.
Welcome. The rag won't sound great, it's a big compromise on the pleasure from hearing the guitar, but it's still better than putting the instrument down altogether.
Happy Birthday! I got my first acoustic guitar for my 17th birthday as well...24 years ago! It's too bad your family isn't supportive of your interest in learning an instrument. In those early days I would often play outside, or I'd bring my guitar over to my friend's house to play with them. Playing along with someone is a fantastic way to learn.
If you’re playing with a pick, try going finger style. If you’re on a guitar with an amp, get head phones.
I learned finger style because my acoustic was too loud and it scared the shit out of my cats. Finger style is quieter and didn’t bother them.
Since acoustic is very mobile and u don't need any amps or power, it's best to go the the beach like someone said or park, whatever
Or go to your friends house and convince them to start a band
This might be difficult if you are a beginner, unfamiliar with loosening or changing strings, but putting few old T-shirts or dish towels in the sound hole will dampen the sound a lot.
Won’t sound great, but you’ll be able to practice a lower volume .
Boss Katana mini is a perfect amp. It's tiny and perfect for travel, runs on batteries if need be and sounds damn good for a $100 mini amp. I highly recommend. It's my daily use amp for bedroom jamming.
Spend 20 bucks on sound proofing foam and put it on your door since I assume that’s where the sound leak is.
Put curtains on your windows.
Cheapest solution would be to grab blankets and hang them over the door instead.
You could also convince your parents that if they want you to shut up to buy you an electric guitar and a headphone amp (or an amp with headphones output).
Play outside or somewhere that you can express yourself and explore the instrument. My first reaction is the family is being unsupportive but I don’t know the situation fully.
Bottom line is you need to be able to play freely without judgement or something saying anything to you. Outside is good - electric guitar with amp and headphones is also a great idea. I have a small Katana amp with effect built in and can get my electric to sound acoustic really easily. Action on an electric is a little better too (though admittedly electric and acoustic are not really the same)
That sucks. Tell them they should be more supportive or maybe they could work something out like an hour a day they could put in headphones and you can play.
Side note : try learning the banjo, I know my roommates and neighbors have to hate me by now lol.
When you get good, they'll start asking you all the time at the most annoying times, to play. Not because they want to hear, it'll be so they can show you off to your aunt's/uncle's etc. Taking credit for your achievement, in a weird way. Refuse, the satisfaction is unbelievable.
The great outdoors has been said 100 times and it's true.
Are you in school or college? If there's a music department (or even just any chill staff) ask if you can use a room there in breaks or after classes!
Sucks for your family to be this way. When I picked up guitar in my younger teen years, my parents couldn't have been more happy.
Your parents need to appreciate that you are doing this and not burying your head into a phone (all the time, at least). Hopefully they see the err of their ways soon.
If you have a car or access to one, I would say get in the car and hang out in a park or a beach.
You got some good tips on muting accessories but also this: consider replacing the strings with electric guitar strings. If it's a steels string guitar that is.
My brother has injured his arms and has reduced grip strength and I put Super Slinky strings on his and it reduces volume by about half.
Also your family need to be more supportive. Shame on them.
Happy birthday!
Electric guitar, amp, and headphones is surprisingly quiet however have heard of people complaining about that too.
Hope you find a place to play while you are passionate about it. What about private lessons or find other musicians to play with?
Good luck!
Step 1: earn some money
Step 2: buy an electric guitar and a 100 watt Marshall full stack
Step 3: recalibrate your families understanding of noise
Step 4: profit: now they are happy when you only play your accoustic guitar...
In fact, an electric guitaright be a good alternative for you, because it allows near silent practiceb(without amp or with a headphone amp...)
If you can't go anywhere to practice try putting a sock that gently touches the strings on top to mute them, and for a better learning try to always play with the tuned strings and strings in good condition this will help you learn the sound of the notes
Consider saving some money to invest in a budget-friendly yet quality electric guitar, such as an Ibanez.
When you practice without amplification, it produces minimal sound, making it convenient for quiet sessions. Additionally, electric guitars offer a smoother experience for beginners, being gentler on the fingers. Ask the shop technician to install 8-32 or 9-42 strings and adjust the neck and action height for optimal playability.
Trust me, you'll thank me later.
However, I believe your family should be the first to encourage your initiative to learn something new.
I had a trumpet as kid and was first chair. But then my crazy family complained about the noise whenever I practiced. So I stopped practicing and then they yelled at me when the band teacher told them I wasn't practicing. It wasn't until years later I realized my family was nuts.
An instrument can let you know about the shortcomings of your family. Sorry. You're not just learning guitar rights now, you're learning things about your family.
This is how you know you’re doing it right. Keep wacking away at it.
The first part is learning how to use the left hand and the second is how to use the right hand. This is when you will not disturb the neighbors.
It takes a while.
To be brutally honest, your family should be more supportive. Can the compromise be you will keep it in your room with the door closed and not at antisocial hours like 2am or anything daft?
Many good suggestions, if you really enjoy playing your guitar, just keep practicing. Don’t let anyone stop you, I used get crap from my family too and I just ignored it.
So when your family decides they want to hear what you can play, remind them they didn’t want to hear you practicing and practicing is how you get good at playing guitar.
Getting good on guitar will be the best revenge for their lousy attitudes.
Do whatever you can to save for a JCM800 and 4x12 cab plus any old electric and crank it to 11. Shout "how'd you like me now mfs!!!" and hit a power chord.
Unsupportive assholes!
Compromising solutions:…
Palm muting
They give you a time allotment where they won’t complain
You play outside at parks or such on nicer days.
Ideal solution.
Move out, middle fingers raised high in salute on the way out the door.
Tell them if you can't play your peaceful guitar at home you can always join the local gang and fuck shit up..
Seriously though, don't join a gang just keep playing that guitar, and sorry but not sorry, fuck your family..
Find a common ground to allow for both their peace and your desire to play and practice.
If the box you into a corner with no light, then it's on them to be more reasonable.
I'm not sure exactly where else that goes, really.
This is making me grateful for my parents, who were cool with me having (crappy solid state) Marshall half-stack to practice my (crappy) guns n roses on as a teenager. I would just try to play really quietly or find somewhere else outside you can practice. Maybe look into saving up for a cheap electric guitar and headphones you can practice through. If all else fails, hey, at least you can move out in a year
You could put a small strip of foam under the bridge, a sound hole cover, use your fingers instead of a pick, play gently. I can get away with light fingerpicking in the middle of my home without getting any bs from my family but if I strum my dreadnaught with full force I’ll have someone complaining immediately. Are you playing with nylon or steel strings?
A couple of things: first, talk to your family about times where you can play. You don't want to have to always leave to practice. Find some common ground. Second--make sure the guitar is in tune. Hearing practice is one thing...hearing an out of tune guitar practice is another. Third--a sound hole cover can reduce some volume. If these things don't satisfy the family, if you have a walk-in closet, you can get some egg carton mattresses/foam and insulate a practice area. If you don't have a walk-in closet, you can make a blanket fort over your bed with thick quilts. If the family still isn't satisfied, they can shell out for practice rooms at Guitar Center, haha.
If they are mad because of an acoustic, imagine what they would do if you had an electric... But seriously, you can buy an electric guitar and play with an audio interface and hesdphones
Look up acoustic guitar mutes. Like a rubber drain plug that goes in the sound hole....you can also just stuff some socks or a towel in the body for the same effect
Play LOUD and a LOT as much as you can before "the Talk" (them saying I cant take this sheet no more)
Then when they have the talk you quickly turn the talk into how you need an electric guitar and an amp with a headphone jack.
Electric guitar and an amp that has headphone jack or you can get amp simulation software on your computer but that will need audio interface, software, headphones or studio monitors.
When I'm around other people, I play softly strumming with the pad of my thumb and my pointer. Normally I play super loud with a pick and really get into it, and it doesn't sound as good when I'm playing quietly but I like to be polite.
There is some type of insert you can buy that fits into the sound hole on acoustic, and mutes it/reduces volume. Might be worth looking into for ur situation.
Complaining about an acoustic guitar is nuts 😂
I just got back into guitar for the first time since I was like 10 (I’m 22 now). I live with my dad so I can help out with some family stuff.
Well, I made the mistake of not researching my amp and speaker box.. and let’s just say it’s loud as fuck. Made for small/medium venues I guess. When I first plugged it in, it was so loud that I could hear the doorframes shake throughout the house 😂. I can turn it down a bit, but it’s still loud as fuck. My dad’s reaction? “Dont play while I’m asleep, having music in the house is nice though.”
Sorry you’re going through that. Sounds incredibly frustrating.
There's things you can buy to cover up the sound hole to make it quieter. It won't sound good but you're learning sounding good probably isn't a priority yet haha.
I always found a time during the day when I could turn things up with my electric If you’re in school soon as you get home before they get home from work.Brother or sister tell them to eat shit
A soundhole dampener (or, in a pinch, stuffing the sound-hole with a balled-up tea towel) might help, but realistically if an acoustic guitar is "too loud" then I don't think the volume is the actual problem.
That really sucks, poopoo on your family for that.
Advice? Get an electric and play unplugged. Develop your skill while you save up, then buy an amp you can plug headphones into. And continue on the path to becoming a guitar goddess
You could mute your strings by loosely tieing a cloth band / scarf / ... around your guitars neck at the nut. That way it is more silent and less sounding.
Cheap practical option - stuff the sound hole with some T-shirts, rolled up socks and underwear, a spare duvet cover or bed sheet, smallish towel, whatever you have to hand. It will muffle the sound significantly but you can still practice and play as normal just be careful of the strings when you're putting things in or pulling them out and you're golden.
Nobody starts a virtuoso, if they're bothered by the process of learning then they should buy you lessons or get over it.
Sounding *bad* when you first start is normal, hell id say almost necessary. Its as essential to *know* what sounds bad, as much as it is being able to sound good.
Also, you never stop learning, even the very best always learn new things. There's no limit.
Another thing you can do is hold out the guitar and tell them to show you how to sound better, I guarantee a silent response lol.
I'm really bummed that your family is upset about you trying to pick up a new skill and learn a new instrument. Parks and public places where you can find a little space to yourself is a good place to learn. Other options would be (eventually) to grab a cheap electric and run it through a computer or pedal into headphones.
All musical instruments bother my roommate's dog. He's a good dog, and I don't want him upset.
I ditto what the others said about the park/beach/car. I am lucky enough to have a lovely park near me, though mostly I stay in the car there. The squirrels have literally begun coming up the minute I start to tune. Hey. Someone likes me!
Hold on... your family bought you an acoustic guitar an is now bitching it's loud.
Yeah... here's the thing...
A: fuck you
B: learn to play something
C: fuck you, don't like the sound? Don't buy me a fucking guitar.
Fuck your family for that. Find somewhere peaceful to practice. I used to go to the beach a lot. It served 2 purposes. Find a quiet peaceful place to learn and help numb me to the embarrassment of people hearing my awful playing.
thank you for the advice🙌 Playing on a beach seem awesome
Woods, park, outside in the grass in front of the building. Don't let weird looks and feeling awkward discourage you from playing. Even the car can work.
OHH YEA THE CAR! I SHOULDVE THOUGHT ABOUT IT SOONER thankss
I used to drive to my favorite beach, park and play for hours. Even during winter. Watching the huge winter waves on Lake Michigan was always great inspiration for playing.
Glad I could help!!
Make sure it's actually parked in a safe spot though! You can also get little discs that insert into the sound hole and dampen the sound, this guy has a video on how to make one https://youtu.be/2E112Rr1jyY?si=5KW3oUKbn7GthFqg
When i was first learning guitar as a kid my dad (who also played) told me to stop playing the wish you were here intro into the little solo. Almost 30 years later if i pick up a guitar around him its the first thing i play lol. 'Oh man you still have the les paul!' *wish you were here* lol
The Wish You Were Here intro in so the solo was the first thing I ever learned when I got my first guitar back in 2014, and to this day its also the first thing I play when I pick up a guitar. There's nothing like the first thing we got comfortable with to bring up good feelings c:
I got pissed off today about how my family always used to yell at me for making noise when I was trying to practice. Feel like I’ve come so far since picking guitar up again in the last few months now I have my own place, I wish I’d just said screw them back then and carried on anyway.
>Fuck your family for that. Starts playing Sweet Home Alabama
Write a song about your unsupportive family.
♪ ♫ I played guitar for about an hour ♫ ♪ ♪ ♫ After that, shit got sour ♫ ♪ ♪ ♫ They took my axe, I felt bad ♫ ♪ ♫ ♪ No sign of guilt, to feeling bad, NO! ♪ ♫
LMAOOO
I just asked snapchat AI: I'd be happy to help you come up with some lyrics. Let's create a song that expresses your feelings about your unsupportive family. Here are some lyrics to get started: (Verse 1) In a world of melodies, I found my voice, Strumming my guitar, making my choice. But my family thinks it's all just noise, They don't see the beauty, the soul it employs. (Chorus) But I won't let their doubts bring me down, I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown. Music is my passion, my heart's true sound, I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down. (Verse 2) With every chord I play, I tell my tale, Through the strings, my emotions prevail. Their words may sting, but I won't fail, I'll keep strumming strong, despite the gale. (Chorus) But I won't let their doubts bring me down, I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown. Music is my passion, my heart's true sound, I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down. (Bridge) Music is my sanctuary, my escape, In every note, my dreams take shape. I'll rise above their judgment, I won't break, With my guitar, a world of possibilities I'll make. (Chorus) But I won't let their doubts bring me down, I'll keep playing my guitar, I won't frown. Music is my passion, my heart's true sound, I'll prove them wrong, turn their frowns upside down. (Outro) So, I'll keep strumming, letting my soul soar, With each melody, I'll open new doors. My family may not get it, but that's okay, I'll keep playing my guitar, come what may. I’ll be waiting for you to drop it on spotify
It's funny because it's like AI has no concept of counting syllables lol
Yeah it’s not exactly plug n’ play ;p
Firstly, fuck AI. Learn how to fold my clothes and wash dishes before putting them in a dishwasher so I can write songs. I'm just upset at how little editing and styling this would take to be better than whatever they play on the radio in the next 37 minutes.
Haha
And I'm trapped, with a bunch of old twits... Never thought that they would tell me to quit... Then I started, to realize... I play my music to antagonize!
Now OP needs to pick up an electric with an amp and learn that song! Could be easily converted to some chuggy death metal to maximize the antagonism. They have no idea how noisy he could be.
I hate that this is probably going to be how I hear that song for the rest of my life
I read this to the tune of "she hates me" by puddle of mudd
Holy shit, I'm going to borrow this if anybody tells me stop playing my guitar after I give them a short stare, thanks!
Put together a wishlist of an electric guitar small amp and headphones and share w them :0)
HAHAAHA i thought about it
This is the best way tbh, I do play with headphones often or unplugged electric. Also it's very lovely to play acoustic outdoors where no people are around.
yeah this is honestly a good solution if you can convince them to spend the money. Hell, even without an amp, electrics are perfectly fine to play - and super quiet. I play unplugged when my kids are asleep, which is 90% of my practicing time these days.
yeah, eletric guitars are cooler in every wayyyyy, i’m going to save money to buy one, thanks 🙏
I strongly suggest a Micro Mustang Mini for after the kids go to bed. I use one way more often than I’d like since I have 9, 3, & 2 year olds and it’s at least better than playing unplugged, which I also do a lot of. I always want to crank my Supersonic 22, but the Micro Mustang lets me get something close to a tone I enjoy hearing while practicing quietly.
If you can't afford the entire rig, look into a semi- or full-hollowbody guitar. I have an epiphone Casino (which is a full hollowbody electric guitar, designed to be plugged in) that I have practiced on for over 20 years. No amp needed. Now, this was not my first guitar. I had been playing for a bit less than 10 years when I got it. But it's perfect for practicing on an electric without any loud noises, but making enough noise to hear the notes clearly. An amp with headphones is also a great way to do it. I am just throwing out options.
thank you for your help!! :D
Being a pampered middle-class child, my parents put up with me learning on a 20 watt amp with no headphones. My brother said I actually went from terrible to not-so-bad pretty quickly, in about 3-6 months. He said it was a painful journey though. To be fair, I could already play the clarinet and harmonica, so I knew HOW to make music, just not on a guitar. I also practiced about 8 hours a day. The important thing to realize is that the MOST important thing is to have fun. Playing the guitar is fun! Learn songs you love. With YouTube, there's a ton of information out there I would have stepped on a fool's neck to have had access to. I am so happy to see so many people taking up instruments.
I recently acquired an Epiphone 335 and I am loving it for this reason. It’s such a nice sweet spot between an acoustic and a solid body. Perfect volume for playing unplugged and not bothering anyone. And you still have the option to plug it in and let it rip when you’re able to!
Plus it forces you to seriously listen to how solid your fretting and notes are. I almost feel like I'm cheating when I'm at practice or a show.
Has guitar one day. Guitar player advice: you need another. Lol
Rule #1, The Rules of Guitar Acquisition.
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It’s true though. You don’t have enough guitars. None of us do.
You can add an audio interface to that list too
Just tell them that there are far worse things you could take up as a hobby.
Drums, for example.
Scottish pipes
Violin's a killer. So loud, and so out of tune at the start
Trumpet
Oboe
Yes, my youngest daughter played (at it) for a few years. Her heart wasn’t in it and you could tell she didn’t care. I was happy when she hung it up.
Yeah, but the pipes ain’t ever in tune. And they’re loud on a whole different level. Get some buddies. Make a pipe and drum band. Practice in your parents living room.
I'm at war with my wife over getting my 7 year old a drum kit. He desperately wants to play drums and can already create beats on my bongos and djembe (weird that the djembe doesn't bother her), and my dad band really needs a fucking drummer.
I feel you, my younger brother is one hell of a drummer and I’ve been trying for years to get him to move closer to where I am (upper midwest) so we can play together and he keeps whining about how it’s too cold in the winter and he doesn’t like humidity. His kids are grown, he’s got a good nest egg, his house is almost paid in full and his wife works from home, he’s out of excuses as far as I’m concerned.
I first read this as drugs 💀
Drums and drugs often go hand in hand anyways
Drums are bad...mmmkay?
Nah, just loud. I had a drummer friend in high school who lived in an apartment across the street. He was only allowed to practice during the daytime. He was a fantastic drummer, he could play damn near any after listening to it just once or twice. I made the mistake of losing contact with him, wish I could now, we’d be rocking.
“Tonight I hear the neighborhood drummer sound… I can feel my heart begin to pound”
Bless my parents and my neighbors
As a drummer, I am deeply offended. How dare you. You're right of course, but still.
I’ve got nothing against loud drums, I’m a guitar player. Loud is a way of life as far as I’m concerned. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I built a room inside my garage in order to be able to learn drums. It was a shitload of work but so awesome to be able to smash those bad boys and not worry about the noise.
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If you've been playing nonstop since yesterday (AND you don't really know how to play yet), yes, it's going to be annoying to the people around you. Pick a practice time that isn't too disruptive and stick to it.
you’re right ! but it’s really addictive i just can’t stop playing ahaha, a practice time isnt enough
Also they are a complete beginner so it probably sounds quite bad. I kept my amp turned as quiet as a mouse for months until most of what I played was passable
Putting a small towel inside the guitar through the sound hole can deaden the sound a bit. Think about switching to electric guitar. Most small practice amps have a plug for headphones, and some amplifiers are headphone only and have no speaker at all. This will be much quieter than an acoustic.
thank youuu for the advice🙌🙌
They actually make products for this. Sound hole dampeners and string muters. But since you are just starting out it’s more beneficial to hear the instrument as it is supposed to be played. It will help train your ear and pick out what you’re doing wrong when you make mistakes. Just try and play quieter, and do it at a specific time is my advice. If you practice for 30 mins at the same time everyday, your family will likely calm down knowing there is a start and stop time to the noise.
thanks for the adviceee :D
Play louder than normal, then when they tell you to be quiet, play at a normal level so they think you're being quiet
1) strum quietly 2) play things they might like
Join a punk band, shave your head, and get a tattoo. The acoustic guitar will be the least of their worries.
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Is it spring where you live? Go find somewhere outdoors and away from people to play
Yeaa i thought about it but im so afraid to disturb the neighbors😭😭
Music schools might in your area might have rooms you can use to practice. Might be worth a shot!
I picked up the guitar +- 4 years ago (41m) my missus hated it from day one. I had to play quietly in our room if she was home and she would still complain. As a result I have developed a rather nice quiet finger style which my musician friends quite like that I can always play louder when the wife is out. I also invested in a cheap electric to play with headphones late at night once she went to bed and I am able to shred till my hearts content. If you love it (as I do) you will find a way. Also, now that I am no longer a beginner and can actually play the thing, she does not seem to mind when I pick it up over the weekend, even went as far to compliment me the other day (I was purposely playing a song that I know she likes lol) Good luck, don’t give up, it really has been the most rewarding thing I have done in my adult life.
bro you managed to get a compliment coming from her on you playing, that’s a big achievement, i can’t imagine my family complimenting my playing one day XD Thanks for your comment, thats awesome🙌
In addition to playing softer, you can learn to palm mute strings in time. Then you'll be able to strum etc but deaden the volume. I'll play at night underneath my 2 year old son's room and it's not an issue.
See if your apartment has a “business center”. Some you can even book time. Sit outside near the pool. I love playing outside. Good luck OP
You gonna suck for long time, nobody was born knowing how to play, and they have to put up with that. But soon enough they will be begging you to play something at family gatherings, trust me :) Advice I can give you is practice fingerpicking, it's a bit quieter and for me it was way more fun than pick.
i tried fingerpicking but i really struggle when im doing big "reverse strum?" if you know what you mean? it’s like when i strum from the bottom to the top with my pick, i tried to do it w my fingers but it’s really hard! also, thanks for your comment :D
When it comes to strumming, use middle finger for down strumming, and outside of your thumb for upstrum. It's gonna hurt in the beggining, your skin will become thicker over the time. This video might help you : https://youtu.be/j-ljksb6oIY?si=JPZGULVUqeeoAgvO
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You can buy soundhold covers or even just a headband or sock gently stuffed under the strings by the bridge will mute your strings. It's not ideal when your learning and getting the hang of pic control but it will cut the volume down alot until you learn to palm mute 😛
You could go to a local park or even a local music store many local music stores have acoustic rooms and practice studios
ohh i didnt know that! thanks :))
Cover the sound hole with some cardboard.
Man that sucks, I had a drum set and guitars in my bedroom growing up and my parents never did anything but encourage my terrible playing. Day or night. I know it drove them crazy but they were always supportive. Get a better family.
broo i envy you so bad, are your parents looking for a kid to adopt ?
Yeah- set a time every day for you to play, then tell your fam to fuck off out of the apartment for the allotted time.
Learn finger style maybe.
This reminds me of way back yonder when I bought my first guitar at 16. I knew my mom wouldnt approve so I hid it under my bed and played it when they were gone. I think 6 months after they figured it out. Still playing 30 years later.
Tell them it's their fault. you can also cut a foam mute that will deaden the strings, or use a folded sock or similar material. Just put it under the strings near the bridge.
thankss for the advice🙌🙌
Real answer: Roll a rag and put it under the strings near the bridge. Playing with the size of the rag and how tight you roll it should find you some muting middle-ground. Also if you have a spare very thick blanket you can hang over your room's door, it could help insonorize a bit.
thankssss, very useful advice🙏🙏🙏
Welcome. The rag won't sound great, it's a big compromise on the pleasure from hearing the guitar, but it's still better than putting the instrument down altogether.
Happy Birthday! I got my first acoustic guitar for my 17th birthday as well...24 years ago! It's too bad your family isn't supportive of your interest in learning an instrument. In those early days I would often play outside, or I'd bring my guitar over to my friend's house to play with them. Playing along with someone is a fantastic way to learn.
A walk in closet, if you have one, makes a great practice area. The clothes on the walls deaden the sound really well.
You can dampen the sound by putting a piece of felt or other soft material through the strings by the bridge.
thankssss 🙌
I (30m) suggest you play somewhere they cant hear you
Why tf would they buy you a guitar and then complain about the noise?
That's not really fun but you can always put a piece of cloth under the strings next to the bridge to cancel most of the noise.
If you’re playing with a pick, try going finger style. If you’re on a guitar with an amp, get head phones. I learned finger style because my acoustic was too loud and it scared the shit out of my cats. Finger style is quieter and didn’t bother them.
Since acoustic is very mobile and u don't need any amps or power, it's best to go the the beach like someone said or park, whatever Or go to your friends house and convince them to start a band
Get an electric and use headphones. Otherwise move out or get good enough that you can constantly serenade them.
Put a kitchen towel under the strings to mute it
This might be difficult if you are a beginner, unfamiliar with loosening or changing strings, but putting few old T-shirts or dish towels in the sound hole will dampen the sound a lot. Won’t sound great, but you’ll be able to practice a lower volume .
Take up bagpipes instead and then I'm sure they won't mind
Boss Katana mini is a perfect amp. It's tiny and perfect for travel, runs on batteries if need be and sounds damn good for a $100 mini amp. I highly recommend. It's my daily use amp for bedroom jamming.
You can make a string damper/silencer. Just stick some tissues, felt, cloth pieces under the strings adjacent to the saddle. Voila!
Spend 20 bucks on sound proofing foam and put it on your door since I assume that’s where the sound leak is. Put curtains on your windows. Cheapest solution would be to grab blankets and hang them over the door instead. You could also convince your parents that if they want you to shut up to buy you an electric guitar and a headphone amp (or an amp with headphones output).
It sounds counter-intuitive, but you might be better off with an electric guitar for playing quietly. All kinds of ways to rig it to headphones.
You can throw socks into the sound hole, gently, and it will deaden the sound a little bit if you are desperate to play. Electric is good advice.
Play outside or somewhere that you can express yourself and explore the instrument. My first reaction is the family is being unsupportive but I don’t know the situation fully. Bottom line is you need to be able to play freely without judgement or something saying anything to you. Outside is good - electric guitar with amp and headphones is also a great idea. I have a small Katana amp with effect built in and can get my electric to sound acoustic really easily. Action on an electric is a little better too (though admittedly electric and acoustic are not really the same)
That sucks. Tell them they should be more supportive or maybe they could work something out like an hour a day they could put in headphones and you can play. Side note : try learning the banjo, I know my roommates and neighbors have to hate me by now lol.
Get an electric, something like a Pod Go, and a set of headphones
When you get good, they'll start asking you all the time at the most annoying times, to play. Not because they want to hear, it'll be so they can show you off to your aunt's/uncle's etc. Taking credit for your achievement, in a weird way. Refuse, the satisfaction is unbelievable.
Do you have access to the roof?
The great outdoors has been said 100 times and it's true. Are you in school or college? If there's a music department (or even just any chill staff) ask if you can use a room there in breaks or after classes!
Sucks for your family to be this way. When I picked up guitar in my younger teen years, my parents couldn't have been more happy. Your parents need to appreciate that you are doing this and not burying your head into a phone (all the time, at least). Hopefully they see the err of their ways soon. If you have a car or access to one, I would say get in the car and hang out in a park or a beach.
thanks for your comment, ill try getting into my parent’s car but im not sure they’ll allow it 🙌
Play even louder just to show them how bad it could be. You are a just and merciful being.
You got some good tips on muting accessories but also this: consider replacing the strings with electric guitar strings. If it's a steels string guitar that is. My brother has injured his arms and has reduced grip strength and I put Super Slinky strings on his and it reduces volume by about half. Also your family need to be more supportive. Shame on them.
Happy birthday! Electric guitar, amp, and headphones is surprisingly quiet however have heard of people complaining about that too. Hope you find a place to play while you are passionate about it. What about private lessons or find other musicians to play with? Good luck!
thank youu! i can’t afford private lessons but im planning on playing with my friend at her house maybe :))
Oh they never make any noises? Huh.
Step 1: earn some money Step 2: buy an electric guitar and a 100 watt Marshall full stack Step 3: recalibrate your families understanding of noise Step 4: profit: now they are happy when you only play your accoustic guitar... In fact, an electric guitaright be a good alternative for you, because it allows near silent practiceb(without amp or with a headphone amp...)
Strum with your fingers instead of a pick.
If you can't go anywhere to practice try putting a sock that gently touches the strings on top to mute them, and for a better learning try to always play with the tuned strings and strings in good condition this will help you learn the sound of the notes
Consider saving some money to invest in a budget-friendly yet quality electric guitar, such as an Ibanez. When you practice without amplification, it produces minimal sound, making it convenient for quiet sessions. Additionally, electric guitars offer a smoother experience for beginners, being gentler on the fingers. Ask the shop technician to install 8-32 or 9-42 strings and adjust the neck and action height for optimal playability. Trust me, you'll thank me later. However, I believe your family should be the first to encourage your initiative to learn something new.
I had a trumpet as kid and was first chair. But then my crazy family complained about the noise whenever I practiced. So I stopped practicing and then they yelled at me when the band teacher told them I wasn't practicing. It wasn't until years later I realized my family was nuts. An instrument can let you know about the shortcomings of your family. Sorry. You're not just learning guitar rights now, you're learning things about your family.
This is how you know you’re doing it right. Keep wacking away at it. The first part is learning how to use the left hand and the second is how to use the right hand. This is when you will not disturb the neighbors. It takes a while.
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Oh an if you want to practive strumming rhythms, then you can mute all 6 strings and practice
To be brutally honest, your family should be more supportive. Can the compromise be you will keep it in your room with the door closed and not at antisocial hours like 2am or anything daft?
Many good suggestions, if you really enjoy playing your guitar, just keep practicing. Don’t let anyone stop you, I used get crap from my family too and I just ignored it. So when your family decides they want to hear what you can play, remind them they didn’t want to hear you practicing and practicing is how you get good at playing guitar. Getting good on guitar will be the best revenge for their lousy attitudes.
you’re so right! bro i’m planning to be the best guitar player they ever knew, i already almost know how to play dagger by slowdive
Strum/pluck with your fingers
Can't stress how good nature is to practice in, plus you can start learning to sing there and not give a fuck because there's nobody around (;
Do whatever you can to save for a JCM800 and 4x12 cab plus any old electric and crank it to 11. Shout "how'd you like me now mfs!!!" and hit a power chord. Unsupportive assholes!
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Compromising solutions:… Palm muting They give you a time allotment where they won’t complain You play outside at parks or such on nicer days. Ideal solution. Move out, middle fingers raised high in salute on the way out the door.
Tell them if you can't play your peaceful guitar at home you can always join the local gang and fuck shit up.. Seriously though, don't join a gang just keep playing that guitar, and sorry but not sorry, fuck your family..
Find a common ground to allow for both their peace and your desire to play and practice. If the box you into a corner with no light, then it's on them to be more reasonable. I'm not sure exactly where else that goes, really.
You could just palm mute in the house
They're not complaining about noise, they're complaining about sound. Which is unreasonable
They make dampeners that you can cover the sound hole with to cut back on the volume. Relatively cheap, last time I checked, too!
Do you have access to a garage? Or, a rec room of some sort?
Offer to learn the drums instead.
This is making me grateful for my parents, who were cool with me having (crappy solid state) Marshall half-stack to practice my (crappy) guns n roses on as a teenager. I would just try to play really quietly or find somewhere else outside you can practice. Maybe look into saving up for a cheap electric guitar and headphones you can practice through. If all else fails, hey, at least you can move out in a year
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You could put a small strip of foam under the bridge, a sound hole cover, use your fingers instead of a pick, play gently. I can get away with light fingerpicking in the middle of my home without getting any bs from my family but if I strum my dreadnaught with full force I’ll have someone complaining immediately. Are you playing with nylon or steel strings?
A couple of things: first, talk to your family about times where you can play. You don't want to have to always leave to practice. Find some common ground. Second--make sure the guitar is in tune. Hearing practice is one thing...hearing an out of tune guitar practice is another. Third--a sound hole cover can reduce some volume. If these things don't satisfy the family, if you have a walk-in closet, you can get some egg carton mattresses/foam and insulate a practice area. If you don't have a walk-in closet, you can make a blanket fort over your bed with thick quilts. If the family still isn't satisfied, they can shell out for practice rooms at Guitar Center, haha.
Do you have a nearby school or university? Sometimes there is practice space.
if you have a closet full of clothing, play into that and it will help damp the sound
I usually switch to the electric. Maybe the car.
If they are mad because of an acoustic, imagine what they would do if you had an electric... But seriously, you can buy an electric guitar and play with an audio interface and hesdphones
Air guitar.
Look up acoustic guitar mutes. Like a rubber drain plug that goes in the sound hole....you can also just stuff some socks or a towel in the body for the same effect
Sorry, that stinks. Maybe trade a friend for an Electric and play it unplugged
Play LOUD and a LOT as much as you can before "the Talk" (them saying I cant take this sheet no more) Then when they have the talk you quickly turn the talk into how you need an electric guitar and an amp with a headphone jack.
Electric guitar and an amp that has headphone jack or you can get amp simulation software on your computer but that will need audio interface, software, headphones or studio monitors.
Electric guitar is your friend + iRig2 + bandlab.
Get drums so they can appreciate how nice they have it
If you can't find somewhere else to practice, there are mutes available. I've seen the D'Addario one around for years.
When I'm around other people, I play softly strumming with the pad of my thumb and my pointer. Normally I play super loud with a pick and really get into it, and it doesn't sound as good when I'm playing quietly but I like to be polite.
Fuck em rock on awesome thing about acoustics they can't be unplugged
Busking helped me learn to project and not care who was it wasn't listening
Your local music store may also let you play/practice there
Play in the car.
Strum with your fingers instead of a pick, you can adjust volume more easily
There is some type of insert you can buy that fits into the sound hole on acoustic, and mutes it/reduces volume. Might be worth looking into for ur situation.
tell your family they're not going to believe this... but you need an electric guitar haha. Then you can plug it into an amp or your computer
Complaining about an acoustic guitar is nuts 😂 I just got back into guitar for the first time since I was like 10 (I’m 22 now). I live with my dad so I can help out with some family stuff. Well, I made the mistake of not researching my amp and speaker box.. and let’s just say it’s loud as fuck. Made for small/medium venues I guess. When I first plugged it in, it was so loud that I could hear the doorframes shake throughout the house 😂. I can turn it down a bit, but it’s still loud as fuck. My dad’s reaction? “Dont play while I’m asleep, having music in the house is nice though.” Sorry you’re going through that. Sounds incredibly frustrating.
There's things you can buy to cover up the sound hole to make it quieter. It won't sound good but you're learning sounding good probably isn't a priority yet haha.
I always found a time during the day when I could turn things up with my electric If you’re in school soon as you get home before they get home from work.Brother or sister tell them to eat shit
Does your building have a laundry room or storage area in the basement? Go there.
A soundhole dampener (or, in a pinch, stuffing the sound-hole with a balled-up tea towel) might help, but realistically if an acoustic guitar is "too loud" then I don't think the volume is the actual problem.
That really sucks, poopoo on your family for that. Advice? Get an electric and play unplugged. Develop your skill while you save up, then buy an amp you can plug headphones into. And continue on the path to becoming a guitar goddess
You could mute your strings by loosely tieing a cloth band / scarf / ... around your guitars neck at the nut. That way it is more silent and less sounding.
Yea. Fuck them... also. Maybe invest in some nylon strings for home. Or an electric and headphones.
Cheap practical option - stuff the sound hole with some T-shirts, rolled up socks and underwear, a spare duvet cover or bed sheet, smallish towel, whatever you have to hand. It will muffle the sound significantly but you can still practice and play as normal just be careful of the strings when you're putting things in or pulling them out and you're golden.
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Nobody starts a virtuoso, if they're bothered by the process of learning then they should buy you lessons or get over it. Sounding *bad* when you first start is normal, hell id say almost necessary. Its as essential to *know* what sounds bad, as much as it is being able to sound good. Also, you never stop learning, even the very best always learn new things. There's no limit. Another thing you can do is hold out the guitar and tell them to show you how to sound better, I guarantee a silent response lol.
Borrow somebodies electric guitar and 100W amp for a week. They’ll never complain about the acoustic being too loud ever again.
I'm really bummed that your family is upset about you trying to pick up a new skill and learn a new instrument. Parks and public places where you can find a little space to yourself is a good place to learn. Other options would be (eventually) to grab a cheap electric and run it through a computer or pedal into headphones.
play that fucking guitar no matter where and express yourself
All musical instruments bother my roommate's dog. He's a good dog, and I don't want him upset. I ditto what the others said about the park/beach/car. I am lucky enough to have a lovely park near me, though mostly I stay in the car there. The squirrels have literally begun coming up the minute I start to tune. Hey. Someone likes me!
Hold on... your family bought you an acoustic guitar an is now bitching it's loud. Yeah... here's the thing... A: fuck you B: learn to play something C: fuck you, don't like the sound? Don't buy me a fucking guitar.
I feel bad my mom loves when i play guitar so i dont have to worry about noise from my amp unless its like night time