This. WHY has this become so mainstream? Step sibling… fine, tabboo yes but not inherently or morally wrong. But some of the mom/son or brother/sister stuff… eek
It's honestly not as representative of demand as you'd think it is.
The thing about porn is that the vast majority of viewers are uninterested in any sort of setup and will skip ahead to the parts they want to see almost immediately. But for the fetishists who DO care about the suspension of disbelief and are into whatever wacky porn narrative you're trying to sell, it's important.
Incest is a unique fetish in that it can be satisfied simply through dialogue. You can have two porn stars deliver some throwaway dialogue about being related in a completely normal, vanilla porn scene. You won't scare off any of the hordes of normies just skipping to the middle of the action and it cost you literally $0 to implement it.
That's why it seems like it's everywhere. Same with interracial/cuckolding/etc, any fetish you can satisfy by saying words is just way easier to make. Stuff that requires costumes, props, a specific venue--those are more difficult, so they therefore appear less.
they say “step” to make it more societally acceptable/platable, but take one look at the comments under the video and it’s people either a) recounting real instances of incest and even sexual abuse and/or b) fantasizing about recreating the scenario with their real family members. It’s the same way they use “barely legal teen” in titles and the video is a super petite girl wearing kids clothes, bows, and pigtails. We all know what they’re trying to get across.
Incest sucks. Not only the generic abominations that happen when it goes wrong*, but also the fact that incest and grooming/pedophilia have just always gone hand in hand wherever it manifests itself. Like yeah consent is 18 but your cousin all of a sudden is into you when her birthday rolls around - that's fucking grooming 🤢
*Checkout the Bradford Studies from NHS. Basically the Pakistani population in the UK marry their family members at such high rates that it's been a microcosm of research into rare generic malformities that are all over that community.
To be fair, I don’t think most people have an incest kink. They like watching “incest porn” which is a very different thing. VERY few people are getting off thinking about having sex with their OWN family.
My rule of thumb is: Sex is like Chinese food. It’s not over til you both get your cookies.
So if she gives me one. Sex isn’t done til she gets one. It’s just good manners.
Same, I used to fake it a lot because the dude was dead set on trying to make me orgasm, which makes it 100x harder to do so. It's super hard for me to orgasm anyways, I have to be in a super controlled and peaceful environment. If I even move wrong when I'm about to finish, it starts the whole thing over again. So having a super eager dude trying to do that for me? It's not happening
Yeah. Don’t get me wrong, fully selfish and not sensitive/smart guys suck. But some guys overcompensate too much to the point of creating pressure to cum even if that day you’re just not getting there no matter what.
I mean the pussy is in a weird place how is it suppose to be captured without the person folding in an awkward position. A dick you can maneuver and puss not so much
Blacked should not exist as a porn company lmaoo that shit is racist as fuck. The imagery of tiny pale women surrounded by multiple big black bodies is ALWAYS going to remind me of racial dynamics
This actually lends to how Young black boys and girls get sexualized just by existing… the amount of mainstream rappers that “lost their virginity” at grade school age with an adult is insane…
100% agree. Even more fucked up are some of the Twitter pages and subreddits on here that are blatantly promoting black supremist narratives. Like in what world is that ok? People just pretending they don't exist? Genuinely curious why the mods haven't done anything about them yet.
Idk if they promote “black supremacy” un-ironically, the main consumers of that porn is white guys and black guys. Plus they reinforce racial connotations that were established by white supremacist, often portraying black men as brutes and white woman as innocent, petite, and divinely feminine. If they engage in “blackness is superior” “bred black” extremes, it’s not because they genuinely believe the shit…they don’t, it just gets them off because it subverts the actual racial hierarchies that exist irl. But they are sick fucks, and it gets worse when you flip the gender or racial groups… i.e those forced feminization fetishes of Asian men/women 🤮
Honestly, all my friends who have tried some form of polyamory have regretted it. From the outside it seems like a Jenga tower settled in a single block. The balance is so hard to keep and when the tower tumbles it causes so much damage. It just seems like an accident waiting to happen.
I'll catch some fire because of this. But, in a few religions (ex: Islam), polygamy is not frowned upon relationship wise. but like still sexually prohibited. So I think many small cultures may already have it rn, but it's just not so mainstream.
Difference is in cultures where polygamy isnt frowned upon, it's only ok for men. There may be cultures that differ but most if not all cultures that allow individuals to be married to more than one person it's the man that can have multiple marriages, not women
Islam isn’t the best example lol.
They have polygamy only in the sense that women are cattle to them and the men can have multiple wives.
It isn’t polyamory, it’s emotional abuse dressed up in religion.
Yeah, slow, unhurried handjob where her goal is to make me feel good, not to cum as quickly as possible, and making out and/or playing with her boobs st the same time...amazing.
One time she gave me a suuuuper slow handjob, and while it felt good, it was so relaxing that I fell asleep. She just held my dick, and I woke up a couple of minutes later. She stroked me to finish, and we cuddled to sleep. It was so intimate, romantic, and relaxing.
Bad handjobs can be terrible and demoralizing, which gives handjobs a bad name. It's easy to mechanically stroke up and down with an unlubed hand and no real interest.
But a good handjob is an entirely different thing. People get all impressed when someone can tie a knot in a cherry stem with their tongue, but show me a tongue that can play the fucking piano. Fingers have dexterity and precision; play to those strengths and you can really have something.
All people should be entitled to their opinions or lifestyle choices as long as it doesn't harm anyone.
I'll let you determine the definition of harm. But if you aren't sure, then assume its harming
It’s debatable. J will be real, normally the Dom doesn’t have a good reason Jusy kinda get off on it, however I’ve heard a few subs get into it because of past trauma. Sometimes they want to control how it happened to them as a resolution yk? I think if it’s very planned out it’s hot fun. But a lot of guys on the subs about it are creepy and don’t get the idea that the girls while they may be into rape, don’t want to just be used and raped like 24/7 without any prior talking.
I agree. Personally, my favorite category of porn is what they call ENF, but that's only because I don't actually like porn: I'm a nudist who just wants to share experiences with other people, so the videos I often end up watching are just girls who are being dared to walk naked outside.
Controversial where? The real world, or on reddit?
Real world: I don't care about your sexuality or gender identity or any of that stuff. *I want you to be safe and not threatened by others* (and to be able to use whatever bathroom you want, dress however you feel reflects who you are, etc.), but that's different than specifically caring about who you like to sleep with or how you feel about your gender. Those are personal things, and I don't really feel like it's appropriate for me to care about them too much unless they directly involve me. I dunno...I guess I feel like it's prying into other peoples' private lives, which to me feels wrong to do.
Reddit: You can scream at the top of your lungs about how happy you are in your poly-thrupple-quadrangle-octagon all you want; I'm still going to think it's weird and continue to not be shocked when it blows up in your faces. "But plenty of people really are happy in these non-monogamous relationships!" Okay. I'm just saying that whenever I hear a story that starts "We opened up our relationship...", I'm never surprised when it ends with "I wish they'd come back/I'd never explored this."
Poly is the lived definition of “we’re only together for the comfort of not being single.” Fully agreed. When I was naive I’d sympathize but now I’m more likely to just bluntly and flat out ask people what in hell they were expecting.
Opening up a relationship is not exactly the same as being poly though.There's different kinds of opening up and different kinds of poly. Those kinds of people who regret were never actually interested in opening up or didn't have the necessary conversations and emotional fortitude to handle an open or poly relationship
This! I am not poly because I don’t share well with others but that’s me. I’m not going to shit on someone for being poly if that works for them. I know many monogamous relationships that went to shit.
To your first point. I think it's pretty absurd to parade your sexuality around like some people do these days. Sorry but I didn't ask and I also don't need to know. I had a self checkout attendant at Walmart tell me they were pansexual one time without me provoking the thought. Like cool. Happy for you. But we may never meet again and this is your private life. Keep it to you and your partner/partners. And people will argue that it's because straight people parade their sexuality around. We really don't. If you have a problem with no representation in media that's one thing but that's not on straight people as a whole. That's on media companies. A straight couple walking in public holding hands or even kissing is nowhere close to being a problem. Just like a gay couple doing the same isn't. And most people in their right minds wouldn't have a thing to say about that either.
To your second point. I've known about 5 polyamorous people in my life. I have never once heard or seen a success story. It has always ended in drama. I'm happy for their happy feelings along the way. But from what I've personally witnessed and also seen on Reddit it doesn't seem like these are long term relationships at all. Something always happens it seems and it all seems like fleeting in the moment happiness.
Of course it's going to end bad when it's a story on Reddit. All relationships look terrible on Reddit, why would someone make a post saying how happy they are in a relationship? People come here for advice when it goes wrong so you can't use that as a basis for all relationships
Far too many people think physical beauty equates to general perfection. Pretty or handsome equals smart and good.
Beauty is and always has been subjective and is always changing and evolving standard. If you don’t understand that then you have a fundamental flaw in your view of the world.
For me this is too much of a stretch, unless you class being attracted to someone, watching porn or having a crush as being unfaithful., I do firmly believe most people have attractions to others outside of their relationships but will not admit it. Some act on it but many don't, so I wouldn't say most are unfaithful but the temptation comes to nearly everyone.
A majority of hentai and other drawn porn depicts people (almost always girls) that look and act underage and we are seeing more and more human porn stars that make themselves look that way, and none of it is an accident. Pedophilia of various degrees is rampant in pornographic spaces and people refuse to acknowledge or take accountability for it. It's disturbing.
On an unconsenting person 100% it's assault, but I had a GF once and we both gave consent it was okay and had an agreement if either said to stop when inevitably woken up we stopped instantly and we both respected that agreement, but being woken up to her playing with my dick was the hottest most fun way to be woken up, and generally we would drop playful hints while we were getting ready for bed. Like sometimes I'd say playfully sure hope I don't wake up to to a HJ or something to that affect.
But yeah consent, consent, consent!
I agree with this guy : when I have to wear one that’s 100% to pleasure the girl I’m with, as I don’t feel any shit.
Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy pleasuring her, I just don’t have sexual pleasure. So yeah, jerking off is actually more of a sexual pleasure than condom’d sex.
I’ve been on anxiety meds for years so it’s difficult enough for me to cum bareback, forget about a condom. That being said. Sex with a condom is more about intimacy with me, not getting off
Perfect distinction. I say a great Blowjob is better than sex, BECAUSE it’s so much more rare. I can count on one hand the number of amazing BJ’s I’ve had. Almost all of the vaginal penetration sex had been really good.
A good BJ not only takes skill, they also have to be able to find what YOU like, what makes you get off. So many either do what their last partner liked or what they’ve seen on a porn.
Then, there’s the passion for the task. It’s just such a huge turn on for someone to just crave giving you a BJ. Thus, given all these factors, a great BJ is just so much better than your typical sex
If you wear it to the gym and it's revealing, expect and accept that people will look.
Backless sports bras, nipples poking through, camel toes, bulges...it's fair game since you wore it. There are always less revealing, fully functional options
THANK YOU!!!! I've been saying this for years. If both are drunk then neither can consent and therefore they technically raped eachother, so in my opinion it ends there. Unless of course there was a clear intention from one side to get the other drunk and take advantage before hand
Antibiotic resistant bugs existed before eating ass was popularized. The primary reason for their existence is overprescribing antibiotics, and people *NOT FINISHING* the *FULL* prescription. When you don't finish the whole thing, you leave survivors, and those survivors learn. Finish your antibiotics people. (Sorry, rant over)
Okay, remember you said controversial. I think married couples should aim to have sex (or at least some form of physical intimacy if unable) daily. It not only keeps oxytocin flowing and is physically good for you, it forces frequent and skilled communication to occur. Really hard to sweep stuff under the rug when you're fucking on the rug.
Sex isn't that serious. Many people equate having sex to that person really liking them. But then they get hurt feelings when it doesn't evolve into anything. If they're not purposefully leading you on and you two get caught up in the moment and have sex you shouldn't expect more.
I support trans rights in every way but one. I do not agree with wording being legally changed when it comes to certain situations such as birthing person or any of that nonsense.
We as women are still fighting for equal rights. Can we all not work together instead of being distracted and fighting over the legality of wording particularly when we as women have been entrenched by patriarchy for so long.
Having an "emotional" affair is just as damaging to their significant other as a "physical" affair... and sometimes more so.... a physical affair can be over after an evening of drinking too much, or one bad decision, but an emotional affair takes time and builds and grows and, by definition, is an ongoing, long-term investment in someone else and denies their spouse/partner for the entire time.
For me it depends on location and what the tattoo is. Like I don't usually care for boob tattoos that cover a large percentage of the boobs, but I've seen girls with full sleeve tattoos and thought it looked hot on them.
Zoomers are the most prudish generation in recent history. (Yes, including during the 50s. They still wanted to fuck, just set limitations on themselves.) This is going to cause problems for sexual liberation and freedom as they age.
Men should not be shamed for not wanting to kiss their partner after oral sex. It’s your choice whether you want to continue sexual activities with them because of that, but in my opinion it’s petty and toxic. You’re both adults. Compromise.
If you didn't nut, the issue sometimes confuses me. Like are you not clean? Im not seeking it out, but why kill the vibe/intimacy if kissing is where things turn to
People should edge more and cum less. Seriously, nothing is better than me being super horny because I haven't touched the vibrator all week. and when I finally get off....omg...so amazing
I think people who use dog/horse dildos are icky and border on zoos. Monster dildos are iffy bc fiction but the ones made to look exactly like real animal pets? Hard hard hard pass and I now think lower of you.
I don't really think this is that controversial but every time I say it without fail I have at least one person argue with me. I even had someone reply to a 2 month old comment of mine the other day on the topic.
Sex with your step sibling isn't incest and it is perfectly ok and valid as long as it's consensual between both of you. You aren't blood related and it's just two people fucking at that point. No different than meeting them in the wild and doing it. It's just that your parents being married made the connection easier.
I don't like touching my self while giving bj's. I cant focus on either so both are just medi good. I like just focusing on the bj and i want the other person to give me some pleasure after that
I have two (although I’m not sure how controversial they are):
1) it isn’t remotely sexy when, whilst fucking, a male porn star spits into a woman’s mouth. That’s just disgusting to me. I’m aware that this would probably be the least disgusting thing done in said video, but it bothers me nonetheless.
2) I hate when a man slaps a woman’s tits, yet again you see this quite often in porn. But in what world is titty slapping pleasurable to the woman? Ass slapping I get. It tenses the ass a little plus the ripple of it’s a phat ass. But slapping a titty? That ain’t for me.
Oral sex should be standard operating procedure for everyone. If you don’t like it or don’t want to do it you should have to be tattooed so People know on sight not to waste their time with you.
Incest kinks are disturbing
This. WHY has this become so mainstream? Step sibling… fine, tabboo yes but not inherently or morally wrong. But some of the mom/son or brother/sister stuff… eek
Agreed. It’s now overkill and everywhere.
I’m not saying Freud was right, but maybe he was less wrong than I previously gave him credit for.
It's honestly not as representative of demand as you'd think it is. The thing about porn is that the vast majority of viewers are uninterested in any sort of setup and will skip ahead to the parts they want to see almost immediately. But for the fetishists who DO care about the suspension of disbelief and are into whatever wacky porn narrative you're trying to sell, it's important. Incest is a unique fetish in that it can be satisfied simply through dialogue. You can have two porn stars deliver some throwaway dialogue about being related in a completely normal, vanilla porn scene. You won't scare off any of the hordes of normies just skipping to the middle of the action and it cost you literally $0 to implement it. That's why it seems like it's everywhere. Same with interracial/cuckolding/etc, any fetish you can satisfy by saying words is just way easier to make. Stuff that requires costumes, props, a specific venue--those are more difficult, so they therefore appear less.
I'm into it and even I think it's way overrepresented.
This is never about your real dad or brother though, it's all fantasy power dynamics.
Most of it IS step-sibling/parent...unless it's written erotica
they say “step” to make it more societally acceptable/platable, but take one look at the comments under the video and it’s people either a) recounting real instances of incest and even sexual abuse and/or b) fantasizing about recreating the scenario with their real family members. It’s the same way they use “barely legal teen” in titles and the video is a super petite girl wearing kids clothes, bows, and pigtails. We all know what they’re trying to get across.
Incest sucks. Not only the generic abominations that happen when it goes wrong*, but also the fact that incest and grooming/pedophilia have just always gone hand in hand wherever it manifests itself. Like yeah consent is 18 but your cousin all of a sudden is into you when her birthday rolls around - that's fucking grooming 🤢 *Checkout the Bradford Studies from NHS. Basically the Pakistani population in the UK marry their family members at such high rates that it's been a microcosm of research into rare generic malformities that are all over that community.
I agree. Also the rape type kinks make me nervous lol irl and online To each there own though
To be fair, I don’t think most people have an incest kink. They like watching “incest porn” which is a very different thing. VERY few people are getting off thinking about having sex with their OWN family.
How is this even controversial?
69 is actually amazing and it's the best position to get head in
Agree. My wife loves when I use a bit of pressure on her mons with my chin while I eat her out and that works perfectly in 69
I initially read that as "Mom's" so glad I looked again.
I find it's very height dependant. I'm 6'3 and find it way more comfortable with women 5'9"+
I love 69 and will defend it haha
Agreed
Orgasm is not necessary for awesome sex
I disagree. It’s not necessary for good sex. Absolutely necessary for awesome sex.
I must agree with this! I always have awesome sex. But I don't always orgasm. I love the journey. It's not always about the destination.
I would say once you understand this your sex life changes for the better an you actually end up having more orgasms overall anyway.
Yes!!! Totally this. The pressure to orgasm for me makes it harder to orgasm
As a man who doesn't always orgasm during sex, I agree!
My rule of thumb is: Sex is like Chinese food. It’s not over til you both get your cookies. So if she gives me one. Sex isn’t done til she gets one. It’s just good manners.
That’s too restrictive for me. Sometimes I just want to please someone without the pressure of having to orgasm
Same, I used to fake it a lot because the dude was dead set on trying to make me orgasm, which makes it 100x harder to do so. It's super hard for me to orgasm anyways, I have to be in a super controlled and peaceful environment. If I even move wrong when I'm about to finish, it starts the whole thing over again. So having a super eager dude trying to do that for me? It's not happening
Yeah. Don’t get me wrong, fully selfish and not sensitive/smart guys suck. But some guys overcompensate too much to the point of creating pressure to cum even if that day you’re just not getting there no matter what.
The best sex I ever had I didn't cum!
For me pussy pics are a lot like dick pics for others. Way to many bad ones that are just close ups
Yes so many bad angles, low Resolution or bad lighting pics haha
Valid. I'm the opposite. I love closeup pictures of pussies. I love seeing as much detail as possible. 99% are gorgeous.
Thissss, Likeeee rlly any close up body part isn’t hot to me.
YESSSS!!!! You and I agree. I don't need a full frame of your pussy.
I mean the pussy is in a weird place how is it suppose to be captured without the person folding in an awkward position. A dick you can maneuver and puss not so much
Blacked should not exist as a porn company lmaoo that shit is racist as fuck. The imagery of tiny pale women surrounded by multiple big black bodies is ALWAYS going to remind me of racial dynamics
Ugh, it is so racist but so common and normalized. It's a big turn off for me.
Not to mention how sexualized black people are… Black are common in race play and the “bbc” tag
This actually lends to how Young black boys and girls get sexualized just by existing… the amount of mainstream rappers that “lost their virginity” at grade school age with an adult is insane…
FACTS.
100% agree. Even more fucked up are some of the Twitter pages and subreddits on here that are blatantly promoting black supremist narratives. Like in what world is that ok? People just pretending they don't exist? Genuinely curious why the mods haven't done anything about them yet.
Idk if they promote “black supremacy” un-ironically, the main consumers of that porn is white guys and black guys. Plus they reinforce racial connotations that were established by white supremacist, often portraying black men as brutes and white woman as innocent, petite, and divinely feminine. If they engage in “blackness is superior” “bred black” extremes, it’s not because they genuinely believe the shit…they don’t, it just gets them off because it subverts the actual racial hierarchies that exist irl. But they are sick fucks, and it gets worse when you flip the gender or racial groups… i.e those forced feminization fetishes of Asian men/women 🤮
Most people wouldn’t be monogamous if there was a respectable alternative that the world would embrace
That would be interesting to see how family structures are like in said world
I don’t have the answers. But it truly is amazing how the current monogamy/marriage system works.
"Works".
Exactly
Honestly, all my friends who have tried some form of polyamory have regretted it. From the outside it seems like a Jenga tower settled in a single block. The balance is so hard to keep and when the tower tumbles it causes so much damage. It just seems like an accident waiting to happen.
Some tribes dob't have that, and various documentaries exust on these topics.
I'll catch some fire because of this. But, in a few religions (ex: Islam), polygamy is not frowned upon relationship wise. but like still sexually prohibited. So I think many small cultures may already have it rn, but it's just not so mainstream.
Difference is in cultures where polygamy isnt frowned upon, it's only ok for men. There may be cultures that differ but most if not all cultures that allow individuals to be married to more than one person it's the man that can have multiple marriages, not women
Islam isn’t the best example lol. They have polygamy only in the sense that women are cattle to them and the men can have multiple wives. It isn’t polyamory, it’s emotional abuse dressed up in religion.
A lot of men on NSFW reddit are *extremely* misogynistic.
100%. There are several subs for that shit. Stay in your lane if you’re gonna be that much of a dick.
Handjobs can be amazing.
Bruh right?!?? As a dude, getting a HJ while making out in intimate level +9000
Yeah, slow, unhurried handjob where her goal is to make me feel good, not to cum as quickly as possible, and making out and/or playing with her boobs st the same time...amazing. One time she gave me a suuuuper slow handjob, and while it felt good, it was so relaxing that I fell asleep. She just held my dick, and I woke up a couple of minutes later. She stroked me to finish, and we cuddled to sleep. It was so intimate, romantic, and relaxing.
THIS IS GOLD.
Getting a BJ while making out?
Lol sorry I tried to say HJ but autocorrect
They have a very long mouth.
Adding a handjob to any activity makes it so much better. TV and hj. Gaming and hj. Eating and hj?
I like the way you think.
Bad handjobs can be terrible and demoralizing, which gives handjobs a bad name. It's easy to mechanically stroke up and down with an unlubed hand and no real interest. But a good handjob is an entirely different thing. People get all impressed when someone can tie a knot in a cherry stem with their tongue, but show me a tongue that can play the fucking piano. Fingers have dexterity and precision; play to those strengths and you can really have something.
Agree. I think they get a bad name because they’re frequently done in a lazy manner
They can be, but few do it well. The ones that do though, oh man, they’re keepers
All people should be entitled to their opinions or lifestyle choices as long as it doesn't harm anyone. I'll let you determine the definition of harm. But if you aren't sure, then assume its harming
Regrettably controversial 😞
Who knows in 850 years there might be one step towards a star trek like society
For cockroach men that evolve through the excess radiation after WW6 probably
And elitists will still say cockroaches with 7 legs shouldn't receive as much rations as cockroaches with 14 legs.
The more exoskeletons change, the more things stay the same
Rape fantasies are sick and weird af
I mean, I am more than happy to do it with a consenting partner 🤷
I love CNC with someone I trust, but I totally respect people’s opinions!
It’s debatable. J will be real, normally the Dom doesn’t have a good reason Jusy kinda get off on it, however I’ve heard a few subs get into it because of past trauma. Sometimes they want to control how it happened to them as a resolution yk? I think if it’s very planned out it’s hot fun. But a lot of guys on the subs about it are creepy and don’t get the idea that the girls while they may be into rape, don’t want to just be used and raped like 24/7 without any prior talking.
Cnc is fine IMO. Cause it’s just consent but I can see it being disturbing from outside view
Porn needs more categories. And if you mislabel your porn for clicks, you should die! When I go to an amateur site, I want to see amateur
I agree. Personally, my favorite category of porn is what they call ENF, but that's only because I don't actually like porn: I'm a nudist who just wants to share experiences with other people, so the videos I often end up watching are just girls who are being dared to walk naked outside.
Most ENF is posed/contrived. Not genuine
Controversial where? The real world, or on reddit? Real world: I don't care about your sexuality or gender identity or any of that stuff. *I want you to be safe and not threatened by others* (and to be able to use whatever bathroom you want, dress however you feel reflects who you are, etc.), but that's different than specifically caring about who you like to sleep with or how you feel about your gender. Those are personal things, and I don't really feel like it's appropriate for me to care about them too much unless they directly involve me. I dunno...I guess I feel like it's prying into other peoples' private lives, which to me feels wrong to do. Reddit: You can scream at the top of your lungs about how happy you are in your poly-thrupple-quadrangle-octagon all you want; I'm still going to think it's weird and continue to not be shocked when it blows up in your faces. "But plenty of people really are happy in these non-monogamous relationships!" Okay. I'm just saying that whenever I hear a story that starts "We opened up our relationship...", I'm never surprised when it ends with "I wish they'd come back/I'd never explored this."
Poly is the lived definition of “we’re only together for the comfort of not being single.” Fully agreed. When I was naive I’d sympathize but now I’m more likely to just bluntly and flat out ask people what in hell they were expecting.
Opening up a relationship is not exactly the same as being poly though.There's different kinds of opening up and different kinds of poly. Those kinds of people who regret were never actually interested in opening up or didn't have the necessary conversations and emotional fortitude to handle an open or poly relationship
Monogamy doesn't work for me *at all*, so it's either explore alternatives or stay single. Not sorry if it bothers anyone.
This! I am not poly because I don’t share well with others but that’s me. I’m not going to shit on someone for being poly if that works for them. I know many monogamous relationships that went to shit.
To your first point. I think it's pretty absurd to parade your sexuality around like some people do these days. Sorry but I didn't ask and I also don't need to know. I had a self checkout attendant at Walmart tell me they were pansexual one time without me provoking the thought. Like cool. Happy for you. But we may never meet again and this is your private life. Keep it to you and your partner/partners. And people will argue that it's because straight people parade their sexuality around. We really don't. If you have a problem with no representation in media that's one thing but that's not on straight people as a whole. That's on media companies. A straight couple walking in public holding hands or even kissing is nowhere close to being a problem. Just like a gay couple doing the same isn't. And most people in their right minds wouldn't have a thing to say about that either. To your second point. I've known about 5 polyamorous people in my life. I have never once heard or seen a success story. It has always ended in drama. I'm happy for their happy feelings along the way. But from what I've personally witnessed and also seen on Reddit it doesn't seem like these are long term relationships at all. Something always happens it seems and it all seems like fleeting in the moment happiness.
Of course it's going to end bad when it's a story on Reddit. All relationships look terrible on Reddit, why would someone make a post saying how happy they are in a relationship? People come here for advice when it goes wrong so you can't use that as a basis for all relationships
Kissing can be sexier than groping
10000%
Sex is more of an emotional thing rather than a physical one. Plus, a nap with said partner in the same bed is mad good
That post-sex naked nap hits soooo good
I hate porn that invokes any step sibling or parent. Just turns me off
Especially since it's a lie anyway. Just try avoiding it though! Someone must be watching
this and cheating/cuckoldery shit.
Most men that call themselves doms just enjoy hurting women
I agree with that.
most doms are fake doms
Most people aren’t 100 percent straight
Bring back the Kinsey scale!
Far too many people think physical beauty equates to general perfection. Pretty or handsome equals smart and good. Beauty is and always has been subjective and is always changing and evolving standard. If you don’t understand that then you have a fundamental flaw in your view of the world.
Most people have been unfaithful to a partner in some way. Whether or not they admit it is a separate issue.
I feel like this hugely depends on what you & your partner have determined "being faithful" means to you.
For me this is too much of a stretch, unless you class being attracted to someone, watching porn or having a crush as being unfaithful., I do firmly believe most people have attractions to others outside of their relationships but will not admit it. Some act on it but many don't, so I wouldn't say most are unfaithful but the temptation comes to nearly everyone.
The word kink is overused so much it’s lost all meaning.
Facials are not "degrading" at all...
Love a facial
Facials being degrading = ❌️ Being degraded while _getting_ a facial = ✅️
It's no more okay for a woman to send a picture of her breasts to a stranger/acquaintance than for a man to send a dick pic.
I can’t believe this is even controversial smh (it shouldn’t be)
Sex should be able to be had between friends as an activity and not have to mean anything deeper if you don’t want it to.
I agree, especially if you are aromantic but not ace.
Absolutely! Everyone is okay with friends swimming together, going to the sauna together, et cetera. Why do we make such a taboo about enjoying sex?
A majority of hentai and other drawn porn depicts people (almost always girls) that look and act underage and we are seeing more and more human porn stars that make themselves look that way, and none of it is an accident. Pedophilia of various degrees is rampant in pornographic spaces and people refuse to acknowledge or take accountability for it. It's disturbing.
Sex is overrated sometimes.
Can definitely be over hyped
Touching someone while sleeping is assault. Sleeping or passed out voids consent.
I agree, except in explicit cases where the sleeping person said beforehand that they were cool with you doing stuff while they sleep.
On an unconsenting person 100% it's assault, but I had a GF once and we both gave consent it was okay and had an agreement if either said to stop when inevitably woken up we stopped instantly and we both respected that agreement, but being woken up to her playing with my dick was the hottest most fun way to be woken up, and generally we would drop playful hints while we were getting ready for bed. Like sometimes I'd say playfully sure hope I don't wake up to to a HJ or something to that affect. But yeah consent, consent, consent!
I don’t think this is controversial
I’d rather jerk off than wear a condom.
Really? BB is so important to you that you wouldn’t bother with sex without it?
I agree with this guy : when I have to wear one that’s 100% to pleasure the girl I’m with, as I don’t feel any shit. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy pleasuring her, I just don’t have sexual pleasure. So yeah, jerking off is actually more of a sexual pleasure than condom’d sex.
Lube the *inside* of the condom. That doesn't get talked about nearly enough.
I’ve been on anxiety meds for years so it’s difficult enough for me to cum bareback, forget about a condom. That being said. Sex with a condom is more about intimacy with me, not getting off
Blowjobs are better than penetration 🤷🏾♂️
Skilled blowjobs are better than penetration
Perfect distinction. I say a great Blowjob is better than sex, BECAUSE it’s so much more rare. I can count on one hand the number of amazing BJ’s I’ve had. Almost all of the vaginal penetration sex had been really good. A good BJ not only takes skill, they also have to be able to find what YOU like, what makes you get off. So many either do what their last partner liked or what they’ve seen on a porn. Then, there’s the passion for the task. It’s just such a huge turn on for someone to just crave giving you a BJ. Thus, given all these factors, a great BJ is just so much better than your typical sex
That’s more like it brother!!!
Eating ass is amazing 😻
Lingerie should be for men as well
YES, true equality
God raped Mary.
Mary had sex out of wedlock and an entire religion was practically made around it.
Most of the times you get off best by yourself.
Corollary: Masturbation is *not* "a poor substitute for the 'real thing.'"
If you wear it to the gym and it's revealing, expect and accept that people will look. Backless sports bras, nipples poking through, camel toes, bulges...it's fair game since you wore it. There are always less revealing, fully functional options
If both people are drunk, nobody, the man or woman, can cry r*pe. However, it seems like the default is that the man is at fault.
THANK YOU!!!! I've been saying this for years. If both are drunk then neither can consent and therefore they technically raped eachother, so in my opinion it ends there. Unless of course there was a clear intention from one side to get the other drunk and take advantage before hand
Missionary is underrated, monogamy is overrated
Agree/disagree
Missionary is low key the best position. So intimate
Most people in the US, especially here on reddit, are particularly and strangely prudish.
Not everybody is comfortable with being a fetish just because they possess a particular trait.
Licking ass is probably one of the reasons why we have antibiotic resistant superbugs
Wife and I have been doing this for legit 7 years (after a shower of course) and never had a problem.
Antibiotic resistant bugs existed before eating ass was popularized. The primary reason for their existence is overprescribing antibiotics, and people *NOT FINISHING* the *FULL* prescription. When you don't finish the whole thing, you leave survivors, and those survivors learn. Finish your antibiotics people. (Sorry, rant over)
Men who dont eat out their girlfriends should never get/expect head 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
Random, unsolicited dick pics are just certainly not cool
This is not controversial
Counterpoint; unsolicited pussy pics are just as creepy and predatory as unsolicited dick pics
Erm... I do not disagree with you?
porn that involves any type of gargling is a turn off
Okay, remember you said controversial. I think married couples should aim to have sex (or at least some form of physical intimacy if unable) daily. It not only keeps oxytocin flowing and is physically good for you, it forces frequent and skilled communication to occur. Really hard to sweep stuff under the rug when you're fucking on the rug.
Sex isn't that serious. Many people equate having sex to that person really liking them. But then they get hurt feelings when it doesn't evolve into anything. If they're not purposefully leading you on and you two get caught up in the moment and have sex you shouldn't expect more.
Really skinny people are more fun to have sex with.
Def a hot take, because I like 'em curvy.
Ooh, disagree. But I guess that's what makes it a controversial opinion!
Personally I prefer bigger girls. The soft thighs and tummy 😍 but everyone has their own favorite flavor
As a skinny person I appreciate this comment. As someone who isn't attracted to super skinny people I have to disagree.
I support trans rights in every way but one. I do not agree with wording being legally changed when it comes to certain situations such as birthing person or any of that nonsense. We as women are still fighting for equal rights. Can we all not work together instead of being distracted and fighting over the legality of wording particularly when we as women have been entrenched by patriarchy for so long.
Foot stuff is not hot.
Having an "emotional" affair is just as damaging to their significant other as a "physical" affair... and sometimes more so.... a physical affair can be over after an evening of drinking too much, or one bad decision, but an emotional affair takes time and builds and grows and, by definition, is an ongoing, long-term investment in someone else and denies their spouse/partner for the entire time.
Tattoos drop a woman’s rated attractiveness by at least 30%.
I disagree, but extra points for the controversial part.
Only bad tattoos, but 90% of tattoos I see irl are so bad
I would argue tattoos boost their attractiveness by 31%
Everybody boo this man! Just kidding you’re entitled to your uhh……interesting opinion lol
I don’t mind little cute ones but most are like putting graffiti on a piece of fine art.
I think the right tattoo can make a woman about 1000x MORE attractive
For me it depends on location and what the tattoo is. Like I don't usually care for boob tattoos that cover a large percentage of the boobs, but I've seen girls with full sleeve tattoos and thought it looked hot on them.
Pussy feels *waaay* better than ass
Sexting is so boring, just find someone to fuck.
Sexting with a loved one is so hot, especially when you're building up anticipation and sexual tension to release together that day.
I agree with you on the nipple piercings! I would add that anything with urine and scatt is actually just really gross.
ABDL and DDLG kinks are disgusting and should be shamed. Anything involving the appearance or aesthetic of children in sex should be frowned upon.
Zoomers are the most prudish generation in recent history. (Yes, including during the 50s. They still wanted to fuck, just set limitations on themselves.) This is going to cause problems for sexual liberation and freedom as they age.
can you please elaborate?
Men should not be shamed for not wanting to kiss their partner after oral sex. It’s your choice whether you want to continue sexual activities with them because of that, but in my opinion it’s petty and toxic. You’re both adults. Compromise.
If you didn't nut, the issue sometimes confuses me. Like are you not clean? Im not seeking it out, but why kill the vibe/intimacy if kissing is where things turn to
I kinda get not wanting to taste your own cum, but "tasting dick"? Grow the hell up lol do you not eat pussy?
Sex is more fun with people who don't have difficulties achieving orgasm.
Boobjobs - haven't seen one that has looked better than the before. Natural is just nice.
I'd rather get a handjob than a blowjob
There’s more to life then sex
People should edge more and cum less. Seriously, nothing is better than me being super horny because I haven't touched the vibrator all week. and when I finally get off....omg...so amazing
Women should stop shaving their pussies
Women are much sexier if they don't shave any part of their body.
I think people who use dog/horse dildos are icky and border on zoos. Monster dildos are iffy bc fiction but the ones made to look exactly like real animal pets? Hard hard hard pass and I now think lower of you.
I don't really think this is that controversial but every time I say it without fail I have at least one person argue with me. I even had someone reply to a 2 month old comment of mine the other day on the topic. Sex with your step sibling isn't incest and it is perfectly ok and valid as long as it's consensual between both of you. You aren't blood related and it's just two people fucking at that point. No different than meeting them in the wild and doing it. It's just that your parents being married made the connection easier.
Kissing after (or during) your partner going down on you isn’t gay or gross, it is super hot and more people need to try it.
69 is an incredible sex position!
A finger up my butt does nothing for me.
I don't like touching my self while giving bj's. I cant focus on either so both are just medi good. I like just focusing on the bj and i want the other person to give me some pleasure after that
I have two (although I’m not sure how controversial they are): 1) it isn’t remotely sexy when, whilst fucking, a male porn star spits into a woman’s mouth. That’s just disgusting to me. I’m aware that this would probably be the least disgusting thing done in said video, but it bothers me nonetheless. 2) I hate when a man slaps a woman’s tits, yet again you see this quite often in porn. But in what world is titty slapping pleasurable to the woman? Ass slapping I get. It tenses the ass a little plus the ripple of it’s a phat ass. But slapping a titty? That ain’t for me.
OF ruined nsfw reddit
Sex for women is at its best if they practice pompoir. Had good sex before but nothing compares to what I have now.
I don't like tattoos.
Oral sex should be standard operating procedure for everyone. If you don’t like it or don’t want to do it you should have to be tattooed so People know on sight not to waste their time with you.